I was seeing a girl, we fell out over an issue of her past, that I wrongly judged her on. She ended things and I tried to get back with her. She was unsure and because I felt I was being strung along, I lost my temper and said things things I should not. She is now not speaking to me and things of me as the most judgemental person she has known. She is ignoring my text and mail.
How to I get her back talking so that I can let her see that the opinion she has of me is wrong. I am not the person she thinks I am.
This is a long distance relationship, which made it harder to simply discuss and resolve things. Any advice on how to get her talking to me again ?
2006-12-28 08:40:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-28 08:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Araphan T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may end up getting a court order against you if you keep trying to communicate with her when she has made it clear that she doesn't want to communicate with you.
The best thing to do is write her one single postcard saying you love her, that you were completely in the wrong, and that losing her is the worst mistake you ever made, that she should write or call if she has any interest in getting back together, and that out of respect for her wishes you won't try to contact her again unless she initiates it.
Then once you mail that stop trying to contact her and hope for the best.
2006-12-28 08:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Andy F. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends on if there is a history of you guys not having a good past.
Leave her a voice message since she probably won't answer your call, explain that you care about her and that your sorry, and put the blame on you, and ask her if she will try again. Ask for a second chance, if you screw up again, then let her know you will move on.
Send her a gift.
2006-12-28 08:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Answers and Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother, move along. If something in her past bugged you once, it will continue to bother you. Plus the fact that it is a long distance thing. Get someone local.
2006-12-28 08:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's really that into you, she'll forgive you. If she isn't, she's using it as an excuse not to talk to you. You will never change her opinion of you, no matter what you do!
2006-12-28 23:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Female O ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably F--cked. Words are very Strong and they hurt. Alot of men don't know that. Just be careful in the future of what you say to a women. I strongly don't think she will be talking to you any time soon.
2006-12-28 08:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Latin Beauty 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do something sweet like sending her flowers and stuff. But don't pester.
2006-12-28 08:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by jesusfreak_200513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She needs time to think, if it's meant to be she'll come back.
2006-12-28 08:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by melly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take out a full size ad in the local newspaper proclaiming your intentions and ask her to forgive you. : )
Best wishes and God Bless!
2006-12-28 08:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Buff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u see new year's comin up dude, call her and tell her a 'appy new year yo n tell 'a u'll like to see her face and at least 'ava one to one only fi dat day yo, she might wanna... if she doesn't, I'm sorry..... :-(
2006-12-28 08:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by big brotha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must somehow gain her trust back, I mean come on just simply tell her or explain to her that you just didnt understand and trust me it will help to tell her that you did act like a sself centered JERK!!!!
Good Luck
2006-12-28 08:46:35 · answer #11 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋