Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I have an 8yo who has only met his biological father a few times, as we lost contact after i became pregnant, i finally tracked him down after four years, at first he was really kind and eager to meet his son, but then just cut off llike a switch...i havnt put any pressure on him, yet he has decided until a dna test is done he doesnt want to take part in his life, only problam is i cannot afford the test and he wont help pay for it...so i the meantime my son is losing out on knowing his dad, he wants to know things about his fathers side of the family history even tho he doesnt know his father, its a natural curiosity and i feel he deserves to know this as they are part of the same blood? His father wont share any info at all except for the dribs and drabs i knew of him when we were together nearly 9 years ago...what do i do?

I have also made it clear i do NOT want any child support or anything like that from him, just his input in his life, at least some info and photos ect...

2006-12-28 09:11:55 · 10 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family

Should I move on or should I keep holding on or making attempts at mending the relationship?

2006-12-28 09:11:52 · 10 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend doesn't like me chatting with my male friends online...well infact any of my friends!!he cn't tolerate me wearing short skirts..if i drink,he gets pissed off...he fixes my top whn just a tiny bit of my bra strap shows..if his friends send me a friend request on any sites,he says not to accept it...i dnt wat the hell is wrong with him...its become so bad,that lately we have been fighting non-stop abt it..and now when i say something to him,to prove the reason for my actions(once i put the phone down coz my dad woke up in the middle of the nite)...he askes me if i'm telling him the truth or not...

2006-12-28 09:11:32 · 14 answers · asked by pappin 2 in Singles & Dating

is it ok if i ask a girl who has a bf but not here(Canada ) but in Germany for a date?(like a movie or dinner)...does that mean we'r gonna be gf and bf ? i just want to spend sometimes with her !
what would she think if i ask her ?(she is an international student and she's gonna leave here in summer)

2006-12-28 09:11:01 · 21 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

i want to call my friend on her mobile and i don`t know the key the should be before the number , can anyone help?

2006-12-28 09:10:55 · 5 answers · asked by mr_ h 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:09:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I give massages for a small fee, and everyone that I have given one to enjoys them. My wifes friends mother enjoyed it a little to much. First she wanted a five minute shoulder rub, than a ten minute back rub. Than she wanted a foot rub and than a full body rub down. With the full body clothes need to be removed some what. Than she wanted me to remove my clothes so that she can rub on me. She knows that I am married. I thought she was joking but she so forreal. I spoke to her about this but she thinks I am just flirting with her. She a very pretty lady and any single man would have jumped all over her but I am married and happy. Business has picked up well due to her word of mouth.Should I tell the wife and friend or leave it alone? She pays very well and leaves good tips. Someone please help me.

2006-12-28 09:09:21 · 6 answers · asked by big bear 3 in Friends

guys have/would you taste your own spunk?

2006-12-28 09:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

I am single. I really care about this guy who I have been talking on and off for almost two years. I date other people but it does not go very far because all I do is compare these new guys to the one (that is unavailable). It is not fair to the new guys and I am heart broken over this guy that can't give me what I need. I want it to stop. But I am not sure what the first move is. HELP!

2006-12-28 09:08:56 · 18 answers · asked by Christina C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:07:18 · 18 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:07:05 · 10 answers · asked by texas nanna 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 3 months but dating for 4 months...When we first met he was with another girl but we ended up getting together and they broke up immediately after we met..Anyways I argue with my BF ALL THE TIME!! We bicker- we talk about his ex and what they did together and how it pisses me off etc. I don't know why but I Just cant let it go that he was with her it just disgusts me so bad (she was a really big girl) anyways..I dont know but our relationship is pretty much ruined. In the initial beginning of our relationship after we had first slept together I found out he was still keeping in contact with her which is what I think pissed me off about that situation because I just felt she was so gross and i'm not so shouldn't he be excited to be with me now? Either way we had a trip planned but now were not going cuz I cant get over that he took his ex to mexico also...Do you think we should just end it if we argue all the time??? He now thinks im a psycho B!!!

2006-12-28 09:06:51 · 31 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:06:40 · 19 answers · asked by jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

After my first kiss, my boyfriend expected more from me. What? What's more than kissing? Did anybody else felt like this? When we wwere in our date, he kept looking at my skirt. What do I do??????

2006-12-28 09:06:39 · 8 answers · asked by lydomg 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have known each other since second grade. we sarted going out in sixth grade. everything has been perfect until now. i am starting to like another guy and i dont have as much feelings for my bf.he gave me a gift for christmas that does not help one bit, it tells me that he still loves me as much as when we started going out. but the other guy im starting to love and he said he loves me. we hug every day. he always makes me laugh. and got me a gift for no reason.. if u have been through this please help
and if u just have advice thanks in advance
well i hope i get an answer ( im in 9th grade)

2006-12-28 09:05:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a wonderful man ( who happens to be married). This man is in love with me(even though he is married). There is a friend of ours that is in love with me and has told me that he wants to be with me and that he wants me as his. He is a very good friend and there is a slight attraction there on my side. What should I do? Do I g

2006-12-28 09:04:53 · 5 answers · asked by redscarlet_witch 1 in Singles & Dating

i am tired of this..i have been in many realtionships..all short terms like 1month or 2 weeks..am just 19..but i feel sad..
all my friends n other girls have absolutely charming guys who love them..why cant i get some one like that?i am pretty(ppl say)..i have loads of guys asking me out(not in my league)..
it makes me sad..can i ever get the right guy?
who can be serious?who can be hot?who can love me?should i change something about me?
thnx 4 answering...

2006-12-28 09:04:11 · 11 answers · asked by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I am going out with a boy, and he is expecting a kiss from me. I'm nervous though. Which type of kiss is better??? Open-mouth or closed??? What should I wear??? A turtle-neck? Low shirt? What colors? Where is he going to take me? What is he going to do to me when I panic?

2006-12-28 09:03:48 · 17 answers · asked by lydomg 1 in Singles & Dating

This is not a feel sorry for me thread or a question. It is simply a comment.

I have been overweight most of my life and see that despite my kindness and generousnesses guys always talk to my skinny friends and not me.

I have even met big guys that "only" date skinny girls. What is up with that?

I have had a guy leave me for a girl who weighed 112 pounds.

I have been losing a lot of weight lately and will continue to do so. When I do, I will make all you shallow hearted men pay. I will ignore, I will talk to your friend if you try to talk to me, basically everything you have done to me. I might even stop liking men for the anger that is in my heart. I know big girls will understand this.

2006-12-28 09:03:41 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes cheated befor. and now he will not let me look at his phone. at all. in fact he hides it from me. some guys have told me that its just somthing that they dont want there girl to be looking at and others tell me that there is most likely a big problem. ive been with him for a long time and we have an 11 month old daughter and he clams to be 100% faithfull and that he would never do that to me agian. but im not to sure....

2006-12-28 09:03:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that youve given your heart away to someone and that there going
to break it?
i love my boyfriend dearly and last night he told me that he'd love me forever and wanted to be with me forever!!
he's going to university though next year and im so scared that its all going to end and im going to be left heartbroken!!
wat do you do when your so happy with someone?? and never want it to end but know it probably will!!!

2006-12-28 09:03:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and I have the same problem. A boy will say something like "We should hang out sometime." but its like if you agree, then they dont do anything.
But as soon as you begin to ignore them, they give you all the attention in the world!!
so wierd!!

2006-12-28 09:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what is wrong with me, whenever i see my grandmother i just want to bend down and sniff,rub,lick, and eat her feet, they are soo beautiful so soft so clean so shiny so painted! What can i do, what is wrong with me my grandmother has realized it, since she tests me by wiggling her soft toes, if she doesnt stop one of these days im just gonna jump and lick them, however this is against my religion for i am paki, what is wrong with me please help.

2006-12-28 09:02:37 · 5 answers · asked by mr.guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-28 09:02:33 · 1 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:02:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is my boss and we have been intimate with each other for almost a year. He said he felt like we were going to far so maybe we should stop. We are good friends too but recently he told me he is leaving the company and relocating to accomodate his promotion. I don't know ow to get pass this. Do I really love him or was it the excitment of having this type of relationship at work? To be behind closed doors and having sex on a desk where others are working right outside is such a rush. Maybe I am not in love, but I don't know. I guess it doesn't matter as we are both married. How do I just forget him?

2006-12-28 09:02:17 · 41 answers · asked by dazed_n_confuzed999 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Only when i am with 1 or 2 of my male friends , i feel like doin homosex with them and i don't feel like or do with any other also . And not to neglect i do sex with females also.. . So why do i get that feeling only towards that one or two?

2006-12-28 09:02:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of taking a 5 year pledge of celibacy.

2006-12-28 09:01:58 · 38 answers · asked by Panama Jack 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

im getting married july the 28th im really nervous already though im so excited too but whats really bothering me is i keep having sleepless nights and when i do get sleep i wake up remembering my dreams HELP !!!!

2006-12-28 09:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by joanne v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 09:00:32 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings