my boyfriend doesn't like me chatting with my male friends online...well infact any of my friends!!he cn't tolerate me wearing short skirts..if i drink,he gets pissed off...he fixes my top whn just a tiny bit of my bra strap shows..if his friends send me a friend request on any sites,he says not to accept it...i dnt wat the hell is wrong with him...its become so bad,that lately we have been fighting non-stop abt it..and now when i say something to him,to prove the reason for my actions(once i put the phone down coz my dad woke up in the middle of the nite)...he askes me if i'm telling him the truth or not...
2006-12-28 09:11:32 · 14 answers · asked by pappin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're getting married soon!!
2006-12-28 09:17:23 · update #1
He is totally insecure.
You have two basic options: try talking to him in order convince him that you are his and his alone or break up with him.
He does not own you and can not dictate your actions. If you continue to let him treat you this way it will only get worse.
2006-12-28 09:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is possessive and a loser. If he's controlling you that much now it will only get worse. If he does not want a girlfriend that drinks a little wears short skirts talks to guys and whatever else he should find himself another girl. He needs to grow up and get a life.
2006-12-28 17:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by bradley l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks he OWNS you and nobody deserves what you are going through. I can only think that you are under 25 because that is the age group where women really look to men to tell them what's what. You can decide how slutty you dress and the consequences that comes along with that. Ask your father what to do. I'm sure he'll tell you to dump the guy.
2006-12-28 17:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by allisoneast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont haldf to be a guy to anwser this ither! YOU NEED TO DUMP HIS ***!! He obviously has a guilty concious about something that he thinks that he di d something wrong so that imedietally puts you in the situation that you do it to!! He is also to jelous and if you dont dump him itll be like this the whole time your together and it will reuin your life, find a man that will let you do whatever, and not keep you tid up like a dog! And if you stay with him tell him you will do as you please and not as he tells you to do he ant yo boss hunny!
2006-12-28 17:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't write for guys only cause it makes me curious.....
about the clothes....he knows what every guy in the room is thinking because he is thinking some of the same things....maybe he cares enought not to expose you in a light that would be bad.......if a guy sees a bra strap...you might as well not be wearing a shirt in his mind cause he is imagining you with out one.....
you two need to sit down and create some boundaries....it might help for you to have one of your friends there and have him have a friend there....that way you can talk and see what is going on and your friends can help explain some things ....i hope this helps....
2006-12-28 17:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Punkd_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend has serious control issues. He wants to know what you do and who you talk to. He is also insecure in your relationship meaning he doesn't trust you. This could be because of HIS insecurities.If he doesn't change I would seriously look into dumping him. If he's this controlling now it could get worse later.
2006-12-28 17:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Grumpy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch your back, when you break up with this guy he's going to take revenge on you. (Sorry I don't mean to scare you, but your bf sounds crazy.) His jealousy is going to ruin not only his own life but the lives of anyone who becomes his gf. Has he had previous gfs? Has anything happened to them?
2006-12-28 17:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Darren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous! Sounds like he is domineering and controlling. Get the Hell away from him!
2006-12-28 17:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Geoff 62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's VERY jealous! Maybe you need to find another guy who will let you be YOU!
2006-12-28 17:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very insecure...ur guy has some pretty big control issues. if you really love him..try to work it out..but if not..then u should probably break up with him, its not worth it to lose your friends
2006-12-28 17:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by sadie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋