After my first kiss, my boyfriend expected more from me. What? What's more than kissing? Did anybody else felt like this? When we wwere in our date, he kept looking at my skirt. What do I do??????
2006-12-28 09:06:39 · 8 answers · asked by lydomg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best advice a kiss should be enough for right now. You should not let him try and change your mind .Tell him your not that kind of lady and that your not comfortable with his moving as fast as he is. That only if and when you feel it's the right time and move you'll then be happy to share this information with him! But remember your safety and well being comes first . You'll know when your ready and feel comfortable in giving more of yourself. I gave this advice to my daughter as well, when she ask this question of me when she was 23, shes now 29. This helped her and the young man respected her even more and now he's my son-in-law.
2006-12-28 09:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by Diana N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he seemed to want something you really weren't ready for. He was more than likely(from your description of events) looking to "get lucky". If he had, he'd more than likely be bragging to his buddies about it the next day. Even worse, he'd be ignoring you or totally downplaying the event. Or even worse, he'd suddenly think of you only as a(no offense intended here) "sex toy" whenever he's in the mood. Were I you, I'd get rid of him and tell him not to bother coming back at all!!
2006-12-28 09:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is ALOT more than kissing but since you have to ask you are not ready to do them! Guys look at boobs, it happens, not a big deal! If he makes you uncomfortable just tell him, never let anyone force you to go further than you are ready for!
2006-12-28 09:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by SassySister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he tries anything you tell him that you are not ready to do anything other than the kissing. If he is interested then there will be nothing to worry about. He will respect that and that is that
2006-12-28 09:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by redscarlet_witch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are not ready for more right now.
2006-12-28 09:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex .
He wanna do that .
Same problem with my BF too .
2006-12-28 09:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tithi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex but don't give it to him....he seems like a jerk and if i were you i would find someone better....
2006-12-28 09:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Punkd_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he a perv.
2006-12-28 09:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋