im getting married july the 28th im really nervous already though im so excited too but whats really bothering me is i keep having sleepless nights and when i do get sleep i wake up remembering my dreams HELP !!!!
2006-12-28 09:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by joanne v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That could mean a lot of things which only you can be the true judge of, but it's very normal to have anxiety when anticipating a big change in your life even when it's a positive change. It's possible that this is manifesting itself in your dreams. Of course that doesn't mean that it's not a good thing. I got married this last May and I had somewhat of a similar experience. There's a lot of planning and a lot of stress involved. I think the most important thing is to remember that as long as you are married to someone you want to share your life with when the day ends then you achieved your goal. The little details of place holders and whatever nonsense really isn't important. So remember to relax take a deep breath and tell yourself this whenever things get hectic or you get worried. And on the big day, forget about the planning totally and just enjoy it. I don't know that there is a way to totally get over some of the anxiousness, but I found that this helped me. And Congratulations!
2006-12-28 09:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kristi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about sumthin natural to help you sleep,, saint johns wort helps but be careful cos it can mess ur contraception up so check with doc 1st also getting some lavender oils and putting it on ur light bulb and leavin light on half hour b4 bed can help or also there is pillow spraying stuff. also another major is never go to bed until you are actually tired cos you will lie there awake.. if after 15 mins u not asleep get up and maybe read and try again
after a short while.. also try writing down whats on your mind before you get into bed. dont drink coffee too late and dont eat too late.. maybe nice hot bath also.i have insomnia so this should help you. good luck with the wedding
2006-12-28 09:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remembering your dreams doesnt sound too bad! Not sleeping is normal... You are just worried and probably a little anxious. I wouldnt worry too much about it. Take a tylenol PM and get some sleep! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-28 09:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not certain about getting married.. Call it off NOW! Before its too late
2006-12-28 22:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Chianti Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your not ready to get married. Try talking to your husband to be about this and hopefully this should resolve it.
2006-12-29 00:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Herbal remedies and a natural diet can help, esp green vegetables like cabbages...
2006-12-28 20:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call ur wife to be
and make her spend the night with u,
just so u guys get used to each other "D
2006-12-28 09:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by DB9 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh dear thats not very good for the future
2006-12-28 09:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't get married pal.
2006-12-28 09:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What dreams is that?
2006-12-28 09:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋