Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

im intrigued that people would watch their partner having se* with someone else...why would you do this?..is there something wrong?

2006-12-28 09:44:22 · 33 answers · asked by big bird 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got engaged and am looking for a location for our wedding. It will be smallish (50-100 people).

I live in Los Angeles, but am open to anywhere within a reasonable distance, or a "destination" spot in Southern California like San Diego.

I don't want to get married in a park or a large hotel and I'd like the ceremony/reception to be in the same place. Ideally, I envision a cute little restaurant with an outdoor brick patio and twinkley lights.

If anyone has a good idea (could just be your favorite romantic restaurant), I'd appreciate it!

2006-12-28 09:41:20 · 8 answers · asked by eli_star 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He tell me that she was just a one night stand, should i believe him or just move on.

2006-12-28 09:41:03 · 43 answers · asked by Grand Ma Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy and we have been dating for three years and now he is in college and I am still in high school. (I am a year younger) anyway the day after Christmas about ten of my friends saw him in the mall with some other girl (the mall about an hour away from my house) and I am torn. I guess they were all over eachother and all this crap. I have been trying to call him but he wont answer his cell phone. I dont wanna believe that he has done this to me untill I talk to him I cant really be upset about it...I mean I donno if its true. I donno what to think, do about it I mean I am really upset. Why would you cheat on someone? I just need help on if I should give him a second chance if he wants one I mean I love him.

2006-12-28 09:41:01 · 16 answers · asked by beaners 2 in Singles & Dating

So I have a boy friend and he just left me for Basic. Me left the Tuesday before Christmas. I leave the 30th of January for Basic and hell be at the same base as me but I wont see him much for anoth 6 1/2 weeks. I like him a lot but there is a guy here who I really like and he says he'll sit here and wait for me to come home, but I really really like my boy friend. I dont want to let him go but the temptation is horrible....WHAT DO I DO!???!??!?

2006-12-28 09:40:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really love to be loved just like evry one does ... tatu song

2006-12-28 09:39:00 · 13 answers · asked by just like heavens 1 in Friends

I got into a financial jam and I owe my mom $200.00. She's being really pissy about it and I'm doing all that I can to get her the money back. Is she wrong for being mad at me? We all have responsibilities and I know that $200 is a lot to owe someone, but, I am working hard to give her money back. Should I be upset because she's angry with me and talking badly about me to my other siblings?

2006-12-28 09:38:23 · 18 answers · asked by Nessy 2 in Family

Well i like my older sisters bf's lil brother, he is a year younger than me and i think that he likes me 2, i really like him but i dont know what 2 do. Should i ask him out or not? plz help!

2006-12-28 09:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by Debbie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Latin Beauty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:37:32 · 41 answers · asked by bdolphinlover11 1 in Singles & Dating

well tonight she wants me to spend the night with her because its her birthday and she has her step brother with her and he used to have a crush on me and now he says hes over me and well kayla has bad parents because they beat her a her lil bro and i dont want to go to her house and see that .. AGIAN. But its her birthday and i cant miss that..i mean it would hurt her...so....what should i do?

2006-12-28 09:37:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-28 09:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can it really happen ?, have you had one?...not me ,im a good girl!

2006-12-28 09:36:55 · 17 answers · asked by big bird 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like him but I don't think he likes me. Should I IM or call him? Wat do I say?

2006-12-28 09:36:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone knows I do, nd they have told her and they have told me she likesme, but how should I tell her?

2006-12-28 09:36:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend got another gf 3 weeks after he ened it with me and she is makin it really hard for me to move on from him. i really dont wanna like him anymore but everytime i think of him and try to move on reality comes in and i keep comparing myself to her, keep imagining how hes probabaly on the phone with her at the same time he used to be on the phone with me. i dont kno her (iv seen her) and she dont kno me but i kno for sure that shes seen me and to make matters worse she added me on myspace today (i dont see the point in that, acually i think that was rude of her). but anywayz getting another bf right now isnt easy cuz i cant seem to find another guiy im intrested in but i need to get over him but somehow i cant cuz of her. she really pisses me off. idk if its just b/c im not over her and she has him now or if its that and the fact that she got with him when she did. is this normal and what do i do.i need to GET OVER HIM AND MOVE ON but easier said then done

2006-12-28 09:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

tell my parents I am engaged?

2006-12-28 09:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok there is this boy that i like.
he is sweet and he is just my type. he is sooo HOT to lol.everybody says that we need to be 2gether. and we do...
but he is hot and cold with me!!! it really gets on my nerves.

well then my ex. we have been through alot!
we were 2gether for about 3 yrs..
he understands me.....and i think he loves me.

idk who to pick.
my ex or my crush?
i wanta go out w/somebody other than my ex though?!?!?!?!

can you please HELP me?
i'm VERY confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thanks...<33 Shantel

2006-12-28 09:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Singles & Dating

After much soul searching, I decided to try to forgive him and we're trying to work it out. We're seeing a marriage therapist together, then I'm seeing someone on my own. I'm trying to deal with it, to forgive. He's doing all he can to change and prove to me that he'll never do this again.But even after almost 5 months now, I just can not move past it. I loved him so much and now I feel as though everything has changed. He had an affair a few years ago that I didn't know about until the recent one. This is a man that everyone likes, the good ole' boy, the one I thought would NEVER cheat on me. I thought we were special, now I feel like we're like everyone else and there is nothing special except the 2 children we have created. Im so torn between wanting to stay and forgive if I can, or wanting to leave and be on my own while I'm young enough to still enjoy being young (I'm 38). The indecisiveness is the worst part. It's like Im here watching my life go by and I have no control

2006-12-28 09:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by buggoff 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How come break-ups have to end ugly. Why not just say, it has been fun, I enjoyed it, maybe we can get together for a drink some time, later I'm out. Why do things have to get so emotional. Why can't people accept that some things aren't made to last forever?

2006-12-28 09:34:46 · 18 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Singles & Dating

give me details

2006-12-28 09:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:33:49 · 32 answers · asked by oscarmzqt 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I made plans to hang out for New Year's Eve. (We're both 35-ish and single). I just today get an email from her stating some friend of hers will now be in town unexpectedly and she'll be hanging out with this person instead. She's done simliar things like this few times in the past to me. I am sooo pissed...do I have a right to be? Or should I be more understanding?

2006-12-28 09:33:33 · 5 answers · asked by faithinaction1465 1 in Friends

y r most guys less than 25 so selfish?
like everytime u made a girl pregnant, u don't want the baby, yet ur part of the reason why the baby is here.

2006-12-28 09:32:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:32:33 · 10 answers · asked by Footballchick 1 in Friends

I've known this guy for about a year...we were interested in each other at one point, then we both ended up hooking up with other people we know...I never understood why he picked her...cause...ewwww.
We just ended up being really cool peeps. From time to time he brings it up and says that he didn't know how to approach me, and now he says he has more confidence and that it would be different. Now I say...no...sorry too late....
what's his deal...I actually really liked him and it seems he just liked me as a booty call....
I don't get guys.....why does he still bring it up....?

2006-12-28 09:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

See this women told me that she didn't want talk me forever&now she keeps contecting me what sould I do?

2006-12-28 09:31:44 · 17 answers · asked by rfrandy2007 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 13 and my best friend is 16, and i like him, and he knows this, i told him, but i also asked him if he likes me.
he said he didn't know, sometimes he thinks he does and sometimes not, then he said proberbly not, but he also says that theres something about me that he really likes, but won't tell me what! and later he said something that made me think he lied when he said proberbly no, i forget what now. but it was in such a way that maybe he likes me.
but there's also my bro, the trerr of us are best friends, but my bro doesn't like the idea of me and Stephen (the boy) being togeather. what do i do?
and what does stephen really feel?

2006-12-28 09:31:14 · 22 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 09:31:06 · 24 answers · asked by Humpy 3 in Singles & Dating

It appears from all the answers and thoughts on my last question, that my gf wants back door action for the first time. Women: how would you prefer the position for your first back door action 1)on your back 2)on all fours 3)on your stomach 4)on your side. I've done it with other gf in all the above ways so I am looking for what will be easiest on her and give her the most pleasure. Send me your answers ladies.

2006-12-28 09:30:23 · 4 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating