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im intrigued that people would watch their partner having se* with someone else...why would you do this?..is there something wrong?

2006-12-28 09:44:22 · 33 answers · asked by big bird 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Do you have any morals or are you simply another one on here who wants to get enough support to cheat? Now tell me, just what is it that you think the term of forsaking all others, in wedding vows means? Yeah, I know, you probably dont care, right?

If it is your man that wants you to do so, he is just looking to cheat without feeling like scum or being sued for cheating.

2006-12-28 10:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 2 0

First, I'm interested in why it's called "wife swapping" and not "spousal swapping" or "husband swapping"? Why is it assumed the woman is the property of the man and she is the one being "swapped?" Aside from that point, I think it's an area that married couples (or some not married couples) decide to go into for their own sexual desires. Why would people do this? Because they'd try anything once? Because pornos make it look appealing possibly? Because they are looking for something they haven't found? Is there something wrong? I think that all depends on the relationship and if the motives are self serving or all giving- it can go both ways- I think there are couples that do this that the female is simply insecure and afraid the husband will leave and they get trapped into doing it, and I think there are couples that monogamy simply isn't for them and this is a way they can satisfy their physical needs and desires without losing the emotional love of their life. It's all in how you look at it and what perspective you have on life. Communication and trust are the basis for every relationship, and whatever works for whomever and keeps respect in tact, go for it!

2006-12-28 09:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

think everone to there own some partner love it .i wouldnt like seing my husband having sex with another woman and he wouldnt with me with another man . think things can go wrong though my sisters mother in law use to be into that years ago so i was told but the people thay were swapping sex with were very good friends the both couples had a few kids each than after a few years thay found out that the husbands and wifes were still having sex but not on there regular saturday night as thay would planed so things got very messy in the end thay more or less swapped husband and wifes so say wendy and jimmy are together now and so are tony and lilly but it use to be wendy and tony and jimmy and lilly , the two couples ended up having more kids and it was only when my nephew had to do his family tree in school thats when it all came out about what his grand parents got up to it took a long time for him to understand and i still dont think he understands it now

2006-12-28 10:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0 0

wife swapping is wrong, no matter which way you look at it, if your happy with what you have got then you dont need to swap anything.... I think the better idea would be to add some toys and clothing to your bedroom activities not another woman or man!! You cant catch something from toys either!!!!!

2006-12-28 12:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by anney 4 · 0 0

After a decade of marriage things can become a bit routine. Sex is just sex. Wife swapping can help a marriage sometimes. You have to be liberal minded to wife swap but you never know until you give it a go.

2006-12-28 09:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by spils 3 · 3 2

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2015-01-27 11:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Often they don't watch. Usually its 3-somes who keep eyes open.

In my country public swapping clubs were legalized a year ago.
Couples will go to them and exchange but mostly do it 2 by 2s.

2006-12-28 09:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

No it's natural after a while. The female invention of monigmany has at last come to us all. We all like a bit of eye candy, to take it further is to SWING if the missus is up for it must be okay if you both want it. If not look for alternatives.

2006-12-28 12:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Harryboy 1 · 0 0

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2014-10-07 13:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nope, we're perfectly normal. Watching each other do our thing is exciting for both of us, not just me watching her. My wife loves watching me with other women. It's like stepping back and seeing things as a third person.

There is nothing different about people who swing. What's different is the way they go about exploring their fantasies and sexuality.

Recreational sex is detached from love and is enjoyed as a completely separate activity. It's different from "lovemaking". The sex we have with others is nothing like the sex we have with each other. As someone once said "Sex without love is merely healthy exercise."

Trying to explain this to someone who doesn't do it and doesn't think it's right, though, is like trying to describe the rush you get from skydiving to someone that has never done it. They just think your crazy for jumping out of a perfectly good airplane.

If your not hardwired this way than you just can't understand.

2006-12-28 09:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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