ok there is this boy that i like.
he is sweet and he is just my type. he is sooo HOT to lol.everybody says that we need to be 2gether. and we do...
but he is hot and cold with me!!! it really gets on my nerves.
well then my ex. we have been through alot!
we were 2gether for about 3 yrs..
he understands me.....and i think he loves me.
idk who to pick.
my ex or my crush?
i wanta go out w/somebody other than my ex though?!?!?!?!
can you please HELP me?
i'm VERY confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thanks...<33 Shantel
2006-12-28 09:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy you have a crush on hasn't even asked you out are you sure you have a choice? It sounds to me like most of your confusion is due to not even knowing how the crush feels about you.
You can remain confused or you can approach your crush and tell him that you would like to get to know him better. Take it from there. He will either show some interest or he won't, but then at least you would know.
If you go out with your ex, he is no longer your ex. If you are free and available now then now is the best time to start talking with someone else. If you start dating your ex again and then decide to talk to someone else, you might pick up a rep.
If you want to get into adult type relationships, then act like an adult. Talk honestly and openly. Start to communicate. Communication is the key to any sound relationship.
2006-12-31 09:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 16⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have made up your mind you want someone other than your ex. He became your ex for a reason, there is no harm in seeing what else is out there. This crush could be the person you are meant to be with or not but you never know till you see.
2006-12-28 17:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by dimplez0804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u kno wut u want but ur just too afraid to let urself go for it....its really obviously u mis ur ex...but i think it would be better if u went out with the new guy and c if u like him more...he wouldnt be so hot and cold with u if u were compatable and btw y is ur ex ur ex...because it doesnt seem like u wanted it to end.....if he did then u should end it cuz he doesnt want to continue the relationship.....i think ur lookin for the wrong people to date....maybe u should move on and try someone totally different.
u never kno wat might happen :)
2006-12-28 17:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by flowergrl0818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your crush..... i think...... see how it goes with him for a little while and see how he is... even though he gets on your nerves... maybe once u guys go out he won't get on ur nerves as much... just see how it goes..... then if things don't' work out you ex is always available!!!!!! i really hope this helps u!! :)
2006-12-28 17:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by pretty_perls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that you go with your crush because yo have already experienced your ex. and then again if it has been 3yrs. stay with ur ex. and see how that goes but if it don't work out then go with your crush..............
2006-12-28 17:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Unforgetable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for your crush and have fun. good luck, happy holidays and have a happy new year.
2006-12-28 17:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋