2006-12-28 09:37:32 · 41 answers · asked by bdolphinlover11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be tough, but just ignore him. He's trying to get at you and hurt you because you hurt him. It's really immature, but unfortunately, that's the way some people react (males esp.).
2006-12-28 09:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are really sorry he feels that way because you never would call him such a name, what you guys had was special but just didnt work out. But you still think he is a great person and are personally hurt by his statement.
HAHA i know it sounds dorky, but coming from a girl that has had this situation a few times it really helps. Either a) he will be stunned from your kindness on the spot and have nothing to say b) leave you alone because he feels like an idiot, or c) leave you alone and maybe even eventually apologize because now he feels bad. It is almost fool proof and works everytime.
PS... after you say this to him make sure to wait awhile before you answer any of his calls, you can probably even block him if you are totally not wanting him to contact you. But make him squirm
2006-12-28 10:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by msapplebottomculo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Is he calling you a whore or is he calling a whore for himself? If he is calling you a whore then I would just stop talking to him. Don't stoop to his level. Your better then him. If he is calling a whore then I would forget about it. I mean you dumped him right, so really whatever it is that he is doing is no concern of yours anymore. If he was doing that while you were together then I would get tested just to be on the safe side. You know how those whores can be.
2006-12-28 09:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by jwkramer54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am glad you broke it off with him. Imagine if you were to marry or something. Man, that would be sad.
Just ignore him. I know that is hard to do, but, really, why do you need to bother with him for? He is calling you that because he was not taught any manners and he is a complete a-s-s-h-o-l-e. He thinks doing this will make you feel less of yourself. If you have any brothers or any body who will set him straight, then I would have them talk to them.
Or, when he calls or talks to you like that, have a recorder so that you can have your parents hear what he calls you and then tell his parents with what you got.
Then see who's the "whore". It sure won't be you!
2006-12-28 09:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty, start with a personal order of protection in family court, for harassment! Next. Quit ansering you phone if the guy calls, don't listen to any messages he leaves you. Avoid him, ignore him, it will go away. He will find someone else to bother. With the order of protection, He will not be abble to have any contact with you what so ever, not even note passing! If you are serious about stopping this looser, it will take you about 30 minutes to an hour in family court. It's easy to do. Good Luck
2006-12-28 09:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Brian Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is hurt maybe ,and must have felt alot towards u ,so it came like a shock on him,i dont think he means it,sometimes a person just snaps and says stuff he doesnt even remember or is his normal way.if u had any good times with him,just let him calm down ,and a good approach is to dialogue with him,show him y u broke up ,and y u both cant be together,one side break up isnt like two side,give him a chance to show his opinion also,and let it sink in within days,u aint a whore so words r just words,and i am sure he doesnt mean it,but his pride is hurt.
2006-12-28 22:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by reifguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it will be hard to do, but the best response that you can give him is.... silence. He is calling you these names because he is trying to get you to react to his immature bullcrap. If you can not keep from responding, tell him that yeah, you guess you are and he sure is a pitiful man since he cannot even satisfy a whore. But really, the best response is to ignore him. If he becomes violent towards you, tell your parents. He cannot put his hands on you or threaten you for that matter. It sounds to me like you made a very wise decision to kick his stupid behind to the curb.
2006-12-28 11:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling you a whore or calling another girl? I'm not to sure I understand your question. If he is calling you this then just don't answer his calls. He is immature and needs to grow up. And if he is calling another girl a whore why do you care?
2006-12-28 09:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. He is just hurt because you ended things with him and apparently he cared alot for you. If he sees that he dont get to you anymore then I'm almost positive that he will stop or he will apologize and try to get back with you. Til then just ignore him. Dont call him names back because your just stooping down to his level. Show him your being mature about this and he isnt.
2006-12-28 09:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. Is he calling YOU a whore or is he calling a whore to have sex with him? If he's calling YOU a whore, tell him to stop - block his email address, stop answering his calls. If he's calling a whore to have sex with him, what do you care? He's not your b/f anymore.
2006-12-28 09:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋