i'm 13 and my best friend is 16, and i like him, and he knows this, i told him, but i also asked him if he likes me.
he said he didn't know, sometimes he thinks he does and sometimes not, then he said proberbly not, but he also says that theres something about me that he really likes, but won't tell me what! and later he said something that made me think he lied when he said proberbly no, i forget what now. but it was in such a way that maybe he likes me.
but there's also my bro, the trerr of us are best friends, but my bro doesn't like the idea of me and Stephen (the boy) being togeather. what do i do?
and what does stephen really feel?
2006-12-28 09:31:14 · 22 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur way too young for him ....think about it he just doesnt want to hurt ur feeligs....he is an upperclass man in high school and ur barely done w/ middle school... he needs a more mature girl...and plus it would weird for ur brother if u went out with one of his friends
2006-12-28 09:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by flowergrl0818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why your brother doesn't like Stephen. Don't assume you know why he doesn't like him but instead ask him and if it seems reasonable then stop seeing him. If he is unreasonable then don't let your brother unduly influence you. As far as Stephen is concerned, it seems he is not sure whether he likes you or not. He seems a little wishy-washy on the issue. Think about why you like Stephen and if you feel you like him for the right reason. If he stays uncertain about you and changes from yes to no and back again then maybe you need to rethink your relationship with Stephen. Don't forget to ask your brother why he doesn't like him.
2006-12-28 17:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows this but I have a feeling that he might like you in a way but he'd rather not ruin the friendship with you and your brother. You're 13 for cripes sake. Just take your time and live your life. Find a guy that's not your brother's best friend and closer to your age.
2006-12-28 17:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... Im also 13 and im going out with my boyfriend(14almost 15) He was my best friend, I could tell him anything! Then we got together. It was great for the first few days, then he started bugging me... now i dont know if i wanna break up with him and probably riun such a good friendship.So i suggest that you maybe go out on a few dates with him before you actually start going out with him... Also if you kiss him 10 times and you kneas still go weak every time hes a keeper!!!
He might just be afraid to express his feelings for you... try to make him want you !!! it always works for me!!
2006-12-28 17:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but although 3 years is not a big difference in age in the grand scheme of things, the difference between 13 and 16 is HUGE.
2006-12-28 17:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by dovey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really believe if he does love you he'll tell you what he's been hiding from you. He should come out plain too. There's nothing (absolutely nothing) wrong for him to say that he loves you.
Secondly, your brother might have seen something in him that he doesn't like(maybe, that's my opinion), that's why he doesn't want you around him. ask your bros he'll be good to let you know.
2006-12-28 17:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by redeemedmikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look gal, your friendship is at stake here, if this relatinship is fo real and nnot just a muck about or for fun then by all means go for it, first tho u need to know if he likes you, do this by excessive (a lot of) flirting, make him jealous. trust me these 2 things a man cant handle and your sure to ge tthe right answer outa him, hope its a good one :)
2006-12-28 17:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Gagandeep J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe stephen doesn't want to lose what you two have, and that is why he doesn't want to admit to liking you. if you two have something that works the way it is, leave it like it is. often times best friends who experiment with each other tend to lose that best friendship.
2006-12-28 17:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by southern belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so in short he probably not sure himself -_- i would suggest u clarify things with him seriously taht guy whoever he is has no back bone MAKE UP YOUR MIND MAN. well problem with ur bro ask him why he hates or dislike him? that all the advice i can think of
2006-12-28 17:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by BLaze F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i don't think u should be worryin. what ever happens happens and u should just roll with it. and i guess u not shy about telling the world about your private life. i'm not saying it's a bad thing but i don't think i could be that bold.
2006-12-28 17:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by MMSfaith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋