There is this boy and we have been dating for three years and now he is in college and I am still in high school. (I am a year younger) anyway the day after Christmas about ten of my friends saw him in the mall with some other girl (the mall about an hour away from my house) and I am torn. I guess they were all over eachother and all this crap. I have been trying to call him but he wont answer his cell phone. I dont wanna believe that he has done this to me untill I talk to him I cant really be upset about it...I mean I donno if its true. I donno what to think, do about it I mean I am really upset. Why would you cheat on someone? I just need help on if I should give him a second chance if he wants one I mean I love him.
2006-12-28 09:41:01 · 16 answers · asked by beaners 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right now there is literally a world of difference between you. You are better off just letting him go move on you will find someone else. When guys go to college they usually meet all kinds of women, so even if he is not with that girl, there will be others.
2006-12-28 09:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your sure it's love you need to try again give it another try. After all if you're asking for advice on leaving him obviously you aren't sure whether you should or not. So just answer this question, do you still love him like you did before your friends said he was cheating if so then you need to give it another try. Sit down and talk things out with him.
2006-12-28 09:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Daniela15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is lifes natural selection at work. dont fight it and dont be mad just learn from it and move on. when you find true love it will fill your life with a rewarding feeling like no other. many people much older than you have made the mistake of trying to make love out of lust or security the are not love and end up in divorse and sadness.
2006-12-28 09:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Larry S Auto Service c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm. Well sweetpea, the truth of it is, men are dogs. They like something they see, they try to get it. Clearly, this guy succeeded. Wish the pain would melt away but it won't and I'm sorry. Get a pint of Ben and Jerry's Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough. It helps!
2006-12-28 09:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on he is a waste of time. There are many guys that won`t cheat on you and will want you more than anything else. Those are the ones you want.
Are your 10 friends lairs? No, I think they love you more than he does.
GQ
2006-12-28 10:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first let him know what you heard and how you feel tell him you want him to be honest and all you want is the truth sometimes its the best, if you 2 love each other you will get over it.
2006-12-28 09:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by shelly p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you then why be around him. The world is full of guys go find another one. If he cheated once, he could do it again. Why risk it? Hes not worth it leave him.
2006-12-28 09:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by FishyFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you talk to him before you make any decisions but if he is cheating it's only a matter of time before he leaves you so dump him first and it won't hurt as bad.
2006-12-28 09:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plese calm down and don't be upset.try to talk to him if the gossip was true.Be considerate and understanding.never ever jump into conclusion without talking to your boyfriend otherwise it will hurt you only.Find out first the real story.if you love your boyfriend why not give him another chance.i hope your problem will be sorted before new year.i don't want you to be lonely and alone.God bless!
2006-12-28 09:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by MACRENE PADASDAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone deserves a second chance. i mean im sorry about him cheating on you but people make mistakes. so wait until you get to talk to him...ok. i wish you the best of luck!
2006-12-28 09:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋