that youve given your heart away to someone and that there going
to break it?
i love my boyfriend dearly and last night he told me that he'd love me forever and wanted to be with me forever!!
he's going to university though next year and im so scared that its all going to end and im going to be left heartbroken!!
wat do you do when your so happy with someone?? and never want it to end but know it probably will!!!
2006-12-28 09:03:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ARRRGH! WHO SAID THAT? HELLO, IS THAT SOMEBODY THERE?
2006-12-28 09:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i know how your feeling, but all i say is wait and see what happens. Your love for each other will grow stronger or you will drift apart and it wont hurt as much as you think it will as you will be used to not being with that person.
There is no use in jacking the realtionship in just because you cant be right next to each other, he could be the one for you and becuase your scared of your heart to be broken you letting him go would be worse. As then all contact would be forgotten.
You just worrying as everyone does when they are in love, But until you are apart you will never know. Just go with the flow, and try not to think about it to much. If your boyfriend is going to uni, why dont you both try and get a flat or house by his university. There is ways to make things work. And if you both love each other you will make it work.
Just enjoy it now and stop worrying.
2006-12-28 09:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always scared that a guy will break my heart oneday but the thing is I study a guy before I get really serious with him because you never know what kind of person he may turn out to be so I study my men carefully because I don't ever wanna end up alone I wanna end up with the man of my dreams.
2006-12-28 09:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, I loved some one once that I KNEW would break my heart in the end, but I went along with it anyways, I have know Idea why? Maybe for love , maybe for lust or somewhere inbetween
anyways, nothing in this life is permanant, let alone love
at the end of the day, to love another person is the chance you have to take.......
2006-12-28 09:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm feeling that way now. Although I'm just dating a guy but my heart is on guard because of past relationships. I understand where you're coming from. You never know whats gonna happy so live for the moment and be happy while you can. Good luck!
2006-12-28 09:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to roll with the punches. That's what life is all about. You will get over it and you will love again. Getting hurt, falling in love and moving on are all a part of life and we all go through it. What is supposed to be, will. Have faith that in the end it will all work out like it was supposed to.
2006-12-28 09:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but you both have to carry on as normal and if it was meant to last then it will.. trying to do things differently from how you have will only interefere with what you liked about each other in the first place and will then ruin the relationship anyway.. love can last through college etc if you are meant for each other.. no matter how old or young you are.. if you totally right for each other your love will survive anything.. just be yourselves and i hope that you do have a good life with each other
2006-12-28 09:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your very best to make it work.I found out over Christmas that my adorable American gf says she'll love me forever.I'm gonna be doing that anyways.Her work takes her back & forth to the US every so often.I 've completely lost my heart to this girl.And yeah i get scared it's all gonna go pear-shaped.I can't understand why she's fell for me with all these hunks running around.but i can tell you i'm gonna make it work & hope for the best.
If he really loves you & you feel the same no distance will end your love.Good luck!
2006-12-28 14:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best to keep it going. whatever happens remember you did your best,... and ask your self whether you would rather have not met him. the thing is,.. most good things aren't ment to last,.. and few people get to be happy with someone and fall in love. cherish what time you have while you can, while it lasts. it helps if you believe in fate as if you try your best and things don't work out then it wasn't ment to be,... i know what it's like and have been there,... but better to be heart broken and tried than not to have fallen in love and happy i say. all the best.
2006-12-28 11:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know University break thats difficult
Good Luck
2006-12-28 09:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Im aware in advance that the end is near, I would pull away. I know it sounds hard, but with time it will get easier. Good luck
2006-12-28 09:06:06 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋