I give massages for a small fee, and everyone that I have given one to enjoys them. My wifes friends mother enjoyed it a little to much. First she wanted a five minute shoulder rub, than a ten minute back rub. Than she wanted a foot rub and than a full body rub down. With the full body clothes need to be removed some what. Than she wanted me to remove my clothes so that she can rub on me. She knows that I am married. I thought she was joking but she so forreal. I spoke to her about this but she thinks I am just flirting with her. She a very pretty lady and any single man would have jumped all over her but I am married and happy. Business has picked up well due to her word of mouth.Should I tell the wife and friend or leave it alone? She pays very well and leaves good tips. Someone please help me.
2006-12-28 09:09:21 · 6 answers · asked by big bear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you like giving her your services & appreciate her but are trying to stay faithful to your wife b/c you're a strong believer in Karma (even if you're not). you may have to loose her as a client, but it depends on what's most important to you, your peace of mind(no harrassment) or the money? Good luck!
2006-12-28 09:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you haven't done what she has asked I would tell her that you are not comfortable with what she is asking. If she cannot understand that you are a happily married man then it is time to tell her that you will no longer massage her.... I will clue your wife in on what is going on so if something does kick back she is at least prepared....
2006-12-28 09:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by woodchuck1130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing you should do is to tell to your wife what really happend to avoid misunderstanding.and also you better distance that woman before something happen to you.that's a trap and temptation.anyway she is not your only client.you have to choose...money or your reputation! you're the only person who can decide.Think about it my friend before it's too late.God bless!
2006-12-28 09:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by MACRENE PADASDAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by refusing her. If she continues to hit on you refuse to service her at all. This is going to happen from strangers as well. Keep it professional.
2006-12-28 09:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by fancyname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make it clear to her that you arent interested. I wouldnt say anything for fear that your business would slow down, but DEF MAKE IT COMPLETELY CLEAR!
2006-12-28 09:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just never talk to her again. she is bad and you know it! be loyal to your wife!
2006-12-28 09:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by ningenius+.+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋