I really like this boy, but Im afraid to tell him.all my friends say I should ask him out, and I do want to but im always afraid the guy will say no. what advice can you give me?
2006-12-28 08:40:46 · 22 answers · asked by sarah♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at our school dances, he always asks me to dance and i think he likes me back, but Im not sure and last dance, two slow songs played in a row and he didnt let go. should I ask him out?
2006-12-28 09:05:17 · update #1
It's easier to ask someone out for a day date than a night date. If it doesn't go well you can make an excuse and get out early enough to enjoy the rest of your day.
Find out what he's good at and something you want to learn about. That way you can get the close contact and see if the chemistry is there.
Ask him to join you at a skate park, or ice cream shop or used CD store whatever you both are interested in.
Make it something small and cheap and if things go well you can always say "What do you feel like doing now?"
2006-12-28 08:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by allisoneast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you're coming from, so he's my adivce. Ask him. If he says yes, then you have a new friend (or more than that...) and it will take off from there. If not, no biggey. Just try to be his friend, then try again later. Everyone has the fear of rejection, and it's bound to happen sometime. He he says no don't give up, just fall back for a bit and let is roll from there. Good luck to you (and your person in question) in 2007!
2006-12-28 16:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by N/A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a brave woman if you do. i have never had to ask a guy out before. i am old fashioned and believe the guy should make the first move. what you could do is give him a bit a bit of encouragement by flirting, making eye contact and smiling at him. that way he know you like him. but don't over do it. you don't wanna look like a weirdo
2006-12-28 16:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya can't live your life being afraid of rejection. If your friends (who know you) say you should ask him out and you WANT to, why not give it a try?
Could you maybe write him a note?
2006-12-28 16:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says no then o well u will eventually move on. you have to tel him sometime. just don't go off and ask him out. telll him you like him and see if he feels the same way if he doesn't act cool about it and give it some time.
2006-12-28 16:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just like you i'm afraid to ask someone out because i'm afraid he will say no so, I don't do anything about it hopefully somebody will give us advice.
2006-12-28 16:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. If he says no then you just get on with life. Maybe he's too shy to ask you out. You could miss out on something really good.
2006-12-28 16:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's someone that you're friends with and regularly see, then I would just ask him out. But, if you don't know him that well then I would try to get to know him better first.
2006-12-28 16:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if u like the guy ask him out if he says no at least u tried right what is life if u dont take risk right
2006-12-28 16:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by monkeygirl777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men can be pretty dense.
If you express to him what's in your heart and he doesn't pay attention, then turn up the volume.
If he still doesn't pay attention, move on.
If it's hard for you to express your feelings then you must learn to trust your feelings and your heart. They hold your deepest beauty.
2006-12-28 16:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by michaelmantas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋