Ok so i absolutely cant stand my girlfriends best friend just the way she looks makes me mad. what to do?

Question

ok my girlfriends best friend isnt necessarily a bad influence i just hate her just how she looks i cant stand it. I always get so scared when she goes to hang out with her because she has such a good chance of drinking smoking ect. witch is totally her choice just i cant be with someone who does that. I dont know she just bugs te crap out of and she doesnt evven do a thing. Am i psycho? do i need help?? im confused about how i feel i dont want her to stop hanging out with her but my g/f just gets mad at me for hanging out with my friends when its convienient for her to be with me. just know that i wont brake up with her we have been together for 6 months and she means alot to me. She is my irst real relationship and i just dont want to let that go but i want to let her friend go.... please help

Answer 1

If this girl really does mean alot to you, then you got to be okay with who she hangs out with. A guy can NEVER come between a girl and her best friend. Try to get to know her friend and if you can figure out what it is about her friend that you don't like so much you could talk to your girl about it. And as far as your girl getting mad at you for hanging out with your friends when its convienient for you 2 to hang out thats another thing in itself. girls will be girls and we NEED our girl time, just try to accept her friend in the long run it will help you out.

Answer 2

That is how I thought about my girlfriends best friend, then I realized my girlfriend was the exact same rotten personality, constantly complaining princess only prettier and skinnier. Dumped her about a week later.

Answer 3

Settle her down on a couch, (your girlfriend) and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you're worried about her, and that you don't feel comfortable with her best friend. DON'T ASK HER TO GET RID OF THE FRIEND! Bad, bad, BAD! Just ask her to not have her around when your with her =)