Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I think maybe I have way to much on my plate,for eveeryone eles,but me....

2006-12-28 12:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by gwendelynns 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends say I'm pretty, but i think I'm "stumpy"
I'm not a twig, I know that, but I'm not fat either.
5'4''-137lbs, but I look much bigger because of muscle weight in my legs.
I have KP
but I am very sweet and fun

I have been cheated on by every boyfriend and never "checked out" or hit on.

Is there something wrong with me?
sometimes I feel invisible.

2006-12-28 12:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Bunnie 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy at my church, but 2 prblms
1. pastors son
2. 5 years older(doesnt seem like a lot, but hes legal)

2006-12-28 12:13:53 · 4 answers · asked by DumbBlonde 1 in Singles & Dating

I was firm with my son and he is doing very well
Where my husband wannt to be easy on the girl
now she is she struggling.

2006-12-28 12:13:46 · 13 answers · asked by Nmatt 2 in Family

I don't know any boys. I go to a girl school. All my friends don't know any boys either. So when I'm invited to parties/events, just girls turn up. I tried joining a drama club but that was really stupid of me because boys don't go there. Is there any other way?

2006-12-28 12:13:40 · 12 answers · asked by mikoashinakowu 2 in Friends

because i lost a $150 last month

2006-12-28 12:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by erica f 1 in Singles & Dating

I begged my ex back for about 2 months and all i got was that i was annoying her and that i need to give it up so i fianlly gave up 3 weeks later she keep calling me and calling me i answered once she said she wants to meet up with me what is she thinking and why all of a sudden she calling me i thought she wanted me to go away??

2006-12-28 12:12:45 · 26 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

asking for stuff from my dad. He kinda scares me. Like now i am having trouble finding my courage to ask him if i can have riding lessons if I pay for them. how can i well find my courage?

2006-12-28 12:12:30 · 7 answers · asked by **Lizz** ♥ 2 in Family

I am just trying to help him and he says I make him feel like he is not capable of doing things himself, like he is not a grown man. It started tonight b/c I asked him to get his oil changed(he's 6000 m overdue)he was off all day and had no plans, when I called him later he didn't get it done and just put it off again! Another thing he does is not pay bills on time, even if he has the money too. I don't get it. I know I can be controlling and a little OCD, but ultimatley I am just looking out for our best interest. I don't know the best way to get over this. I think it would be easy for him to just apease me by getting the things done, but he refuses to give in, atleast for right now he does. We are to have a serious talk when I get home from work tonight. HELP!!

2006-12-28 12:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by deathcab2cute 1 in Singles & Dating

Today is a real shocker. My boyfriend dumped me 3 months ago, it was all of a sudden, no explanaion, we were going to get married next yr, it was all in a snap of a finger and I didnt know why.

He left me for another girl, I found out, and was with her the day after we broke up. Today I learned from his old roomate, he was on drugs, and so was she.

This explains the sudden change of heart, and why he was so rude. He was a real heavy drug user in the past and when I met him he was clean for a few yrs, and I never judged him. 2 yrs later he got into the wrong crowd again.

I dont know what to do or think. It explains everything now. What can I do, or should do?

If I talk to him about it, he will just deny it. Cause hes having too much fun with the new girl. Going back to help him, might be a mistake cause he obiviously isnt the right one for me. But I stil love him. There is so much more to this sotry, so please dont judge me.

2006-12-28 12:11:05 · 12 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 years old and I have just thought if I keep hating being single and if I ever do find Mrs. Right which I still doubt I will. I am probably going to end up doing something silly like hating her for making me wait so long to find her. So what can I do to stop hating being single?

2006-12-28 12:10:14 · 37 answers · asked by RIP 1 in Singles & Dating

Without being obivous that you want to go out?

2006-12-28 12:09:33 · 5 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Singles & Dating

he lies, and makes me sad

2006-12-28 12:09:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw Britney Spear's husband, K-fed in taco bell, she told me not to go near him, because he is a druggie, I really wanted to speak to him and wanted to talk to him, but my mother wouldn't allow me, I hate her! I just wish parents could disappear sometimes, how do I get my mother back? I am willing to do anything, I am very brave, I don't care.

2006-12-28 12:09:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A guy at my work asked me out, so now I know he likes me, but I turned him down because of my parents, and I told him that. Do you think he will continue to act awkward around me (i.e. avoiding me) because I said no or will we just go back to being friends/coworkers?

2006-12-28 12:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is in love with me and i dont feel the same way how do i tell him i dont like him and keep our friend ship and not break his heart

2006-12-28 12:07:41 · 1 answers · asked by hinder00rocks 1 in Singles & Dating

She won't leave it at that - and half a month of bitter calls make me think she really has never heard of clinical depression. Why can't she accept that that her three children have to earn a living?

2006-12-28 12:07:10 · 6 answers · asked by WomanWhoReads 5 in Friends

I have this friend that I used to work with. I quit because I couldn't take the bs of the job anymore. It's been almost a year since I quit and my friend calls me everyday and constantly complains about the people at work. I quit cause I was tired of it, I don't like hearing about it everyday. Plus she is 6 years younger than me and has no husband or kids to worry about. I have a husband serving in Iraq and two small kids at home. The things she complains about are nothing compaired to what I am going through. How do I kindly get her to stop doing this everyday. She is my friend so I want to be here for her and listen when she needs me but this crap is just childish. I have enough stress!

2006-12-28 12:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Friends

When I was in high school I dated a guy named John Doe, we were together for around 2 yrs. I hurt John Doe very badly, then left him for a guy we'll call Tom Doe. I was with Tom Doe for 7 years. Two years ago I left Tom Doe and about 1 year ago I called John Doe. John Doe ended up driving a long way to see me and spent the night with me. It was so cool. But afterwards John Doe wouldn't talk much, he said he didn't know about getting back with me and I finally quit calling him because I thought it was pointless. John Doe was never rude but wouldn't answer phone anymore so I quit calling. I'm still hoping John Doe will one day forgive me and be with me. What do you think will happen eventually? Am I wasting my time?

2006-12-28 12:06:50 · 10 answers · asked by christinedaae 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 12:06:08 · 35 answers · asked by Jiz La Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it is a good question but they withdrew it so I'll ask it.

Is it easier to have someone end a friendship/relationship with you by just cutting off all communication or is it better if they give you a reason.

I think it hurts more to have someone just stop calling you and talking to you and not give any reason. I've heard guys would rather chew their arm off than give a girl the real reason they want out. But if you don't tell us why we will drive ourselves crazy wondering what we did wrong when you could just tell us (as kindly as possible).

If we are high maintenance or irritating we're going to be the same way with the next guy we see unless we know we have issues we need to work on.

I am going through something like this now. He has not cut off all communication but won't talk about anything to do with us or how he feels about me. I would rather him tell me than guess why he calls and guess what things mean.

So guys just tell us---we can take it!

2006-12-28 12:04:45 · 3 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

This is the honest to god truth and I love her and I know she has to do this for her...but I'll feel betrayed and jealous...am I wrong?

2006-12-28 12:04:35 · 32 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out last week that my boyfriend whom I have lived with for 4 years and have 2 children with - one is just 3 months old - has been screwing another woman this whole time. I am so disgusted given the fact that we have been through so much already. We bought a house together 2 years ago also. I says that he didn't feel anything for her, it was just sexual attraction (as if that made me feel any better). He never used any protection with her, which means that if she had any diseases he would have passed them on to me easily. What do I do? My kids are very young and I am not necessarily in a position to just up and leave. Should I try to make it work or should I just call it quits.

2006-12-28 12:04:09 · 29 answers · asked by That's Just Wrong 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf and I broke up last summer but have been on / off since. We're still both in love with each other but we've only ever been with each other. I want her back but she wants to sleep with someone else before ... Do I wait for her or move on?

2006-12-28 12:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by James M 1 in Singles & Dating

Its been 8 months and cnt get oer hm pls help.

2006-12-28 12:03:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she,s cute funny and hot super hot.

2006-12-28 12:02:45 · 4 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister in laws brother told everybody he thought i was cute but he has a g/f that he is having problems with i dont think he will act on it

2006-12-28 12:02:38 · 16 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I guess I'll just have to give up now. nothing is probably going to work out. I probably shouldnt even try to say anything to the guy I said I liked. because I already messed up everything when I didnt talk to him in class while I had a chance. this is probably about the second or third time I've messed up on guys I would have liked to got to know. Im hurt but I guess its ok. well thanks for all your answers for all who has answered.

2006-12-28 12:01:36 · 3 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

This gal has been blatant in the past. Just over the top. I even gave her "the cure" that usually stops it. The cure = I told her I'm gay. She doesn't care or seem to get it. How can I get her to stop touching me when she passes and making little sexy giggly jokes in front of others?

I'm very sick right now and she wants to come to my house. How in the world do I turn this woman off??????????

2006-12-28 12:00:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do I get him? (details below)

Gonna give as many details as poss. I am in a class, and we sit by each other. He's a football player, I'm a 'jock' too but in a lower social division. It's one of those out of the league problems. Now, usually I can deal with that but he is EXTREMELY HOTT. The kind of hott where you ask anyone, they say "I don't know him but I hear he's extremely hott." I think he likes me but it's iffy, he may just think of me as a friend. I keep hoping....So how do I get him?

2006-12-28 12:00:11 · 1 answers · asked by Lily 1 in Singles & Dating