Is something wrong? Should I change?

Question

My friends say I'm pretty, but i think I'm "stumpy"
I'm not a twig, I know that, but I'm not fat either.
5'4''-137lbs, but I look much bigger because of muscle weight in my legs.
I have KP
but I am very sweet and fun

I have been cheated on by every boyfriend and never "checked out" or hit on.

Is there something wrong with me?
sometimes I feel invisible.

Answer 1

I would love to be your size. I am your height but heavier. Beauty is truly in the eye of hte beholder. If you are a nice person and for some reason I sense that you are. I wouldn't change, with the exception of maybe working on your self esteem. Those guys probably cheat because not only are they jerks but they know they can get away with it. I use to get "checked out a long time ago when I was a teenager and I thought I was ugly! I know that it was not about how I looked but the look in my eyes. When I was happy and had a spark in my eyes, I cought the attention of others. When I felt ugly or sad I felt like everyone was ignoring me. Why? Because I was not looking anyone in the eye and making them feel comfortable around me. Keep your chin up and smile, becasue if he doesn't catch your eye.....how can you catch his? There is nothing wrong with you. We all feel that way sometimes. :-D

Answer 2

If you've never been "checked out" or "hit on", how have you managed to have boyfriends in the past?

I think that you should never change who you are, but there is nothing wrong with taking a good look at yourself, and seeing if something needs to be tweaked. For example, maybe you should try generating more self-confidence, maybe you come one too strong, or maybe you need to come on a little stronger.

If your friends think you're pretty try asking them if a new approach might help you out on the dating scene. Paying attention to more than your image is important because it's not just your face and body that a boyfriend has to spend time with - it's the whole YOU.

And as for those jerks who have cheated on you in the past - forget them. They were the selfish ones and it's no reflection on any failure on your part.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with you. I think you are lucky that guys are not hitting on you and making you feel like a s**t because you show a little skin. I wish guys would just stop making girls feel like they are ugly if they do not acknowledge them and like w****s if they do. And if all your boyfriends cheat on you it is their problem not yours you are to good for them.

Answer 4

You never said anything nice about yourself. If you don't feel good about yourself, why should anyone else think that you are?

If you feel "invisible" then you are. Only you can change that !

Best of luck.

Answer 5

Your not invisible, it just the choices your making and the people you've become involved with. Look outside the box you normally look in.

Answer 6

you are alright. I tihkn you need a better taste in guys, but maybe you should take a break from the dating scene and have fun w/ girlfriends. Guys will see you having fun and learn to love you.

Answer 7

Physically no. Mentally yes. Your negative views of yourself is causing you to attract guys who are not right for you. Change you way of thinking and you'll attract respectful guys.

Answer 8

Just be who you truly are it would pay eventually. Everything happens for a reason. And if you are a great person everything would pay off! Just be You.

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with you. You've just had some bad luck. Hang in there!

Answer 10

No No No ! Love yourself ! If you do , the whole world will change around you!