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I think maybe I have way to much on my plate,for eveeryone eles,but me....

2006-12-28 12:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by gwendelynns 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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hi,
You are depressed and need to see someone if you start to have stupid desires to hurt yourself don't. I have been there.
Go out and do something. Or try to sort through things on your plate. Put priority first and deal with the rest. I have a lot on me too so I know. How old are you maybe that can help me more. Are you an adult with fiancial hardships. I know I am I have two children going to school and getting hrs cut at work. Too high of rent and a truck payment. I understand. My husband works overtime and we still can't make ends meet. But help me understand a little more. Or are you in school and having to deal with that pressure or what.
Sorry wish I could help more. I am almose 30 and I have lived a life most can't even compare to.
Good luck to you.
post more if you want and I'll respond
Definately though see a doctor. You may laugh but they actually help. They see what's past our shells and can open you to see what's in there and tell you things about yourself you didn't even realize such as walls you put up or anything. Try it if you don't accomplish anything after a couple of sessions don't go back.

2006-12-28 12:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by mother of two 1 · 0 0

if I get the question right,it sounds like you're doing everything for everyone else,except yourself! I used to be that way too. I finally learned to say "NO!" My life is much calmer now,and I'm getting organized,my family has to help w/ the house and I even quit going to the grocery store.Thats hubbys job now. We both work fulltime, plus I was always doing for others.I even try and get a massage every few months.Calm down,chill out,,cuz eventually,if you aren't happy,no one else will be either! Good luck!

2006-12-28 12:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Take a day off from everything
do things you love
-watch movies
-exercise TONS
-go ahead and eat some fabulous junk food
But you might really have depression... just go to your doctor and he will tell you if you really do or not... if so he'll give you "perky pills"
>>>find some hobby or set a goal you'll feel happy reaching it

2006-12-28 12:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you have to combat your sad emotions, i went through the same thing. be a little more self centered other people are important to you but dont forget about yourself. focus on your goals, get sum rest and i would suggest you work out or something that always gets good flow of energy going through your body

2006-12-28 12:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You do sound depressed. Try getting some exercise to lift your spirits, and if that doesn't work in a week or two, see a therapist to help you out.

2006-12-28 12:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i get like that sumtimes im a young ma with two kids and sumtimes i feel realy crap but i have to get on with it for the sake of my girls i just put on my westlife cd and dance ith my kids around my kitchen and it takes my mind off my troubles for a while in theses kisses i send u the luck of the IRISH take care of u remember music is a great mood lift*************

2006-12-28 12:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by 4leaveclover 1 · 0 0

You probably do have alot on your plate. You may need to go to counseloring to help cope with life and life changes better.

2006-12-28 12:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by gloried 3 · 0 0

sounds like you need a good massage...you need a rest...charge up your battery. If that doesn't work try running out into your front yard naked and yelling YAAAAAHOOOOOOOOOO at the top of your voice. (hey...it works for me) lol

2006-12-28 12:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by steve 5 · 0 0

go take a walk in a forest and be near nature. good luck, happy holidays and have a happy new year.

2006-12-28 12:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0 0

Go take a walk - go to gym - meditation - learn to breath

2006-12-28 12:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by happy 3 · 0 0

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