Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

my boyfriend and father to our daughter just ask me if when he gots our (8 months) if i still wanted to get married, it was all to much for me right then all i could say is we need to talk about it

what should i stay the next time we talk?

would you do it ?

2006-12-28 12:33:08 · 16 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friends were talking, and one of them broughtup that she's falling for a guy that is 18 and she is 13. she asked us if it was okay or not, we talkd about it and wondered if it's wrong.. or okay.

2006-12-28 12:32:18 · 37 answers · asked by krissy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'll get to the question: Is it ok for a man to use deodorant or body spray on their nutsack? My girlfriend walked in on me rubbing an old spice deodorant stick on my nutsack and freaked out on me. I said to her "I'm doing it for you babe!" so who's in the wrong here her or me?

2006-12-28 12:32:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That we allow inlaws or whom ever to put us in situations we dont want to be in and they just dont listen or just dont care to listen when we say no. example: kissing on meeting and goodbyes..even then the goodbye ends up being 2 kisses at least...then there is the sit down routine.. no i ok...no sit down go on...sit here in this chair..no not that one..oh ok i was just going to sit by the door to get some air (easy escape more like) no you dont want to get air sit here...or the are you ok routine..yes im fine thank you...are you sure are you ok is everything ok...yes ..by the time they have left you feel soooo deflated, angry, annoyed and just totally fed up that you an adult in your own right with a family and children of your own have allowed this to happen yet again. Arghhhhhhhh am i over reacting or what!!!

2006-12-28 12:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by confused 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this girl V, for like 1yr+ close to 2yrs online, before meeting her in person. We're both very comfortable with each other(I told and she told me too), we've gone out every weekend since we met each other for like a month before she went on a holiday. She's kind of like hanging on a thread or almost none on her current rlnship(got attached right after we met! damn!). She told me we're like best friends but does best friends hold hands in public? We do hug and kiss each other on the cheeks and stuff. She also said that I'm a very nice person and that my girlfriend will be one lucky girl! I'm confused...cause we're so close but I don't know how to tell if she likes me or not. She has not communicated with her bf(that guy's a bastard, just tryin to get in her pants) for close to 3 weeks. Help! Need advice! What should I do? How long shld I wait before I tell her I like her alot?! Sorry for the long details ><

2006-12-28 12:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by travisdude 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious. How effective have the answers of the community been for all of you?

2006-12-28 12:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 12:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by ~ Helin ~ 4 in Singles & Dating

I am wondering about favors, the way something was done, something with the bridal party, anything. thanks!!

2006-12-28 12:30:01 · 14 answers · asked by lisa h 4 in Weddings

i live in ohio and want to marry my girlfrien! i know that we have to go out of state to legally get married! but when we come back home, will we still be considered a legally married couple?! it confuses me so much! i know that we will be legally married but will the state of ohio still consider us legally married?

2006-12-28 12:28:11 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah Danielle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

good guys like me. i dont hit her, abuse her in any way. I support, love, and stand behind her 100%. Yet whaen times get hard, she says its too much and says we should go seperate ways. I am self employed with 3 businesses, sometimes I dont make alot of money when its slow. Is that enough to leave me, or is she after my money?

2006-12-28 12:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 12:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm snowbound in a cabin outside of Denver with a very nice looking lady and one condom. Its gonna be a long weekend. Tips on washing and drying would be helpful. Do I need to relube it?

2006-12-28 12:25:51 · 35 answers · asked by teeyodi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 12:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so all my friends smoke weed. I dont really care its there life. There still my friends, but every time the subject comes up i just say "no." I feel like when i say that i sound like a little teenager listening to the health books. Whats a cool/funny way i could say that smoking is stupid yet not offend them?

oh and PLEASE don't tell me to get new friends or stop hanging around with these stoners. Or there Bad Influences,,,,,,

There not like addicted they just do it for fun.(which is stupid)


thanxs

2006-12-28 12:23:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Friends

2006-12-28 12:23:02 · 35 answers · asked by Ahwell 7 in Marriage & Divorce

so i have been seeing a guy who is 10 years older then me we hang out every now and then and its pretty much just booty calls. lol but he thinks were just friends and that because of our age difference i understand we cant be together, but you see im starting to really like him and i wanna be more then a friend. hes like one of those really hott guys that can get any girl and is a complete player. the type of guy you shouldnt fall for becuase you know he'll just hurt you in the end. but i kinda want to say something to him about how i feel and i dont know how .. should i stop seeing him i dont know what to do and i cant talk to my friends cause they think i shouldnt be doing what im doing with him and they think hes just using me.
i dont know how to explain it =[ help

2006-12-28 12:21:35 · 11 answers · asked by beybii_giirll 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted yesterday about a guy I've been seeing very intensely for 3 months. He came to meet my parents on Christmas, and they were very welcoming...even though he's got tattoos, smokes, not that great of a job. Thennn, throughout the conversation, he started making up little things, and that really made my parents upset. Long story short, they told me he was a BS-er and to let it go.
I know what they mean, and I'm hurt by his lying, because I've been really falling in love with him. He's made me want to be more open than I ever could be and made me laugh more than any other guy could.
So...the lying hurts, especially because it was so unneccessary, and now I don't know what to believe about him or his past. So I could just stay away and leave w/o saying anything, but it means too much to me. How can I talk to him about this and get him to be straightforward with me? And should I bother to do that?? He should know I'd love him with all his faults and w/o judgements... :(

2006-12-28 12:21:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can anyone tell me? Please? What do i look for?

2006-12-28 12:20:33 · 1 answers · asked by Jellybean 1 in Singles & Dating

been going out with this girl for a couple months and we havent kiss yet and were both going to the same new years eve party

im her first real boyfriend

i would do it but im pretty sure her first kiss was at my 8th grade dance when my best friend made out with her in the middle of everyone and she ran away and no one could find her then next day at school everyone was calling her **** and crap and i was really the only one that stud up for her bec i knew who she was and the fact the my best friend was just looking to make out with somone and she just got caught in the moment and i was thimking it might be better to do it somewhere more romantic and away from everyone

2006-12-28 12:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

when i love him we have been together for 6 yrs...

2006-12-28 12:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by mizz_spoiled_bratt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a girl that I like. I got her a present for christmas. Well, on Christmas I called her to see if she liked it but she didn't pick up her phone. I decided to call her 30 minutes later. She still didn't pick up. I decided to wait the next day for her to call back. She didn't call back. I called her again the next day, which was the 27th, and she didn't pick up and didn't call me back. It is now the 28th and I am worried about her. Should I call her back again?

2006-12-28 12:20:15 · 2 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently left my husband and started having an affair with a married man who also wants to leave his wife. I broke off the affair because it was making me an emotional wreck, but I am deeply in love with this man and he says he is in love with me. He says he wants to leave his wife, but can not give me a timeframe on how long it will take she is not from this country. He keeps me emotionally attached by ending phone conversations with a future in mind. He tells me when he takes care of his mess we will be together. How do I know if he is for real

2006-12-28 12:19:46 · 30 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 12:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, so i like this guy, but he hardly knows me, and i dont c him much. help me!!!!

2006-12-28 12:18:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and what would you want the name to mean?

2006-12-28 12:17:48 · 35 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Friends

WHATS TO YOUNG AND WHATS TO OLD FOR A 1ST KISS?

2006-12-28 12:17:43 · 15 answers · asked by YOUNGANDMATURE 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is the best person in the world. She told me how much her family hated her and told me to tell no one but i was with really close friends and we had to discuss it. We also talked about how her bf cheated on her tons of times. she doesn't know this yet and were scared if we tell her she may hurt herself. what do i do??

2006-12-28 12:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Singles & Dating

are so quick to run out on a marriage and get divorces because times are hard?

2006-12-28 12:16:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 12:16:05 · 20 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Singles & Dating

I have this undying love for a woman. I would do almost anything for her.
Unfortunatly she doesn't feel the same and will only be friends now.
I want her friendship, but I want to stop obbsessing about her.
She's like an addiction.
How do I balance my emotions I feel for her and still be a good friend?

2006-12-28 12:15:19 · 38 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Friends