Troubled and Confused! ><?

Question

I've known this girl V, for like 1yr+ close to 2yrs online, before meeting her in person. We're both very comfortable with each other(I told and she told me too), we've gone out every weekend since we met each other for like a month before she went on a holiday. She's kind of like hanging on a thread or almost none on her current rlnship(got attached right after we met! damn!). She told me we're like best friends but does best friends hold hands in public? We do hug and kiss each other on the cheeks and stuff. She also said that I'm a very nice person and that my girlfriend will be one lucky girl! I'm confused...cause we're so close but I don't know how to tell if she likes me or not. She has not communicated with her bf(that guy's a bastard, just tryin to get in her pants) for close to 3 weeks. Help! Need advice! What should I do? How long shld I wait before I tell her I like her alot?! Sorry for the long details ><

Answer 1

iM sure she knows that you like her alot. she probably just doesnt want the whole finality of the word "relationship" with you just yet. She likes you , but she is trying to keep her life open to new possibilities... show her how much you care in actions right now not in words.. show her how you are different from other guys by doing special things for her.. remembering things she has said and putting it to action.. .for example she said, " my boyfriend never remembers my b-day... or .... gee i've never gotten (certain kind of flower) from anyone before" get the picture?

Answer 2

Why don't you go ahead and tell her now if you feel strongly about her? She obviously looks at you as a friend and nothing more. She does not consider you a boyfriend but that doesn't mean you can't tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she would like to hear your feelings for her and it might change things. Sometimes it is best to be honest and open because most of the time girls appreciate honesty and sincerity. Women do to for that matter.

Answer 3

a million. do you ought to be a Christian so as to have self assurance in God??? confident. 2. Am I betraying God or something??? confident, everybody who does it extremely is. this is a sin, yet o sins are greater beneficial than others. Doing it extremely is as undesirable as mendacity. 3. Is it actual that Christian won't be able to have intercourse before marriage??? it incredibly is accessible (lol), even nonetheless it is not in God's will for all and sundry. no longer in basic terms Christians.

Answer 4

me- dont wait any longer ive gone throught that ..... thats not the anwer just tell her before its too late and if u want to find out if she likes u then talk to her and be like sooo have u ever considered me more than a friend and see how that turns out

homie g-.....[humm]

Answer 5

Maybe you should just have a heart to heart talk with her, telling her your feelings and ask her to be honest with you. If she can't commit right now, it's ok, you''ll give her time. But at least you know where you stand.

Answer 6

well right now it sounds like she just wants to be friends with you and thats about it.. but just wait a little more and then decide when to tell her and how to tell her.. make sure you are finr with whatever decision she makes and if she says that she just wants to b friends pls dont stop talking to her!! Good Luck!!

Answer 7

She's trying to feel you out. Trust me she not thinking out you as a friend. She's not ready to let down her guard. If you really want to be with her, you going have to show and prove to her your feelings because words will not be enough.

Answer 8

Ask her about the bastard and their relationship. if they r appart dive right in(i mean go for it not dive in her pants)If she says their together wait about a month then bing up the sub again.(repeat as nessary)

Answer 9

just tell her see what happens