so i have been seeing a guy who is 10 years older then me we hang out every now and then and its pretty much just booty calls. lol but he thinks were just friends and that because of our age difference i understand we cant be together, but you see im starting to really like him and i wanna be more then a friend. hes like one of those really hott guys that can get any girl and is a complete player. the type of guy you shouldnt fall for becuase you know he'll just hurt you in the end. but i kinda want to say something to him about how i feel and i dont know how .. should i stop seeing him i dont know what to do and i cant talk to my friends cause they think i shouldnt be doing what im doing with him and they think hes just using me.
i dont know how to explain it =[ help
2006-12-28 12:21:35 · 11 answers · asked by beybii_giirll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there stop the booty call that is why he keeps coming back .tell him your falling in love with him or ask a question as in would u ever fall in love? just to see what he says.if he says yes then ask him the next question ( with a girl like me ? ) if he ask why u asking him that just tell him just wondering or tell him u dream that he was getting marring. age is nothing if u read the bible you will read about people having babies at a farther rate age is just a number love is in the heart only if it's real love. why would u love a player who will get u sick ????? don't u think you're worth more then not. i think if a women has a brain she should know how to use it on men . move on find other friends that are worth your time not a booty call . take a vacation to relax your mind from him the booty call is what got u to fall in love. once a women has sex with a man more then once she will fall in love or get jealous. yes i think he is using u so wake up and stop u ask we answer if u go ahead and do what u think is best by staying in the booty call then your problems will never stop. good luck god bless happy holidays.
2006-12-28 12:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should leave him alone. I understand he makes you feel good but you said it yourself that you will get hurt in the end. If you know it then do the right thing and save yourself the trouble, tears, and heartache that come along with it, before you get in too deep. Talk with him and tell him how you feel then lay it all out on the table. See how he feels, if you like what he says then try it out if not then just leave him alone. You said it yourself that he's a player. Stay away from them type of dudes.
2006-12-28 20:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop seeing him.
From the quality of your spelling and grammar, I'd guess that you couldn't be much older than 14 or 15, right? That is MUCH too young to have any sort of relationship with a man 10 years older than yourself.
Listen to your friends -- they're trying to help you out here. This relationship has "bad news" written all over it. You need to realize that he is playing you, and you will end up hurt.
2006-12-28 20:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment, nobody is using anybody. You are both just banging each other, with no commitment whatsoever. If you think that revealing your deeper feelings to him will turn this purely sex-based relationship into something more meaningful, you got another think coming. He will laugh in your face and keep banging you, and you will let him, because you will be too weak to turn away. Move on now, before you make things worse for yourself.
2006-12-28 20:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is no problem if the minds are OK. Some people even at a higher age have an young mind and vice versa. So go ahead if you "feel" so to connect.
2006-12-28 20:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tell him how you feel and don't worry about your friends. How else are you going to let him know how you feel unless you tell him? Of course if you do get hurt don't say you weren't warned.
2006-12-28 20:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are having a crush on him.
you can't avoid it.
you love him.
you want him.
.....
it's all in your brain, your hormones is playing on you.
shift your focus on your other things, not asking you to forget him, cause you won't, just to divert some attention off him.
take your time to know him better, from him, from his friends, your friends....
get it?
2006-12-28 20:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes hes using you what do you think.a peice of @ss passed is a piece of @ss missed.
2006-12-28 20:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to your friends. They are right !
2006-12-28 20:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends what do you think you should do do you think he's just using you
2006-12-28 20:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by hinder00rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋