My friend is the best person in the world. She told me how much her family hated her and told me to tell no one but i was with really close friends and we had to discuss it. We also talked about how her bf cheated on her tons of times. she doesn't know this yet and were scared if we tell her she may hurt herself. what do i do??
2006-12-28 12:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow her life sound so jacked up
2006-12-28 12:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth hurts, but it is better to say it. If you really love her as your friend talk with her with the truth and give her support. Make sure to tell her how much she means to all of you and that you will always be there for her when she needs you. Give her a friend talk and start of with the good stuff!!!!!Also she will find the right guy eventually. Everything happens for a reason. That's some advise it's up to you.
Take it or Leave it
2006-12-28 12:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Chicana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had a friend who was made fun of behind her back. But when i told her she got pretty mad but the next day she told me she thought i did the right thing. The point is it might hurt her but its for the better. I mean if she finds out later and says "Did you now about this and not tell me" You wont be on the spotlight aie.
2006-12-28 12:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Poots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your friend, right? So you should want what is best for her. And it seems that what's best for her is not to stay with her cheating boyfriend. tell you friend about it, but keep her company until she gets over it. Maybe you can help her to see a conselor for her family troubles. Good luck!
2006-12-28 12:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, perfect subject is to get with the aid of college without a toddler and/or a STD. in the experience that your boyfriend remains treating you like a intercourse merchandise as you're saying then you definately have no room to ***** considering the fact which you will merely be his little dumb sIut he retains around for intercourse and not something extra. and you're relationship your acquaintances previous boyfriend, you already sound like a dumb sIut, i'm hoping that's no longer who you want to be.
2016-11-24 21:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must intervene. But don't do it alone. Have one of her parents or older siblings with you. And please make sure you have all of your ducks in a row before you start. Be able to provide a logical answer for every question of doubt she could possibly have. Expect denial and hostility. But do not leave her side for the next several hours. Let us know how it goes. Good luck.
2006-12-28 12:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen. you should just tell your friend what you did. if your friend means that much to you, than it shouldnt be a problem telling her. it would be worse if she found out from someone else. try explaining to her why you did it. she may understand why you didnt stick to your word, but than again, she may not. just be prepared for anything.
2006-12-28 12:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by maggiemay4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably broke the trust between you and your friend by discussing
things behind her back.
such as her boyfriend.
it is best you let herknow about her boyfriend/cheating.
and hope she doesn't find out about the other friends knowing
too . and about you talking about her..
2006-12-28 12:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, it will be better to hear it from friends than some other people she doesn't like.
2006-12-28 12:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by be_urself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her and then keep an eye on her to make sure that she doesn't hert her self. be there for her as much as possible.
2006-12-28 12:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋