Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

I believe it can happen. My best friend, who I've known over 10 yrs, is a woman & happily married. I was even her "man of honor" at her wedding. What do you think?

2006-12-28 13:13:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have two great friends, but lately they both call me JUST to talk about their problems and only their problems. I just had surgery and have been doing a lot of resting and they both call me first thing in the morning and wake me up (though I've asked them not to) just so they can talk about their problems. And EVERY day they ask me the same exact questions about the guys they're trying to date and I always tell them the same exact thing. I feel like a broken record. I know I'm supposed to be a good friend and listen, but I'm trying to recover from a major surgery and I'm tired enough as it is and they just don't leave me alone. They ask how I'm feeling for 30 seconds and then proceed to talk about their guy problems. How do I tell them I don't want to talk about their guy issues every single day?

2006-12-28 13:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Quintessa 2 in Friends

ask questions and post here

Male or Female?

What age are u ?

2006-12-28 13:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by Dave S 3 in Singles & Dating

It's my first time meeting his parent's after 2 years , and I'm a very shy girl. I dont know what to do or say . Any advice and how I can break the ice. I'm really nerves, my boyfriend want's to marry me someday , and I'm meeting all his family and I'm afriad they wont like me.

2006-12-28 13:10:28 · 19 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family

Heres the story. Me and my wife have been married for a good 8 years. These days she never cooks, leaves the house like a dump, never puts out and spends the rest of time eating up my credit card


Well, since she obviously doesnt respect me much, and is probably the laziest woman I've ever had a relationship with, me and my buddies ended up going on a cruise. Well since these days I get sex about once every 2 months, I decided to start getting some elsewhere, because right now the woman isnt doing what she is supposed to do. Now when she found out, she had the hide to get angry with me, when in reality, she is the one at fault and is oblivious to any criticism coming her way. Women are supposed to be there to clean the house, cook, look after the kids, attend the men when the boys come around to watch the game and have sex with the husband whenever the man deemes it necessary.

2006-12-28 13:10:16 · 37 answers · asked by Coors Man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am black,I meet this guy I slept with him due to acohol. Then deiced i didn't want to see him again because he talked like he had been dragged up - and was bascally jobless & just a waste of space but pretty at the same time. He kept on textin me & i ignored him then he TX & said that he had given me a STD I called him and he told me he was lying and he felt that i was using him cos i never TX him back thats why he said it. I forgive him for that, I TX him Merry Crimbo he TX back that he was spending Crimbo alone and could he come round to mine i wanted to invite him round but my mates said no because he is a wanker for saying wot he did. My Question is should i look past him being such a loser and just be with him. 99% of me says no the other 1% says yes i can change him

2006-12-28 13:09:43 · 20 answers · asked by deb_star_82 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend really wants to be bridesmaid at my wedding. I'd decided to just have one bridesmaid (fiance's sister) cause I've lots of friends and didn't want to pick, but now she is seriously putting the thumbscrews on and I don't know what to do. I feel fairly ambivalent about it... We're very close, she's lovely: everything I'd want in a bridesmaid. But I don't know now if I want her to be my bridesmaid because I'd like her to share my day, or if I want her to be bridesmaid cause she wants it. And if it's the latter then...well, I react badly to being manipulated, so it would encourage me not to ask!

Is there an advantage to having a best friend as a bridesmaid rather than a sister-in-law (well, actually it'd be as well as the sister-in-law)? I get on well with the sister-in-law, but I guess I'd not ask her advice or anything like that... In which case having a best friend as a bridesmaid would be much better...

Ack - help!

2006-12-28 13:08:01 · 3 answers · asked by Mango M 2 in Weddings

I think I would get back w/ my my x x boy friend cuz man id freaking hot!!! and i still have feelings 4 him, but u kno wat sux is that he is player and that is sorta why he broke up wit me!!!
well who would u wish 2 get back 2gether if u had the chance!!?

2006-12-28 13:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by short stuff 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:06:56 · 23 answers · asked by megan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf cheats wdidn ( what do i do now ?)

2006-12-28 13:06:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a really hard situation im in,You see I met this guy named patrick and he seemed so amazing,I really liked him and still do.He had this girlfriend that he broke up with for "me" so he said.And after about 2 weeks we were together his ex started saying he was cheating on me.But i believed him,that he didn't, so i stayed with him. Then a week ago or so This girl named kari started working where i work,which i found a huge coincidence. she started talking to me and we are friends.And then she told me she knew patrick and was his bestfriend ricky's sister and used to date him like a year ago and that he would always cheat on his ex with her and i should be careful,then one the phone a few days ago she told me that patrick cameover the other day to hangout with ricky and spent the night which he told me he did but she told me when she went to bed he came to her bed and wanted to have sex with her again.i cant get over him,he still says we are together &he loves me,hes acting wierd=/

2006-12-28 13:05:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend proposed to me on Christmas Eve!!!!!!!!!! The whole event was very sweet and something that I wil remember for the rest of my life. I'm just wondering are there any other 2007 brides to be out there.

2006-12-28 13:03:56 · 25 answers · asked by pecarican 3 in Weddings

I love christina i want her to get attracted to me i know that she likes funny people but how do i be funny and attactive?

2006-12-28 13:03:36 · 7 answers · asked by archfienddenis 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by abigail<3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been unhappy for 5 yrs with my husband. He never show any respects with me only he cares about himself and the kids. He never kiss or hugs and not interest to have sex. I have 2 kids ages are 16 and 12 yrs. He never want to do anything always watch tv and never spend time with me. He always talks nasty and yell at me for no reason. I feel he treat me unfairly and he would never change himself. I really would like to leave him and get my own place and I think I have found someone else that is better than he is. I have a feeling that he is using me for living and doesnt care or think of me. He mostly care the kids and we have gone to counseling but it doesnt help much. My husband's family never contact or come to visiting us. I have been unhappy and alot of stress with him for a long time . I would be happy to get on and meet someone else that can support me and care amd able to do alot of things. I have a feeling that he doesnt love me and I am not interest with him anymore.

2006-12-28 13:01:47 · 47 answers · asked by Sheryl C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 13:01:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, i told him i liked him and he said he jus wanted to be friends because of the distance between us but then he says he likes me and then says i love you but still doesn't want to go out becuz of the disatnce between us. so is he playin' around or what???? Though I was suppose to call him bak, but I don't know if I should?! PLZ HELP!

2006-12-28 13:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a bully problem at school. I've had this problem since the 4th grade and now I'm in the seventh. It's becasue of one kid that PAID other kids to make fun of me. I'm not very good at coming up with comebacks, below are some things that kids say to me. Please list any comebacks you kno to these insults.

- Go suck a dick!
- You want me to do your mama again
-What do I do when kids when I'm wlaking try to put their asses in my face!
- Shut you ****** damn *****!
- "Ohhhh, your gay and you wnna have sex wit Charlie!" (A guy in my school that kids think I like, becuase they all think I'm gay, which I'm not!
- Your a girl becuase half of your friends are girls
- You have nothing to live for!
-They "invade" my "personel" privacy and when I complain they say: "Oh I'm just doing you a favor!"

These are just some exmples of what they say and do. If you want more examples just tell me.

2006-12-28 12:59:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dont be afirad to share your stories

2006-12-28 12:59:19 · 3 answers · asked by tifaislove21 1 in Singles & Dating

My "ex-best friend", you could say, all of a sudden turned against me. She was throwing this lame christmas party, with people I never had fun with. She told me that i could come if I wanted to but the next day was "mine" and we would hang out.....so what i thought the mature thing to do was make casual plans with another friend. The kind I could cancel easily because I wasn't quite sure If my position or invitation at this part y would hold up. I told this friend I would come to it later, while I did these exciting plans with my other two friends. I made sure to come down there beforehand to give my secret santa present to the pile, her xmas gift, and a movie i thought they could watch during. My plans went later than expected and we even slid off the road. When I got home I had MAJOR family issues, the kind so personal i cant even tell you OR her...becase it makes me far too depressed. I came down there 2 and a half hours late, where she comes to the door screams some bitchy things and locks the door. She has her other best friend, or I call her the "queen bee" cuz she is so beautiful and is so popular in their group (not according to me but to my ex bff), tell me im uninvited and scowled at me, telling me the horrible things ive done and am doing to my ex bff. I stood their calmly making sure not to deck her right in front of the ENTIRE party ( thirty people i can barely tolerate but i am kind to them anyhow). She was even wearing the xmas gift that i gave to my ex bff. After that i left, not even feeling the hurt that this queen bee tried to put upon me. My exxy even calls my other best friend to scream at her and tell her all these lies (that i supposivly did). Exxy even has her mother talk to my step mother. This is strictly between me and her. She ahnnilates friend ships left and right becuase she has strict rules and is trying to make friends with what she believes will get her more popular. She leaked out all of my and my friends secrets and claims i have no chance with any of the guys I like. Her friends glare at me in the halls and even spy on me for her! I ignore it, becuase I always knew my exxy has mean streaks and will never have a true friend. I really dont care if i set our friendship straight, but should i just apologize for the sake of being a good person?

2006-12-28 12:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by kat 3 in Friends

My cousin and her boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now and lately this past year it slowly started to become physical. I told her that they need to talk things through calmly and realisticly for there 1 year old son. And it is not him hitting her its both of them and when I say physical he socked her in the thigh and she socks him in the face. She wants to give up on it and I told her to try to work things out like counseling, because i know that some of the anger comes from her additude and stubborness, and he is an as*hole sometimes too. How can I help?

2006-12-28 12:56:15 · 18 answers · asked by abella_03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I begged my ex back for about 2 months and all i got was that i was annoying her and that i need to give it up so i fianlly gave up 3 weeks later she keep calling me and calling me i answered once she said she wants to meet up with me what is she thinking and why all of a sudden she calling me i thought she wanted me to go away??

2006-12-28 12:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy wants to talk to you every day does this mean he likes you?

2006-12-28 12:53:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

untill she gets back on her feet i was wondering if anyone knew how i go about this as i will have to enroll him in a diff school? we live in ks

2006-12-28 12:52:29 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Finding a girl who can act and dress like a LADY is so hard to find....what happened to the girls who liked pretty clothes,skirts,dresses,suits? not jeans..damn they're tacky, cheap and manly....whoa is me....

2006-12-28 12:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by rockync7 2 in Singles & Dating

He was in the Navy many yrs ago and I searched my space. Help any suggestions?

2006-12-28 12:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by lorry42766 2 in Friends

2006-12-28 12:50:33 · 15 answers · asked by T c 1 in Friends

I was wondering if women like to play around with different men partners while taking a chance of picking up a desease or do they prefer someone they care about as a steady sexual partner?

2006-12-28 12:50:07 · 2 answers · asked by iceblue_purple 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 12:49:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone you like...from your mum...to Johnny Depp...have fun...;0)

2006-12-28 12:48:57 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating