I am black,I meet this guy I slept with him due to acohol. Then deiced i didn't want to see him again because he talked like he had been dragged up - and was bascally jobless & just a waste of space but pretty at the same time. He kept on textin me & i ignored him then he TX & said that he had given me a STD I called him and he told me he was lying and he felt that i was using him cos i never TX him back thats why he said it. I forgive him for that, I TX him Merry Crimbo he TX back that he was spending Crimbo alone and could he come round to mine i wanted to invite him round but my mates said no because he is a wanker for saying wot he did. My Question is should i look past him being such a loser and just be with him. 99% of me says no the other 1% says yes i can change him
2006-12-28 13:09:43 · 20 answers · asked by deb_star_82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We both Live in London and it is beyond me that that prat can't get a proper job. I wish there was more of a choice here
2006-12-28 13:26:42 · update #1
That stupid honky. cracker
2006-12-28 13:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do look past him. Like right now. Don't let some loser hook you like that. You can start right now ignoring his text and not call him back. Listen to the 99% of you who thinks that he is a loser and not worth your time. The other 1% is very wrong that you will change him. He will never change until he admits and understands that he is a loser and takes appropriate steps to change his life for the better.
2006-12-28 21:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try changing guys, girl. We all know how that ends up most of the time. Listen to your 99%, and don't ever intentionally try seeing him again. Do you really want to be with a jobless jerk loser? There are plenty of guys that can make you feel special, and respected, so don't waste your time with him.
2006-12-28 21:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... don't take on the charity case.
You slept with him because and only because you were drunk.
You ignored him for a reason... you didn't want to talk to him.
He texts you with stupid immature crap and you tell him he's lying.
Then he tries to make you feel sorry that he's alone on Christmas...
Don't do it.
If you thought he had some redeeming quality that would be one thing... but you don't seem to like him in that way.
2006-12-28 21:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jenine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, give it a try but all I can say don't be with a Man thinking you can change him. A Man going be a Man. But a Real Man is hard to find so he can change you to be that Real Woman. Good look on the trying.
2006-12-28 21:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by tealazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change anyone. This is a 4 star loser. Use your common sense and don't even respond to this craproller.
If you are worth two grains of salt then you are probably a million times worth more than he is. When you step in s***, you should say "oops!", wipe it off, and walk away.
2006-12-28 21:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Donald W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
According to this question, the only good thing about him is the fact that he's pretty. Do you see something wrong here? Dump the loser and find someone who deserves you.
2006-12-28 21:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never truly change a man. He will always be the cad you warned yourself to stay away from. Do yourself a favor and drink less. Beer goggles don't help anyone in the long run.
2006-12-28 21:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't joking and does have an STD, I'd get checked out.
Sounds like you only wants you for a booty call. Once you let him back again it will be harder to get rid of his lazy a**
2006-12-28 21:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will change if they love you enough to keep them around. You can never change them. If you try to change them you will probably end up chasing them away. If you love him and he loves you it is meant to be. Sometimes following your instincts is the best way to go. Make sure he loves you like you need to be loved.
2006-12-28 21:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by deborah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole thing is dumb! But if you want him knowing he don't have anything then be my guess but it you want more for yourself then let it be that 1 nite stand and leave it at that
2006-12-28 21:19:47 · answer #11 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋