Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

here is this guy, i really, really like him. monday night he came, when he had to leave, he told me that he hated to leave and he hugged me. yesterday night, he came again, when he wanted to leave, he asked me for a hug and also a kiss. we kissed but he didnt tell me that he loved me. Today i talked to him and he said that he had kissed me because he liked me the way i am. he is 18 and i am 16. I really dont know if he loves me. he has not told me yet. i dont know. what should i do? please, what should i do?

2006-12-28 13:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Singles & Dating

She is very picky to get a job, everything is an issue. Even when I offered her to work in my job but she rejected because I work there. Christmas came and she didn't buy me anything but an ipod COVER but bough her friends their gift like purse and etc..
For Christmas She wanted me to spend 150 dollars on her but I backed away from it specially when I had to paid a bill. She promised me some Timberland's for my Birthday November 8, 2006 and up to this date, nothing yet. I have the money to buy my own but since she asked me what I wanted I asked for that. She's going to college and only works 4 days of the month. Doesn't want to make the effort to have a full time job or part time anywhere, like I said very picky. I don't mind paying for things but sometimes you also want to get something in return, We've been together for 10 months and I'm there in the bad times, but what do you all think of this?

2006-12-28 13:55:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister is 21 and he is 38. he is her first boy friend and i dont know about him. he works a taxi driver in Longbeach and they decided to get married really soon. the longest he has had a job is 1 1/2 years and still lives with his mom. he is not rich person and does not have a large savings account. and im so worried in about 20 years he will be so old and will not be able to afford house payments because it will be hard fo him to get work at and old age. and im afraid my sister will become his retirement plan. and she will sacerfice her life to keep him alive.. i need some advice about this fast im going to talk to them tonight! grr drama woot. anyway any help? also he will not comunicate with my father and mother. and they will be married in CA and my family is from minnesota. so only my parents can afford to go. and all his family will be there. (50 people or so) i feel like its so selfish of him to do this to her and she is just all about him. how can i commuicate.

2006-12-28 13:54:35 · 25 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i say if someone walks in while i am having a 'private' moment with myself?

2006-12-28 13:53:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Guys, what do you hate about girls. What do you wish you could change?

2006-12-28 13:53:29 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:52:53 · 6 answers · asked by Sweatburn 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent seen my ex in 4 months. She has moved on and is pregnant with her new b/f's baby. We have been broken up for 7 months. Well My two best friends work at Wendys, where she works. One of my friends wanted to go see his g/f, she works there too. When he said he wanted to go and see her, my heart dropped and I got really nervous cause I new that my ex was workin tonight. Its been 7 months since we have broken up, and I'm still in love with her but i heard that she hates me now. she was the one that broke up with me. Is it normal to get all nervous to the point of almost throwing up when It comes to bein around my ex

2006-12-28 13:52:39 · 4 answers · asked by Nick g 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont want grandma to think that I'm only there cause her best friend at the nursing home gives me a woody. How can I visit grandma and also get some alone time with this 89 year old hottie?

2006-12-28 13:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2 in Singles & Dating

so this old guy- friend of mine has been calling me up since 2 weeks ago trying to get me to go with him to register for some classes at college...because he doesnt want to go alone. I said yes but i let him down because that day that he wanted to go was my anniversary with my bf. He kept on calling to see if i was still available. he even left me a message. He did not go with any of his other friends. He calls me 1st thing in the morning today after he gets right back from work to see if I could go with him i told him 'its close'. we hang up & decide to go until next month. after 30min he calls back to say "i am bored tell me what to do?what can i do?". He was thinking of going to the beach apparently with me. is it normal to ask a girl out to a beach if you consider her "just a friend"? is it normal? or this guy wants more than friends ? and cant face i have a bf. by the way he called me yesterday and told me how lonley he felt withuot a girl

2006-12-28 13:52:09 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok im confused, i have lost all hope, and faith, which has caused me to lose confidence, and self esteem and loosing that has caused me to lose the sense of caring. how can i turn this around?

2006-12-28 13:51:45 · 12 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

I vote spouse. If the parents are loving and take care of one another, the children will reap the all of the benefits. I am not sure if it works the other way. What do you think?

2006-12-28 13:51:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 13:50:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think one of the main reasons people are afraid to approach people they like is because they are scared of rejection...but what about rejection is so bad? I mean, when you think about it logically, why can't you just go up to someone, and if you are rejected, pick yourself up and move on?

why do we constantly worry about what people will think of us?

2006-12-28 13:50:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend left me at the beginning of december to go to another fool. On that day i cried badly... i eventually sucked it up and just became angry rather than sad. I feel as though there's a hole in my heart... a piece missing for some odd reason... i know that i still love her even after what she did to me... it's a hard feeling to describe... i just wanna know if that hole is ever filled in... anyone ever been in my same position... or had the same feeling in their heart?

...thank you for all answers and i hope you all have a happy new year...

2006-12-28 13:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by GOD IS LOVE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Here it is...
I'm 17. I've never had a boyfriend, not because no one wants me to go out with them, but because I choose not to have a boyfriend. My family is very good friends with my best friend's family, and I have grown to love being with them. Our families always do things together. Ok, here's the "problem".
I hopelessly admire my best friend's brother. It's so easy to talk to him, our families being close, and yet... I've been freaking out a little lately. I've developed these feelings, and I honestly can't say I've felt like this before. I've only told my best friend and "HIS" best friend that I'm crushing on this guy.... my best friends brother.
They both say that there's possiblities. They say "HE" never tells anyone what girl he likes. Truly, it's a mystery, because no one knows who "HE" likes.
It's so natural to talk to "HIM". I really love him as a brother, but I wish someday we could be more. I tried to dismiss these feelings, but they came back.

He's 14.

2006-12-28 13:50:19 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so ive been dating this girl for a while now and were absolutely crazy about eachother. We always have a lot of fun. I hadnt seen her for a few days and then it was just like she was a whole new person. I think she may have like ten different personalities. Im not sure what exactly im experiencing or if anyone else has ever experience it but its kinda weird. Sometimes shes just a whole different person and i dont know how to act. Its really hard to explain but is there any way i can just ignore or accept this fact and just not worry about it?

2006-12-28 13:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

night for my mans birthday. i already got the lingerie. but what can i cook for him? and what else should i do?

2006-12-28 13:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hows the best way to break up with sum 1 and where should I break up with him

2006-12-28 13:49:29 · 2 answers · asked by Katy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with him for almost ten years and we broke up, i call him every day or text him . how do i stop and move on. i love him

2006-12-28 13:49:15 · 18 answers · asked by Alexis i. Dupont 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. So I started to like this guy, and then my friend somehow talked me into sending him a secret admirer candy thing our school does.

I think he knew it was me, but now I'm scared I ruined any chance I have of me just going up and talking to him...how do I go about talking to him and not getting so nervous...or did I mess everything up??

2006-12-28 13:47:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got marriend 7 mths ago we dont live together he says he loves me but i feel like iam wasting my time with him bot he says will change will he

2006-12-28 13:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by monica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Invited a male co-worker to dinner to celebrate Xmas. I'm his assistant. We were there few minutes before 5pm, ordered, & we were done in 45 minutes! He ordered his food & dessert without asking me what I'm having. Date or platonic date I was so turned-off. Wasn't a gentleman at all. What's up with Russian men? I find him rude! My thoughts were, he wanted to get the dinner over with. He wanted to pay but I'll feel uncomfy if I let him, because I was the one who did the invite. According to him, he dined with other women before & he always pay. I told him, there's always the first time. I just needed to vent out.

2006-12-28 13:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by buck 2 in Friends

I was "man of honor" at my best friends wedding

2006-12-28 13:45:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-28 13:45:32 · 53 answers · asked by Sandy s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:45:04 · 18 answers · asked by smf26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is winter breake and my Best friend got the stomach flu and had to go to the hospital and she called me in the middle of the night cuz i was sleeping... she had to call stephen her friend beace i didnt pick up(we were friends since 5th grade) she says that we are undependible i said i was srry i already lost one best friend i didnt want to loose this one help me??

2006-12-28 13:45:03 · 3 answers · asked by Hypercutie_2 4 in Friends

I had a date with a girl and I kissed her softly on the cheek as we walked out. She responded too.
The next day I called her to say a goodnight and how is she doing but she didnt answer so I left a message.
Is that the game of the beginning or what?

Thank you all in advance

2006-12-28 13:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Singles & Dating

they will gladly take care of kids that are not theres but when there baby momma ask them for something for there child they have every excuse in the world why they cant do it MEN explain it to me

2006-12-28 13:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by totally confused 1 in Singles & Dating