I had a date with a girl and I kissed her softly on the cheek as we walked out. She responded too.
The next day I called her to say a goodnight and how is she doing but she didnt answer so I left a message.
Is that the game of the beginning or what?
Thank you all in advance
2006-12-28 13:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be willing to try one more phone call if she does not respond move on.
2006-12-28 13:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress it - you abided by the rules, always call the next day after a date...
All guys need to adhere to that. Give her time, don't ping her everyday...
Call in a couple of days and ask her on a second date (note you did kinda f up - you should always ask a girl you like out on the next date before the end of the first date, very important).
So all should be cool... just don't call every day... let a few days pass from now, then ask her out again.
But not via her machine!
-dh
2006-12-28 21:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all what are you doing kissing anyone on the first date I dont care where it is ((winks & smiles)) she is playing the game with you girls have picked up on this little game. Let her know that you are not waiting around on her - dont call her or txt her it looks like your chasing her and people dont like that. Make her call after you, and wonder what your doing...and if she does not -then its her loss not yours and I mean that - you sound lovely so I would wait 2 more days and if nothing comes about. Take yourself else where and have fun. xox
2006-12-28 22:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by englishvanilla777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude, you shouldnt have called that soon, especially if you didnt know her as friends or something before that date. i would wait maybe a couple days to see if she gets back to. if not give her another call and see if she wants to go out again. maybe back off on the whole goodnight thing, till you are in a relationship with her.
2006-12-28 21:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she was busy. What I would do is try to call again in a day or so if she doesn't respond if you still don't get anything then you can just drop it.
2006-12-28 21:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by FSUgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just chill out man! Stop calling her. It's not a game. She has a life other than you, geez! Just let the cards fall as they will then you can play your hand untill then back off!
2006-12-28 21:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Chupacabra! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with calling so soon...i think the whole 'game thing' is so childish. I would try once more and then wait for her. just let her know you had fun and hope to hear back from her.
2006-12-28 21:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by redsox fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn;t call back with in 2days then she is not interested and just move on to the next date.
2006-12-28 21:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, since you left her a message. Don't call her back for a few days.But, wait and let her call you. It was nice of you to call her. I don't think that was bad. If she is interested in you, she call you back. Good luck.
2006-12-28 21:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient. maybe she didnt get the message, maybe she left the cel somewhere and didnt notice your call. Tell her that u love her, probably it is all she needs.
2006-12-28 21:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋