Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

There is one guy who is moving way too fast for me and it is becoming a deterrent for me. I really can't take it, I am feeling smothered and annoyed. Another guy, I really like. He gives me butterflies. His problem is that he is really focused on his career and his daughter. He says that he has deep feelings for me. Do I wait for him, tolerate and understand the guy who really likes me or leave them both alone? My last relationship lasted for 10 years and there are still a couple of scars left.

2006-12-28 14:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by dedakated1236 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:10:04 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor R 2 in Singles & Dating

i have not seen him for 2 1/2 yrs but he came here for x-mas. and we had sex 5 times when he was here. and he has a gf but he is not goin to tell her what we did.we have a child to gether and i have to get him back his is the love of my life and the father of my child and he is the first for everything for me. i asked him to come back to me and he told me that he does not love me but i now that is a lie.

2006-12-28 14:09:59 · 7 answers · asked by letsbefriends1984 1 in Singles & Dating

This is not a joke. I broke up with my g/f so I'm back to dating Rosie.
I can't seem to relax and enjoy it. Is there a position, fantasy, lotion or anything that would make the experience as satisfying as having real sex?

2006-12-28 14:09:09 · 14 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:09:01 · 8 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:08:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys if you told a girl that was one of your best friends that she was "beautiful and sexy" all the time, and she said "ohh nah, thank you" and you said that she had a wonderful heart and that you hoped you were friends forever and also and you were always touching her back and sides and hugging her...why wouldn't you ask her out if you really felt that way?

Do guys not like nice girls?

2006-12-28 14:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm feeling down. so i only want people to agree with me. so if you think love is a many splendid thing. go away, just answer some other person's questions. please.

2006-12-28 14:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by biodegradable insane asylum 5 in Singles & Dating

there were a pair of guests at my mom's house and my son was home from kentucky, he likes the girls. well i didn't know but he had spent the evening with one of the pair that was there. the other was her mom. my daughter and i persist to tell how my son loves to spred himself thin and this girls mom got mad and tried to correct my 23 year old daughter. i got furious and became unglued. i was told i was wrong, cause what we were saying. but it must have been a secret that he was with her daughter cause that was not who he left my house to be with. should i have gotten mad at a stranger who doesn't know me or my kids and stuck their stupid nose into my conservation, cause obviously her daughter fits the profile that my son loves(trash)

2006-12-28 14:07:07 · 8 answers · asked by sweetgirl 3 in Friends

He promises he will go to drug hehab again, but we(mom and I) have heard that before. He yells and threatens our lives. Help!!! She needs opinions to stay strong. He now has his own travel trailer, but is saying he doesn't have the money to be on his own, but he is the only one working between the two of them. He makes between 4000 and 6500 dollars a months. Rent is only 350. He blows it as fast as he makes it and is late on multiple bills. Yet still is wanting her to take pity on him. She is a big sap with a big heart. Always thinking of what could be the healthest for him in the long run. Gentle support or tough love? But trying not to be killed in the proccess. He also has done time for drugs in the past. How reliable are his words?

2006-12-28 14:07:06 · 28 answers · asked by Daughter2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 14:07:02 · 25 answers · asked by dumb_founded_01 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by zebdesign 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 14:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by 944963 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, it's one thing to have low self esteem, but if the guy is hitting them and openly cheating on them and they're still calling him "their boyfriend". I even know this one girl who's talking about marrying this guy who does that to her. What's up with that?

2006-12-28 14:05:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet someone that I have a lot in common with. The problem is they were in a 2 year relationship and have been single for only a couple months. How long is appropriate to wait to before dating?

2006-12-28 14:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by W.E.S. 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy and we have been on a few dates....i told him i am going on a vacation for 5 days and he asked to come along....so i told him only if we go as bodies and there will be NO sex....he wasnt happy about that, but agreed.... (we have been kissing before , but no sex) ,.....so i am thinking am i fooling myself?? and or is possible to go without sex??? should i let him come or not?

2006-12-28 14:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wasnt feeling well today and went home to take a nap. When I got to work my bf (we work together) asked why I changed pants. I told him they were uncomfortable and what really happened was I had some "rectum leakage" (remember I was really sick!). He could tell I wasnt being truthful and I want to tell him what really happened but its so gross! Should I let it go or tell him? I think he would understand....

2006-12-28 14:04:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this dude that My friend likes, is feeling me and I am kinda feelings him also. We have talked on the phone alot and over emails but the thing about that Is that she didnt like him at the beginning when someone else was trying to hook her up with him so she told me that he might be good for me so when we met each other she started feeling him when she figured he was feeling me also. Like I said I do talk to him threw emails and sometimes on the phone but she doesnt know. Wat should I do?

2006-12-28 14:04:41 · 3 answers · asked by Foxxy Roxxy 1 in Friends

I was told that if you tell your GF that she looks nice then she'll start to think "Wow, I look nice so why am I with this shmoe?" Is it true that you shouldn't tell a girl this or is this just stupid?

2006-12-28 14:03:36 · 36 answers · asked by holybass08 1 in Singles & Dating

I myself am an atheist/agnostic. I've been told that I should "try to accept god" because if I dont, it will be much more difficult to for me to find a date. Apparently, believing in god is a strong prerequisite to finding a date.

Girls, how important is religiosity to you? If you are a Christian, would you date an atheist/agnostic?

I understand that atheists are far and few between, but does that preclude them from obtaining dates?

2006-12-28 14:03:36 · 37 answers · asked by Nietzsche 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:03:12 · 33 answers · asked by jokesterjosh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you get remarried and have another child, will the expenses you have for your new child be taken into consideration when doing a modification of child support? I have a 13 year old and now a newborn. I was previously paying 50/50 for my 13 year old (who lives with me), but now I have a newborn with daycare expenses, etc. Will my portion go down for my 13 year old?

2006-12-28 14:02:02 · 6 answers · asked by R H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 14:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by New beginnings 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 79 pounds and im 15 years old. My figure is good. The boys at my school think im hot but i dont want them calling me that because I already have a boyfriend. What should I do?

2006-12-28 14:00:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:59:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's t/story. I started talking to this guy online around 3 months ago, & from t/beginning he made me smile & seemed like a nice person. We have so many things in common & we can laugh for almost anything. After a while he asked for my number & we began to talk on t/phone as well as online, but I really didn't think much of it.

On Christmas day he asked what I was doing, & invited me to t/movies, I accepted. Once there we had to wait for t/movie to begin, so we went to Dunkin' Donuts to get something to drink & sat outside talking about almost everything & anything.

He was very respectful the entire time, opened doors for me, basically the works! Long story short @ t/end of t/night, he drove me back to my car & we just sat in his car talking a while longer, thing is t/moment felt right, t/mood was set (romantic song playing in t/background & all w/out it being planned lol)..so we kissed, & laid back in his arms a while doing nothing..

2006-12-28 13:59:02 · 21 answers · asked by ☆Karma☆ 6 in Singles & Dating

I asked a general question before; but reality is I love this woman, she is the one of the best reasons in my life. I do everything you ladies have mention, but I do think she is insecure due to past relationships.. Is this dangerous to us or what?

2006-12-28 13:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 13:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by BadBoy L 2 in Friends

my wife wants me to try dressing as a girl just for fun for sex and foreplay and she thinks it will be fun to do and im kindof willing to try it and just wanted to get some opinions and ideas from both girls and guys

2006-12-28 13:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something really creative & fun for my best friend's sixteenth birthday, any ideas? (She's a girl, in case you were wondering. =])

2006-12-28 13:56:00 · 7 answers · asked by xo_emilia_xo 1 in Friends