2006-12-28 14:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by zebdesign 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just go on living. It gets a tiny bit easier every day even if the pain never really goes away.
2006-12-28 14:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the right way to "solve" this problem is to ignore it. I mean, this was obviously someone you cared about. I would just see it as you were very lucky to have this person in your life, whether it was for a long or short period of time. Just remember that time heals everything. Things might seem hard now, but things always get better.
2006-12-28 23:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After losing three very close family members in the last 18 months all I can tell you is to try to focus on better times, turn to the church if it suits you and allow yourself time to grieve- crying is cathartic, don't hold your emotions inside of yourself as they will only come out in other ways.
2006-12-28 22:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never really get over a death you basically just have to cry and talk to somone about it and adventually u will not think of it as much but u will always remember that person. when my great grandma passed i cried and cried and cried i wouldnt eat i got so depressed they had to committ me into a mental place and after a while they let me out i just had to talk to some1 about it and i was suicidal so lol I hope you can get help as soon as possible
good luck always mimi
2006-12-28 22:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by hott m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from someone who has lost 3 close family members this year alone !!! 1. my nephew Nick age 18 passed 11 mos ago.................2. my mom Age withheld for fear of backlash from beyond ... lol love you mom... passed 6 mos. ago ................3 my nephew Richard Age 20 2 mos. after my mom
thats just this past year I also lost my Dad when I was 10 all 4 of my grand parents 4 uncles 2 aunts and a big brother
You never get over it , you learn to cope it helps me to cope knowing they are in a far better place watching over me my wife and my kids it also helps me to know they are saving a place for me and i will see them again one day. Another thing that my wife showed me and I now believe is true is that if you believe they will show themselves as something to show they are with you my mom showed herself shortly after her passing as a rose in the clouds two days in a row to let my family know she is ok. my wife lost her cousin whom she was very close to the next day while we were standing on the porch she in my arms crying a butterfly flew up into her face she knew right away it was kennith she felt at peace she knew he was ok we both sat at our picnic table across from each other holding hands and the butterfly sat there at the end of the table for afew minutes (i believe to make sure she knew and was ok) then flew back around my wifes head as though to say good bye and flew away there is alot more but I have to go now and get some sleep have to work early tom. please E-MAIL ME IF YOU NEED HELP OR TO JUST chat good luck !!!!! it will be ok I PROMISE hmwh_mwc@yahoo.com
2006-12-28 23:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never do. but life goes on remember he don't put no more on you then you can bear. I know i been there before i lost a child. In life we all go threw test to test our faith.I not say forget because you never will but remember the good times. the person that you are talking about would wont you to go on and be happy. because they are in GODS HAND now. A BETTER PLACE
2006-12-28 23:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by christina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about them. Avoid anything that will remind you of them because that will only make you remember then get all sad. Go on with your life, getting all depressed isn't going to help you get them back. Know that everyone has their time to live and that everyone will someday die. So will you. So accept it anyway, its what God willed and its what was supposed to happen.
2006-12-28 22:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on the positive things that they've done and know that they are watching over you. I'm dealing w/ a lost myself... It's hard but acceptance is the key :)
2006-12-28 22:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by msnana90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yrself sometime to grief, carry on yr life and you should be fine...pain gets lesser with time
2006-12-29 00:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think of it as death...celebrate the life that they had...remeber all of the good things_
2006-12-28 22:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋