i met this guy and we have been on a few dates....i told him i am going on a vacation for 5 days and he asked to come along....so i told him only if we go as bodies and there will be NO sex....he wasnt happy about that, but agreed.... (we have been kissing before , but no sex) ,.....so i am thinking am i fooling myself?? and or is possible to go without sex??? should i let him come or not?
2006-12-28 14:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe if you have respect for yourself, you won't have sex. If he has respect for you , you won't have sex. If neither one has respect there will be sex. You make the choice.
Better yet leave him home.
2006-12-28 14:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you aren't fooling yourself! It is possible to go and not have sex. You know your limits stick to your guns! I went to Seattle on his dime, slept in the same bed, and woke up every morning with the pillow I placed in the middle of the night still in place just so that HE wouldn't get any ideas because I knew I wasn't giving him any.
2006-12-28 22:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by dedakated1236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he respects you and you respect yourself, then yea it's possible. stick toyour decision of no sex. if he can't agree with it, make him sleep in another room or on the floor or something.
2006-12-28 22:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him go unless you are ready for sex, I'd work on you till you gave in.(politely)
2006-12-28 22:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure......................... youre not going to have sex.... hahahaha
2006-12-28 22:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋