I wasnt feeling well today and went home to take a nap. When I got to work my bf (we work together) asked why I changed pants. I told him they were uncomfortable and what really happened was I had some "rectum leakage" (remember I was really sick!). He could tell I wasnt being truthful and I want to tell him what really happened but its so gross! Should I let it go or tell him? I think he would understand....
2006-12-28 14:04:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him "Girl stuff." Men know not to ask after that!
2006-12-28 14:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This shouldn't be a difficult thing, you don't have to get detailed, but if you have relationship I wouldn't think that this would be such a difficult issue. You can say you were sick and messed your pants and that it bothers you so you don't want to discuss details.
The thought in my mind is that if you don't feel confident to share a minor event....it begs the question of what kind of relationship you are developing when you can be forthcoming....sorry, but that was my first thought...
2006-12-28 14:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by cyahlaytar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that there will be no problems with telling him them go ahead.
You might not want to use the term "rectum leakage" thou.
2006-12-28 14:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're ideal to be scared yet of course that's something he's ashamed of as you have lower back and lower back confronted him over it. i'm hoping you may artwork with him over this as you have been jointly a whilst. you will desire to make him comprehend that that's something you're conscious of, and which you're frightened of. clarify to him your fears- in writing in case you difficulty he won't pay attention- and ask him for the actuality. If he would not provide it to you, you have an exceedingly perplexing determination to make. sturdy luck.
2016-10-19 02:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a good relationship with your boyfriend ,you should tell him. there is no reason not to. do not be disgusted with this, because it is a medical issue. he is already puzzled at the change and he seems to worry about. So It is normal to tell him. It is all about trust . good luck
2006-12-28 14:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidents happen, don't let it bother you. My girlfriend had leakage during intercourse, we both had a good laugh afterwords. We still joke about it.
2006-12-28 14:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you tell him the truth he will trust you. And if he really likes you, he wont care... He may be grossed out, but wont care....
2006-12-28 14:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he needs to know the truth lol going ahead and say it.
2006-12-28 14:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows you were sick?
say: u sure you want to know 'cause it's kinda disgusting, uh-- yea they were uncomfortable--
then in a furitave tone say:
I was having diarreah (which, you were).
and then say: (optional)
ok? and I'd hug you, but uh--- I kinda don't want to get you sick too-- not so much fun..
2006-12-28 14:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if he cares about u then he wouldn't care .......u were not feeling well he should understand that if he teases u then that would be really childish. just tell him so u won't feel uncomfortable
2006-12-28 14:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋