Here's t/story. I started talking to this guy online around 3 months ago, & from t/beginning he made me smile & seemed like a nice person. We have so many things in common & we can laugh for almost anything. After a while he asked for my number & we began to talk on t/phone as well as online, but I really didn't think much of it.
On Christmas day he asked what I was doing, & invited me to t/movies, I accepted. Once there we had to wait for t/movie to begin, so we went to Dunkin' Donuts to get something to drink & sat outside talking about almost everything & anything.
He was very respectful the entire time, opened doors for me, basically the works! Long story short @ t/end of t/night, he drove me back to my car & we just sat in his car talking a while longer, thing is t/moment felt right, t/mood was set (romantic song playing in t/background & all w/out it being planned lol)..so we kissed, & laid back in his arms a while doing nothing..
2006-12-28 13:59:02 · 21 answers · asked by ☆Karma☆ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weird thing is i felt good just laying there looking at t/sky, I just felt as if I had known him forever!! And as if I never wanted t/moment to end.
I don’t ever do this type of thing.. But for t/one time I did, I felt really good about it.. He made me feel good, w/out doing much.
Is it safe to feel this way? Or am I just weird and overlooking the situation or him in general? Please, your thoughts! Good or bad, dish em’ out, I need it. Thank you for your insight.
*hugz*
2006-12-28 13:59:24 · update #1
3 mos. is an alright amount of time to feel you know someone, even if it was online-chatting is chatting after all! Getting to know him on a more personal level is a good step as well! Glad to hear you're comfortable with him, as I have a feeling you have a terrific sense of people's character. sounds like a gentleman! I say go for it. See what happens! You ONLY live once-Magic just might happen-just don't listen to any Chante Moore!! :-)) Hell, I'll be there if he turns out to be an Azz!!
2006-12-28 15:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Paintspinner37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is beautiful!! Of course it is safe to feel that way. You've met someone you have true chemistry with. That is bound to develop into LOVE if everything stays the same. That is the kind of bond most people are missing out on these days. Hang on to it. You'll regret it if you don't. That is, if he stays the same. So long as that wasn't a front and that's who he is, then I would think it safe to say that you guys are meant to be. Give it a little more time, you will know it if you feel it. Follow your gut instincts and thank God for such a blessing!
2006-12-28 14:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it is not safe to feel that way.3 months is not long enough to really know what type of person he is.Sure he's going to show you the good side of himself.But you need to know what the other side is like as well,before you get to involved with him.You want to know what a person is really like?Any place where they don't have to say much like the movies,in a car listening to romantic music,hugged up in his arms won't tell you anything.You need to be in an open environment where you have the opportunity to observe,listen,and be mentally aware of what he says and does.
2006-12-28 14:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USA chat rooms are very different from the Greek chat room that I used for over 6 years. So I would say use caution and find out more about him. On the gr one everyone meets once a month, knows each other by name online, have each others phone numbers etc.....they even had a party for me the first year I went there over 6 years ago....just got back from my 7th trip. Anyway, in states its so different so please, stay in public places until you find out more about him...where he works, background, friends of his.....you did smart by driving your own car to meet him and not having him at your house the first time......do that until you know more also.....Good luck
2006-12-28 14:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally would go to his local police dept and have him checked out. i would also go to interview his friends, tell the police that you met him online and see what they say. i would also google him and go to that website where you can find stuff out on him... for a days pass it is like $7 or something, i will also be sending you an email on this. i don't want to scare you, but this is potentially unsafe... i think on some level you knew that, or you would not have asked the question.
you are out of your "safe zone" of people that you know, which is cool and all, but be careful.. don' t let him pick you up from your house, always meet him at a public place... just play it overlay safe for now.
2006-12-30 02:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by guudkarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a true prince for you! But watch out!! Looks can be deceiving, sure he is Mr. Wonderful now, but what's to say in like a month or so he starts to show his true colors. I mean at first everyone is kinda shy I think, but I would definitely get to know him a little better before you start thinking long term. Just be careful and don't drop your guard until you are for sure he is not a pedophile! Good luck!
2006-12-28 14:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself just a little time to get over the honeymoon stage of it all so you get to see the real him. Everyone has flaws and eventually they'll come out. If u r a realistic person though just let yourself enjoy it and have whatever fun u feel u can handle without getting too hurt.
2006-12-28 14:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aka YOUR PERFECT GUY ...if you can feel that comfortable and have huge feelings for him on the FIRST date...i mean that is it right there...he is a gentlemen, polite, stays close you(basically holds you while you sit in the car) like you said..."He was very respectful the entire time, opened doors for me, basically the works! " right there you just answered you own questioned and just needed another person to elaborate...well that is all i have and i give you all the luck in the world and that everything continues to go great for you guys...if you want to talk to me more in depth go ahead and im me ok ...chinaman0389
2006-12-28 14:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it.
if it feels right, what is the problem?
Sounds like a great guy
word of caution, do let someone know what you are up to with him.
SInce you dont know anything about him other than what he told you, it would be nice to have a friend know where you are and who you are with just in case.
Kudos for finding such a respectable guy
THEY DO EXIST!
2006-12-28 14:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are acting like a guy and thinking too much OR you must really like this dude. Just go with the flow and the actions will follow. Just trust yourself and you will konw if it is going in the right direction
2006-12-28 14:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by DVD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋