Family & Relationships - 28 December 2006

i dont get it, we were having a "serious covo."
and he started 2 tear up, and all he said was
i made him soo weak!
and wouldnt explain wat he meant
wat do u guys think?

2006-12-28 14:23:47 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

She is very picky to get a job, everything is an issue. Even when I offered her to work in my job but she rejected because I work there. Christmas came and she didn't buy me anything but an ipod COVER but bough her friends their gift like purse and etc..
For Christmas She wanted me to spend 150 dollars on her but I backed away from it specially when I had to paid a bill. She promised me some Timberland's for my Birthday November 8, 2006 and up to this date, nothing yet. I have the money to buy my own but since she asked me what I wanted I asked for that. She's going to college and only works 4 days of the month. Doesn't want to make the effort to have a full time job or part time anywhere, like I said very picky. I don't mind paying for things but sometimes you also want to get something in return, We've been together for 10 months and I'm there in the bad times, but what do you all think of this?

She's 21 and only going to school. Her car is messed up. She uses her credit card. She could be a great girlfriend if she would solve these issues, I don't want to tell her because I don't like to whine and I like for people to see their own mistakes and also I don't want her thinking that I'm thinking I'm maintaining her. I'm 19, work full time, I go to school full time, I have a 3.75 GPA. Why can't she do it? We don't live together. No kids at all. It's a long term relationship of 10 months. It's not that I care for the money but a gift once in a while it's nice. She says if she had the income she would buy things for me but that is just words...

2006-12-28 14:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's a man to do?

2006-12-28 14:22:46 · 29 answers · asked by holybass08 1 in Singles & Dating

How come I get what I need. Not a lot but what I need to survive, I have a loving family and yet I come home at night and sit in my room feeling alone. I just want the warm touch of a girl. I want to cuddle up to my girl and know that I will always be with her. I don't want to do anything wrong i just want to feel loved. And then when I am old enough and I know that I love her get married to her, for ever. The problem is, that I don't have a girl. I just can't seem to find a girl that would love me. So i feel alone and I hate it.

2006-12-28 14:22:35 · 9 answers · asked by need_to_know432 1 in Singles & Dating

5 kids 2 in college 2 in hs 1 in middle school. hes okay just have outgrown him and i will never find financial security cause he doesnt work enuf 2 help

2006-12-28 14:22:24 · 21 answers · asked by answers999 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I go on dates with a girl a couple times a week and we talk on the phone every day. She kisses me at the end of every date. She's not my girlfriend, but it kind of feels like it. I'm not sure how serious all of this could be considered.

2006-12-28 14:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married 8 yrs. My husband has not been a great husband but a great dad. the problem, i just think i dont luv him anymore. he messed around with my sis last yr (kissed her) and he has always made fun of me in front of friends but now he's trying really hard to be nice, but i think i have no feelings left. and he makes twice as much money as me. i work full time but may not be able to afford things im use to. should i leave? i dont want to hurt our son or his family. oh and i am getting help and we are both on anti-depress.

2006-12-28 14:22:05 · 23 answers · asked by iknow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 14:21:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my freind i met in highschool 7 years ago when we were 14.
when i met her she was pregnat cuz some guy moslested her or somthin. and i stuck around alot and we became real tigh and when the baby came he was named after me. and hes 7 now and calls me dad and i never said to him to call me that and he just does and he thinks that im his dad. his moms like i nevar said you where. and today he was asking me qeustions. :
him : daddy how come i dont look like you ?
me : cuz you look like your mom.
him : some parts of my face i dont look like you or my mom.
me : like what ?
him : i have grey eyes and you or mom doesnt.
me : my sister has grey eyes.
him : how come ezekeil myshliegh and alex all look like you and i dont ?
( those are my other kids who look just like me )
me : because your a leader and not a follower !
him : was i adopted ?
me : look how much popcorn i can fit in my mouthe !!

what am i supposed to tell him ? his mom has know idea what to say. and im out of popcorn

2006-12-28 14:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has had this crush on this guy for over a year. they would IM and call each other. well, one night while on IM, they decided to cyber. this has been 6 months ago and she hasnt heard from him since. did he think she was cheap for doing this? what other reason could there be for him not talking to her anymore?

2006-12-28 14:21:17 · 27 answers · asked by BUTTERFLY 2 in Singles & Dating

Because i made a new friend and now i think my other friend that is known longer is mad at me

2006-12-28 14:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Friends

2006-12-28 14:20:11 · 12 answers · asked by mimi 3 in Friends

I am not lazy, I work, take care of 2 children may I add one is teething.............I do a lot but in his eyes I do nothing I believe he is seeing someone else he accuses me of doing so but ladies you know the old saying when they are accusing its thier consciuos

2006-12-28 14:19:10 · 19 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was walking around at the mall one time and this gorgeous woman (probably in her mid or early 40's) wearing really short shorts passed by me... I turned around to check her nice shapley muscular legs out from behind. And when I turned back I noticed this girl give me an ugly look like "EWWWW... You were checkin out THAT?!". And yeah... I pretty much felt a lil embarrassed :P.. I'm not really attracted to girls my age... unless they have big sexy shapley muscular calves and thighs or don't have that whinney immature attitude. Most (I'm not saying all) girls my age are immature, annoying and like to play games and other lame stupid crap... Older women are mature and know what they want and dont play around and don't pull any bullcr@p.. I don't know any other dudes my age and are just attracted to older women.. Is this wrong/weird that I'm like this..? Should I feel embarrassed..? And does my english suck?? LOL!! Tell me what you think on Y!messenger (ID: skillz_you_cant_compete_with)

2006-12-28 14:18:39 · 20 answers · asked by mexipinoy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:18:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-28 14:18:24 · 18 answers · asked by spud 4 in Singles & Dating

I get crap about at school alot

2006-12-28 14:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor R 2 in Singles & Dating

How much PDA is too much? i know that some people tend to go overboard and i find it uncomfortable. I'm just wondering where the line is. I mean, leaning on one another is fine in my book, but what goes too far?

2006-12-28 14:16:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u can choose as many as u want

2006-12-28 14:15:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all, I didn't know he had a girlfriend. I just found out. I've been seeing this guy for 6 months. He lives on the West coast ( where the girlfriend lives) . He is currently works in Iraq. I live on the east coast. We recently took a "family" cruise together. I meet his kids for the 1st time. He hadn't seen his kids for 8 mths. He asked me to pretend that we didn't know each other and that our meeting was a coiencidence because he didn't want the kids to think that he had an alterior motive. While on vacation he asked me to help him pick out a souvenir for the kids "mom" (they are divorced). I picked nice but cheap ( $10) earrings/necklace set. Which was actually for the girlfriend. His older son started to volunteer info and told me that his dad has a girlfriend at home. He denied it at first but admitted it when he returned to Iraq. He said that they are on and off. On when he's on leave and off while he's in Iraq. I have a source who can contact her.

2006-12-28 14:15:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have 2 kids under 9. boy and girl. i have a 2 bedroom house. would you keep the kids in one room or have seperate rooms for each and you sleep on livingroom?

2006-12-28 14:15:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know a person has to actually do the act to be one but maybe hes a closeted one? i'm 19 but look younger and he is also 19. we role play that i'm a little girl (his little girl. long story don't ask.). he's just really into all this little girl stuff. but it could be because he really wants to have a daughter some day. so um maybe hes secretly one but doesn't want to go to jail and such so he's with me since i look young and i'm adorable like one and the whole role playing with do.. and if he isnt one..do you all think i'm turning him into one by doing that type of role playing? sometimes i worry.

2006-12-28 14:15:18 · 8 answers · asked by yo 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always wanted a normal life but it’s hard if you’re a bi. One year ago I was supposed to get married with a foreign girl. She was deported before we had the chance to get registered. One year has past since I last saw her and recently I mat a guy who is nice to me. I hope somebody has had some experience in this. Because I have never had a male relation ship before. Should I wait for my fiancé or take the chance and follow my heart?

2006-12-28 14:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by BearHawk 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, what first move should I do?

2006-12-28 14:13:35 · 15 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-28 14:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by bdolphinlover11 1 in Family

I've been seeing this guy that I met online for a month now. We're not exclusive because he's not ready and I wanted to give him some time. Now he says that he's been obsessing over his ex wife. He says that he does want to get over her and be happy. He says that he cares a great deal about me and doesn't want to lose me and he wants to talk 3-4 times a day because talking to me makes me happy. But, he calls her every day because he says he has to hear her voice. He drove by her house at 2 am and 4 am this morning because he couldn't get her out of his head. They were married for 10 years, have been divorced for about 5 and they have a kid together. He says he wants to let me show him what a relationship with me could be and he says i make him happy but that when we're not together he thinks about her. I really care about him but I'm not sure what I should do. Should I try and help him move on by keeping his mind off her or should I walk away?

2006-12-28 14:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by nechesser 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, if you had a choice between having a spouse who was devilishly handsome but didn't have a pot to piss in or having a spouse who looked like the backside of a donkey, but had much money, which would you choose and why?

2006-12-28 14:12:08 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I was supposed to be getting back to getter however he just found out that his baby mama is being kicked out she is pregnant with his first child and he feels obligated to take her in. He wants me to wait until she has the baby and get back on her feet for us to be together. Should I wait

2006-12-28 14:11:46 · 33 answers · asked by b4a0d9 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, im just having a bad bad day. i finally realized that i wanted my ex-bf back a couple of days ago (we broke up in july), only to find a new girl in his life, and he is no longer answering my phone calls or emails, hes even blocked me on aim .. his friends say he is trying to forget me so that he can move on, bc he thinks i dont want him back, meanwhile im just looking for the right moment to tell him i love him, but he wont get in contact with me!

meanwhile, a couple of weeks ago i started being friends with benefits with this guy (to try to forget my ex) and i started to get a crush on him.. only to find out that he has a crush on one of my good friends.. that he never had similar feelings for me.

so basically, the guys in my life are gone, and im left feeling lonely and a bit worthless.

im just having a bad day, and if anyone could cheer me up with something great that happened to YOU recently, or even advice on my situation, that would be deeply appreciated. thanks.

2006-12-28 14:11:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm freaking out. Like over half the girls on yahoo answers say they are under 100lbs!!! I'm 150lbs 5'10 34 D's with muscle tone(I'm german I play golf and box what can I say you get the picture) I'm not fat but my rib bones are inside my body not trying to protrude out of my skin! I'm sorry but I thought guys like boobs not rib bones so I guess I'm just out of luck!

2006-12-28 14:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating