hi, im just having a bad bad day. i finally realized that i wanted my ex-bf back a couple of days ago (we broke up in july), only to find a new girl in his life, and he is no longer answering my phone calls or emails, hes even blocked me on aim .. his friends say he is trying to forget me so that he can move on, bc he thinks i dont want him back, meanwhile im just looking for the right moment to tell him i love him, but he wont get in contact with me!
meanwhile, a couple of weeks ago i started being friends with benefits with this guy (to try to forget my ex) and i started to get a crush on him.. only to find out that he has a crush on one of my good friends.. that he never had similar feelings for me.
so basically, the guys in my life are gone, and im left feeling lonely and a bit worthless.
im just having a bad day, and if anyone could cheer me up with something great that happened to YOU recently, or even advice on my situation, that would be deeply appreciated. thanks.
2006-12-28 14:11:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well this is sad what i think you should is start talking to him and then your friendship will grow stronger do what ever you can to talk to him now for my moto this might help you the lotus blooms twice the first it blooms for the first chance to come out then the second chance it blooms out and then when it blooms it finds a place it stays there ok what i am really trying to say is the first chance he will accept you the second chance you will have to try harder and when the lotus blooms it well become beautiful [so when you try your hardest he will see the true love of you believe it!
2006-12-28 14:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, it hurts being rejected, and it has happened to me way more times than I would like to admit. The thing with your ex, It's time to just move on but don't do it by fooling around with other people that will only leave you more hurt coming out of than it did before you went into it. I think you need to do something special for yourself and keep yourself occupied with living life, other than focusing on your ex, because there is a reason he's your ex and hes trying to get over you, just occupy your brain and try to keep him off of it, then before you know it you'll be happy with yourself and the way things are then someone perfect will come along. Don't rely on a guy to make you happy though cause all they do is let you down in the end and you will never be happy. I wish you the best of luck and I hope this helps, and I hope you get into a better mood.
2006-12-28 14:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by kandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey: what you're having is not a bad day but just a "necessary" day. Meaning you just have to get through the feelings, pain, and emotional disappointments. Believe me from experience, it will all pass. I know first hand how very hurtful it can be to break up with someone only to realize that you're still in love with them. The same thing happened to me and I was separated from him for 9 months. However, I am a firm and true believer in that saying "that if you love something let it go, if it was yours it will come back, and if not then it won't!" In my situation not only did we reconciliate but we are now engaged to get married. Don't give up; but one thing I will caution you about is be careful about jumping in and out of bed/relationships with other guys if you really love and want him back. While it is a double standard that men abide by we as women can't afford to. No matter what he's doing, or has done, if you truly love and want him back please, please keep your side of the street clean. Just because he's trying to move on doesn't mean it will be successful, and the last thing he needs to hear/know is that you are being a human trampoline. Keep your dignity, class, intact; if nothing else whether you and him get back together or not you'll feel better about having your class, dignity, and reputation.....Best wishes..............
2006-12-28 14:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sounds like a bad situation, but cheer up! this too shall pass. As for my advice...it sounds like you're aren't quite sure what you want. But if you ARE sure that you are in love with your ex...then what is stopping you!?!! Desperate times call for desperate measures. GO TO HIS HOUSE! if you're not that ballsy, leave a message or write him a letter. Letters are better than emails because you took the time to write out your feeling--which shows they were carefully considered and thought through. But at the end of the day, your self worth is waaaaay more important than any guy. Love yourself first before letting anyone else love you! If you're looking for a pick me up, turn up the stereo to your favorite song, call an old long lost friend, or go grab a drink with an old pal...and DON'T talk about men! :)
2006-12-28 14:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by should be working 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
distinctive human beings so I hate to unmarried all and sundry out yet i pass to assert my large buddy April. She's the main suitable! She's having a coarse day in the present day too and that i choose there replaced right into a manner i ought to cheer her up. Love Ya April!
2016-10-06 03:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason why you want your bf back is because he is with another girl. Tell me would you still feel the same way if he was single? The emotions you are feeling is neediness with a dash of jeaolousy. My advice if he doesn't want to get back is to start seeing other people.
2006-12-28 14:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let guys ruin your life! Trust me, I'd be in a dark hole right now if I pondered over all the dumb things guys have done.
Anyway, if you want a funny story. I work at a department store and yesterday this lady asked me to check another store for this robe that she wanted. I looked in the computer system and explained to her that the store didn't have any and she wanted me to call anyway because it was a "courtesy call" the phones we have at work don't dial out and she persisted that I dial 411. She kept yelling "IN THE NAME OF JESUS" and then she even told me that she was gonna tell her cousin in the FBI about me and she was gonna track me down.
A little creepy and insane but I hope you got some enjoyment from my misery! lol
2006-12-28 14:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by citygurl8503 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop feeling sorry for yourself your ex doesn't want you back so move on this other guy want your friend so move on. There are plenty of guys out there so forget about these two jerks and move on. Life is to short!
2006-12-28 14:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by b4a0d9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like you need to move on with your life and forget the ex if he has a new girlfriend and don't listen to what everybody else is say because if this guy wanted you back, then he would of tried harder. and this guy that has benefits, well he sounds like a player so lose him. just start going out and having fun,meeting new guys until someone really makes you smile.
2006-12-28 14:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by nea_11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your bad day will go beautiful if you look in the mirrow and say to yourself they are not worth my time and soon you will find someone who really cares about you,stay away from girlfriends that know the same guys because women are basically the b word and they don't care who they hurt when it comes to men,i had it done to me by my so-called best friend of 20yrs
2006-12-28 14:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋