My ex and I was supposed to be getting back to getter however he just found out that his baby mama is being kicked out she is pregnant with his first child and he feels obligated to take her in. He wants me to wait until she has the baby and get back on her feet for us to be together. Should I wait
2006-12-28 14:11:46 · 33 answers · asked by b4a0d9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should drop the loser and go for someone who does not have baby mama, baby problems. The baby's mama will take half his paycheck. The baby will take away his attention from you. The baby's mama will always be trying to get into his pants. Is this what you want?!?!
2006-12-28 14:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He has an obligation now to take responsibilty for. Unfortunatly it is not fair to you and you should move on. With them living together and being pregnant may very well gring them closer again. Then what happens when you have waited the 9 months or longer? You have wasted your time and suffer the heartache. She is the mother of his children and will ALWAYS be in the picture. If I were you I would let him go do what he needs to do. I am not saying he is a bad person, obveously he is not. But you need to think about yourself and your future as well.
2006-12-28 14:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WAIT for What don't you know what the meaning of X means?Excuse me but his other baby mama ain't got a thang to do with you.His first obligation is going to be with THAT BABY Not You..Move on life is to short to waiting on folks and besides by the time he gets out of the web he has weaved you might not even want him.Don't deal with the baby mama drama ya don't have to.
2006-12-28 14:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no way I would wait on him. He has a commitment to this woman and child that you will never be able to overcome. She and the baby will always come first in his life, and if she lives with him don't you think they will be physical with each other?
You deserve to have the full attention of a man. Don't settle for less.
2006-12-28 14:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He IS an ex! He has a baby with another woman, wants you to wait for him while he lives with her.....did I MISS something???RUN, don't walk from this disaster, waiting to happen. Move on in your life! Good Luck!! NO, you should NOT wait!!
2006-12-28 14:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let him work this one out on his own. You should tell him to call you when he has his obligation in order ( he is doing to be a dad and that comes first) If you are still available then okay. If not you've moved on.
2006-12-28 14:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You most definately should not wait for him. What if she still has no place to go and he wants to take her in when you guys are together. KICK HIM TO THE CURB!
2006-12-28 14:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, live your life don't get involved with baby mama drama
2006-12-28 14:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why disrupt your life and wait he made his choice,don't wait he may decide to stay with her after the baby comes, and stop believing everything he tells u. u may never be together again, he chose her over u, that's all that u need to be concerned with.
2006-12-28 14:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you would be a fool !!!!! what are you thinking!!! he is going to be doing the family thing and you will b alone sitting on your @$$ waiting for some loser that that can't be responsible enough to take some sort of precaution. she is still preg. with his kid and already moved on to his next victim R U F' N CRAZY !!!!!!!
2006-12-28 14:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋