I was walking around at the mall one time and this gorgeous woman (probably in her mid or early 40's) wearing really short shorts passed by me... I turned around to check her nice shapley muscular legs out from behind. And when I turned back I noticed this girl give me an ugly look like "EWWWW... You were checkin out THAT?!". And yeah... I pretty much felt a lil embarrassed :P.. I'm not really attracted to girls my age... unless they have big sexy shapley muscular calves and thighs or don't have that whinney immature attitude. Most (I'm not saying all) girls my age are immature, annoying and like to play games and other lame stupid crap... Older women are mature and know what they want and dont play around and don't pull any bullcr@p.. I don't know any other dudes my age and are just attracted to older women.. Is this wrong/weird that I'm like this..? Should I feel embarrassed..? And does my english suck?? LOL!! Tell me what you think on Y!messenger (ID: skillz_you_cant_compete_with)
2006-12-28 14:18:39 · 20 answers · asked by mexipinoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i am 42 and my bf is 30 but i never really consider someone so young as being attracted to someone my age... i did have a 21 yr old ask me out when i was 40 but i blew it off.l did not think a man so young could be attracted to some one so old..you just made me think
2006-12-28 14:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarrassed. Young dudes check out older women all the time. Just remember this, Halley Berry, Pamela Anderson, Tyra Banks and Janet Jackson are all over 30 and most of them have been for years.
2006-12-28 14:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just who you are attracted to...I have dated a lot of younger men...one guy was 25 and I was 40...it lasted 7 years...I have dated men 11 to 21 years younger than me...its okay but you need to be over 21... you really need behave until then....age is just a number....but be of at least legal age and you will find the older woman of your dreams !!! No game playing goes on with older women....
2006-12-28 14:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with older women. I say go for it! When I was 33 I dated an 18 year old. The sex was fantastic! I had a difficult time keeping up with her but it was sure as hell fun trying!
2006-12-28 14:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 is the age of consent in NY, and I've heard of this before. Yes, you're in the minority, but also a blessing for energetic attractive women "of a certain age." Do whatever's legal, man. If you want to improve your English, go ahead, but I hardly think it's necessary....
2006-12-28 14:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a little young to be lookin at 40+ yr old women but u kno what u like and thats good. girls ur age dont kno what they want and are often immautre and play games. I think older women are hotter then girls my age too somtimes (im 19)
2006-12-28 14:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by BM33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with liking older women - higher level of maturity, have fewer hang ups, and will generally teach you a thing or two about life in general. Why do I know this ... because I am in the same boat :D
2006-12-28 14:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only feel embarrassed if you're insecure about it. If you really are attracted to them, I don't think your weird or anything for it. But only pursue relationships AFTER you're 18. Your English is much better than most people's on here.
2006-12-28 14:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Xenia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is age ain't nothing but a number and there is nothing wrong or weird about you being attracted to the opposite sex.
2006-12-28 14:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dominique J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see....
your english is ok--- actually-- if you're thinking it sucks, it totally rocks dude (in comparason)
as for that--- u like what you like-- some people may find it not exactly uh... hum... well... the closest word I can think of is apetizing... but uh... that's not quite right...
and yea---- girls your age are a bit of a horomonal coctail. it happens. well--- maybe this sounds wierd--- but if you like musculature try looking at irish and scottish people... (long story)
2006-12-28 14:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋