2006-12-28 14:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by bdolphinlover11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well my sister and i fight a lot, here's what you do take time out to watch a movie, laugh at ridiculous stuff,or go shopping( have a hobby or something together). It doesn't have to be all day every day maybe and hour a week, then if you want spend more time together. Once you do try it the two of you may like each other more and work more things out together. Rather than biting each others heads off. It works, my sister and I fight less and get along better than ever.
2006-12-28 15:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Beckford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I bet your parents would like this too...
My older sisters would fight, OMG they would fight!! Do you have your own space? As kids we got our own rooms, and we provide our kids with there own rooms. If you can get your own space this would be good. This way when sister ticks you off just go into your room.
I would think your parents would support this idea, lord knows I would if I had girls. Boys seam to fight different, there is always blood involved...and I am to small to get them apart.
Good luck and remember to walk away, or try...
2006-12-28 22:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK GIRL!wel..that dosent realli help at all does it?i have 2 yougner sisters and when i was younger,it was a chaos wehn we all fight..LOL.anyways,try to calm down cuz ur gonna have to live with her for most of ur life right?so what good will it do i ur not gonna talk and just glare at each other over the dinner table? u could always aplogizre but if its somthing that she did wrong and u had nothign to do with it u should tell her to aplogize because she cant bully you!its jsut not fair!anways..good luck!^^
2006-12-28 22:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing. I used to fight with my sisters all the time but now that we don't live with each other we get along much better.
2006-12-28 22:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice what you fight about, and try writing it down. When I fight with my family, instead of throwing things around, I get on my computer, and type problems and solutions for our fighting. Ever since I started doing this, and talked to my family about it, we havn't had any problems.
2006-12-28 22:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you have to give in. One of you have to the bigger part of the sister relationship. If she dosn't want this and you do but you both have to agree on one thing. Think to your self, is it worth having this one thing that won't even last as long? Some one has to give in, some one has to the bigest sister to look up to. Maybe you should give in with the fights? agressivness always previle on fights, being passive would be more thought full. you can think about what the fight is about, who's wrong? the person who recives the unperfectness of what they wanted.
2006-12-28 22:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's not a lot to go on, but one important piece of advice is don't take the bait. Learn to breathe deeply and walk away.
Without more specific info, I couldn't give better advice.
2006-12-28 22:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
forgive each. tell her you wanna be friends, have fun together, laugh, tell secrets... that will make it all better. i have a sister and we did the same till we did all those things. we never fight again. we are like best friends.
2006-12-28 22:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound really weird, but make a pact to hate each other. Make it okay to say "I hate you" to one another. It creates common ground and it usually vents all those feelings so you can get on with your lives. I kid you not, I did that with my older brother, and it worked wonders.
2006-12-28 22:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Xenia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Respect to one another and observance of proper boundaries might help solve your problem.
Good luck.
2006-12-28 22:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋