they will gladly take care of kids that are not theres but when there baby momma ask them for something for there child they have every excuse in the world why they cant do it MEN explain it to me
2006-12-28 13:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by totally confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because we want to make you miserable, even if it hurts the kid,, plus the new chick is putting out hence we help her kid
2006-12-28 13:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
OUCH!!!
Hey, My daughter is the most important thing in my life! She is the reason I moved 1000 miles to be near her and to be a Dad. My ex and I are still the best of friends and share in the wellfare of our child!
Not looking for any 'WTG's or stuff like that! Not all guys are alike (as not all women are alike)!
I would offer more than is dictated by the state if (when) need be! Personally, I am not enrolled with the state to pay child support! I do it willingly and without the states dictates!
If your guy cares the least bit for his child, he would (will) do everything in his power to assist!
In New Hampshire (NH owns all of it's liquor stores), the first thing one see's upon entering is the Delinquent Dad photos! This with the amount(s) owed! A reward may be offered as well!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ã
Hope this helps!
2006-12-28 22:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS ANSWER APPLIES TO THOSE WOMAN WHO GOT TIRED OF THERE MAN NOT TO THOSE WITH CHEATING MEN
well personally a limited amount of child support is OK.Its when it approaches say 30% of a mans income i got a problem with it .But lets say the judge gives her the paid off house and car.......um sorry but if she gets the house and the car .then shes got enough i know bla bla bla its all about the kid true.But dont cry that your life is inconvenienced by not having the dad around.IF ITS THE WOMAN'S CHOICE. Its child support not a free ride.no kid in the world eats more than 200 a month throw in 100 to 150 to maintain cloths and u got most if not all of it there
2007-01-01 18:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question.Some men think that if they are with a woman that all ready has children,he doesn't really have to spend on them because they are not his.And even though he is not taking care of his own,he'll tell the woman to tell the children's father to send them money.Some men are so irresponsible and childish that,they can be mad at the Mother,but take it out on the children.I suggest that you let the courts get behind him to make him pay.
2006-12-28 21:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't want to be controlled into doing something. Oftentimes, the mother of their child is an angry person & they don't want to deal with her "crap" & complaining.
Men do need to make their kids their first priority, though. Maybe you should have him take the kids shopping, or have some bills sent to him rather than you demanding money from him.
2006-12-28 21:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had to have a warrant put on her babys' daddy to get support paid had to get a lawyer involved to help pay for braces prove it was medically necessary ect. Then Christmas day he comes and drops her off at our family Christmas driving some big a s s truck brand new.....But he has no money....I don't get it either.
2006-12-28 21:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by jennie r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are men, and not fathers. A good father will support his child in every way including financially.
2006-12-28 21:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by drgnotary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a man, but my dad was this way. because all men want is someone to give them sex any time they want it, and they dont want the responsibility of the consequences, hence they have to be forced to pay child support.
2006-12-28 21:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by calico_gurl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, there are plenty of deadbeats on both sides of the fence, mine hasn't paid support in almost 3 years and decided to just start up a whole new family
2006-12-28 21:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rich2481 is right on about this one...I was writing a slightly longer version of the same story, but he beat me to it.
This is not about the kid, it's about punishing the mother.
I used to think it was maybe a money thing...but I have an upper-class one of these going on in my circle of friends now.
(Dad with a six-figure income is making mom pull teeth to get a dime.)
2006-12-28 21:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by David G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im not a man but i totally agree with you.
my mom never got a dime out of my dad when they divorced but he remarried and his 'new' family gets anything and everything they want. makes me sick!
2006-12-28 21:46:36 · answer #11 · answered by BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋