so this old guy- friend of mine has been calling me up since 2 weeks ago trying to get me to go with him to register for some classes at college...because he doesnt want to go alone. I said yes but i let him down because that day that he wanted to go was my anniversary with my bf. He kept on calling to see if i was still available. he even left me a message. He did not go with any of his other friends. He calls me 1st thing in the morning today after he gets right back from work to see if I could go with him i told him 'its close'. we hang up & decide to go until next month. after 30min he calls back to say "i am bored tell me what to do?what can i do?". He was thinking of going to the beach apparently with me. is it normal to ask a girl out to a beach if you consider her "just a friend"? is it normal? or this guy wants more than friends ? and cant face i have a bf. by the way he called me yesterday and told me how lonley he felt withuot a girl
2006-12-28
13:52:09
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➔ Singles & Dating
he told me a while ago.. "i never saw you as more than a friend"... but still he comes up with all this weird stuff like "yeah...i rember back then when we use to kick it and you were single"...
2006-12-28
13:52:53 ·
update #1
Game recognize Game. Sounds like this guy is tring to get with you ,but he is showing you the slow approach, hang out ,become real cool, and then bam before you know it you will be rolling around on the beach. I see it like this if you make up your mind to go to school you don't need no help , you just go because that's something that's going to help you. so sounds like to me HE just running GAME.
2006-12-28 14:02:49
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answered by Tammy s 2
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I would tell him in a stern way that you have a boyfriend and you are not interested as a girlfriend or even as a friend. He sounds like he has mental issues and you might want to back away before you become a fatal attraction. there might be a reason why he doesn't have anyone else to kick it with. think about that.
2006-12-28 13:56:37
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answered by myangelbarry 1
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Of course he wants more than friends, its obvious, i couldnt face the fact that my ex has a BF and i tried calling her and stuff, but i had to let go, it all depends on how u feel
2006-12-28 13:57:28
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answered by Anonymous
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i like the muscular/skinny men, you already know, the form with long, lean muscle groups, yet are skinny. do no longer understand why precisely, i detect it acceptable. in all risk because of the fact i'm skinny and characteristic muscular definition. Oh, and taller too. no longer too tall, reason i'm short, yet like, medium top.
2016-12-15 10:14:54
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answered by Anonymous
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He's just looking to hook up with you.
Just tell him straight out that you have no interest in him and you have a boy friend.
2006-12-28 13:55:48
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answered by zen522 7
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he is just not telling you excactly because he feels that you might ignore him in the future. so just play with his game and later on you will find the answer.
2006-12-28 13:55:26
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answered by Karl G. 3
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well it sounds to me like he is lonely and he sort of likes you but he dont know what to do about it.and he can really feel comfortable with you.
2006-12-28 13:56:19
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answered by Anonymous
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kind of weird
2006-12-28 13:55:42
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answered by Rishi B 1
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