Ok so ive been dating this girl for a while now and were absolutely crazy about eachother. We always have a lot of fun. I hadnt seen her for a few days and then it was just like she was a whole new person. I think she may have like ten different personalities. Im not sure what exactly im experiencing or if anyone else has ever experience it but its kinda weird. Sometimes shes just a whole different person and i dont know how to act. Its really hard to explain but is there any way i can just ignore or accept this fact and just not worry about it?
2006-12-28 13:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some women do have multiple personalities. it can make things interesting, but can also be stressful. If it isn't extreme, like her seeking danger or being violent you could try relaxing and get to know all her sides. But see if you can handle it before you ever make a serious commitment. Hopefully she is functional and isn't using drugs to cope. There is always the possiblility of her seeking professional help.
2006-12-28 14:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Szy_snowflake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she has ten different personalities, maybe she feels the same way about you. It could be a split personality disorder, but considering only 1% of the population has a true split personality, I seriously doubt that is what it is. If you ever really notice the people around you, nobody acts the same all the time. People change their moods, what they say, etc around different people for various reasons. Don't single yourself out. I'm sure your not the only person who has experienced these multiple personalities you describe. You know people also act different when they're happy, mad, etc and yes PMS does it everytime. It's up to you whether you ignore it or decide not to worry about it. I would say just ask about it the next time it happens.
2006-12-28 14:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by disco lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just going through some things. Girls have a way with dealing with things. You should just give her some time, and let her know if she needs to talk you are there for her. If things don't change and she doesn't open up and talk to you, just ask her why she has had a sudden change of attitude. Maybe you are spending too much time together or not enough. Sometimes when the new wears off of a relationship it falls into a rut, and you don't want to be there. Just play things by ear and see how it goes! Good Luck!
2006-12-28 13:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by sos_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just rember that she is a girl and we have the hormone thing.....also most girls dont find out their TRUE personality untill they are about 25 to 30
2006-12-28 13:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HORMONE IN BALANCE CAN CAUSE THIS NOT A LOT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT BUT KEEP A EYE ON THE FACT SHE KNOWS WHO SHE OR HE IS AND IF THAT'S INTACT LOOK AT THE HORMONE IMBALANCE GOOD DOCS HAVE PREP. TO CORRECT PROBLEMS HANG IN THERE
2006-12-28 14:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by JFB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously like each other a lot if you have been dating for so long. so i think you should not worry about her multiple personalities
2006-12-28 13:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by punkmonk713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I agree pms or stress. At any rate talk to her maybe she can explain why she is actin the way she is.
2006-12-28 13:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, we only change to prove a point.
That's all I can tell you.
2006-12-28 13:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER
trust me u can't date someone who is a bunch of differend peoplein one!! she is a FREEK
2006-12-28 13:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Livy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is called PMS<, and all girls have it do some degree,,, otherwise she is totally wacko,
2006-12-28 13:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋