How can I stop hating being single?

Question

I am 24 years old and I have just thought if I keep hating being single and if I ever do find Mrs. Right which I still doubt I will. I am probably going to end up doing something silly like hating her for making me wait so long to find her. So what can I do to stop hating being single?

Answer 1

HuH...?

Answer 2

I realize how much freedom I have being single, never know what or who is just around the corner. It keeps the dream alive that that person could appear anytime.
I used to and sometimes still am very lonely but then I appreciate my freedom.

I am beginning to think there are no decent men out there.
I guy I have know for a few months asked me to a black tie party for New Years Eve a few days ago, have not heard from the *** hole since. I know I will be going out alone for New Years Eve alone yet again but I wonder why guys even waste their breathe to do such stuff.
I am not disappointed. I even expect it. I am not bad looking, make good money, educated, very well mannered etc. I know I intimidate a lot of guys but oh, well.

Answer 3

Take a look around you and notice the quality of life you witness. Undoubtedly, you will notice single parents berating their kids, sensitive senior couples still in love, families sharing fun activities, and all kinds of things in between and beyond. Then try to figure out what it is that makes the situation bad, good, or neutral and what might have been done better. The fact is that many of the bad situations could have been better if someone had waited for the "right" person to come along instead of the first good looking person with charisma. Good luck.

Answer 4

Worse yet. I stayed with someone I could barely stand because I knew being single again was going to blow. Six months later. Yes it blows as bad as I thought it would. Haven't met anyone I have the least desire to date. Over age 30 the single women go into hiding. Sucks not to go out to a nice restaurant or have company on vacations. (But listening to all that bit@hing was getting old)

All I can tell you is that it is not going to be easier for you in ten years. Better find someone while you are in an age group where single women actually go out in public.

Answer 5

I feel your pain. I'm 30 years old and I'm single. Just got out of a situation that should have ended when it started a year ago but I was tired of being alone. Although I was alone with him but I told myself well aleast I have someone in my life. Phooey.

I want to be married and have a family someday but I don't want to rush it either. Also, I love my solitude and my space. The only time I really want someone in my life is when I'm out in public and I say couples and families together. When I'm at home or work. I don't think about it at all.

I'm trying to become more active to because I have too much free time on my hands

Answer 6

Mrs. right will happen when you least expect it. so stop looking! start enjoying the unique lifestyle that only being single can give you. trust me, once your hitched its gone, not a bad thing cause now you have a soul mate but definitely the end so live it up. do something, take up skiing, or surfing, or go to the Bahamas or join the military, see the world. or stay local but enjoy it the same, once you do that you won't hate being single anymore!

Answer 7

You just have not talked to enough divorced guys sitting alone at the bars. Good marriages make happy people and bad ones make philosophers. There are worse things than not being married. Just throw that list away that excludes most women and and find a list that makes more sense. The perfect woman is not out there. You happiness depends on you and no one else. If you are looking for someone else to make you happy, then your marriage will be in the toilet in no time. You need to make yourself happy and look for someone to share your happiness with. Don't look for someone you know like the back of your hand and is predictable. Look for someone you find interesting and would not mind spending the rest of your life getting to know.

Answer 8

You hate being single so that means you want to find somebody, you're looking and that's what you're thinking about right? Stop looking! I swear, the moment you stop looking or wanting, it comes! Love always comes along when you least expect it. And concentrate on doing your best in all the other areas of your life, work, spending time with friends/family etc.

Answer 9

Go to night clubs, after all you are above 21. And you can meet new ppl and friends there. That can introduce you to sum parties which can lead you to ur girl.....

The worst way to ever find ur mrs.right is on the internet! Uck, so many pervs and child molesters here..... all of the ppl here u meet online; all they want is sex. And if u want that, then go for the internet.... but if u wanna find the true girl. Go to parties and make sum new friends. And besides ur still young, it's not like u wanna marry now? I'd say u meet new ppl and then try dating them a few months but if things dont work out, u'll learn ur mistakes and u'll learn new lessons.... and it'll be easier for u to find mrs.right bcoz after all ur dates and many relations, u'll know what kind of personality u want in a girl..... It'll be really easy afterwords, trust me!

and God Bless happy new years!

Answer 10

Don't hate being single. But don't let being single be your ultimate life style. Don't become like most Americans who let life make them emotionally cold and bitter about love and finding the right person. Use your irritation of being single to find ways to look for mr's right.

Answer 11

Let's face it, being single in a world of couples stinks most often. Best way to combat this is to get involved in activities, with other single friends, couples, volunteer, get ou and meet people. Then your chances of meeting the right woman for you will increase exponentially.