I am just trying to help him and he says I make him feel like he is not capable of doing things himself, like he is not a grown man. It started tonight b/c I asked him to get his oil changed(he's 6000 m overdue)he was off all day and had no plans, when I called him later he didn't get it done and just put it off again! Another thing he does is not pay bills on time, even if he has the money too. I don't get it. I know I can be controlling and a little OCD, but ultimatley I am just looking out for our best interest. I don't know the best way to get over this. I think it would be easy for him to just apease me by getting the things done, but he refuses to give in, atleast for right now he does. We are to have a serious talk when I get home from work tonight. HELP!!
2006-12-28 12:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by deathcab2cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not his mom, your his girlfriend!
2006-12-28 12:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind him of his mom, and he is still a little boy. You will either end up doing everything for his lazy azz or you will find someone better. Seriously you are going to end up doing everything for him because he is lazy.
2006-12-28 12:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Akshun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your acting like his Mom. Nothing is as unsexy as a woman acting like mom. He just likes being a bum...
2006-12-28 12:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you are trying to control him.
2006-12-28 12:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋