Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

I have a girlfriend, She's great and I love her but she is not so adventurous or particularly 'naughty' when it comes to sex. I had a fling with a girl before I met my girlfriend who was a complete freak in the sack and it honestly changed my life with the perverted stuff we did. While we are not going to sleep together again, we still talk and she sends me a dirty pic of her on occasion to 'remind' me of things. She knows I wont sleep with her but we still talk about stuff on occasion through yahoo and whatnot. I just look at it as sort of a way to vent in my sex life. My girl can't get into my mail and I don't save the pics. Is this really anything wrong? I admit I wouldn't be comfortable if it was the other way around but if I didn't know about it and nothing happened so what?

2006-12-27 06:25:04 · 16 answers · asked by dave v 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a chance to kiss this really great girl and DIDN'T. It was the absolute PERFECT time to kiss her. Please tell me how I can be such an idiot!

2006-12-27 06:24:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in love with my best guy friend. i have known him for almost 3 years. i am a freshman and he is a junior. i just recently realized my feeings for him. his gf, also a freshman, is so fake and poserish. i am afraid that if i try to get between them, i will lose a friend. i want to find a way on how to tell him that i love him. i am a rather shy person, even around my friends. taking him aside has never really been an option lately because his gf has been hanging all over him. i just want to have his attention for 2 seconds. before he got a gf, we were very close. we held hands from time to time. he always had his arm around me. he hugs me every chance he got. after he got a gf, i wrote many blogs talking about the situation, but not mentioning any names. the last time he commented, he said that if he and his gf werent going out, he would have asked me out, and it was my fault for not "hopping aboard" into a relationship with "the guy".

2006-12-27 06:24:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think there rent still should be paid for? Some have found jobs and are still getting assistance. If I lose my job I can only get unemployment for about 6 months to a year, then after that I halve to find a job. The money unemploymnet would give me wouldn't be enough for me to pay rent, take care of kids. So getting the assistance was good for them but its almost 2 yeasr and some are still getting it ..... get a job and work for yours like I work for mine. I don't have a college degree and money is tight but the assistance I need I can't get cause other people have misuesed the government assistace and made it hard for the real people who actually need it. When the 9,000 hurricane victimes came to Houston an they were getting apartments there I was looking for an apartment an had to live at a shelter cause my situation wasn't a priority, everywhere were all filled. I felt like I was forgotten about.

2006-12-27 06:24:39 · 2 answers · asked by tjohnson1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ya see i like em and all, but i think he is cheating. he is alwaiz like "man, whats your problem" and is never able to see me bcuz of his "job" what is wrong? i hope hes not cheating, but he is not the same. please tell me something other than cheating

2006-12-27 06:24:36 · 6 answers · asked by JonJon's Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I would think in the second or first year of high school, but I could be wrong...

2006-12-27 06:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 06:23:45 · 42 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Family

I talk with my exboyfriend just as friends. I haven't been with anyone since him. He's been with a new girl for 4 months now. I was talking to him last night, one thing lead to another & he started telling me how much he misses sleeping with me. I thought he was goofing around but then he started telling me how good it was with me, how much better looking I am than his current girlfriend, things I used to do that his current girlfriend doesn't. He came right out & asked if I wanted to hook up. Of course I said no way. He then told me that he slept with his new neighbor a few weeks ago. I told him that I don't think it's a good idea for us to talk anymore. Now it's bugging me because I wonder if he cheated on me when we were together. I didn't see any signs of him cheating. But, once a cheater always a cheater, right? He was such a great guy when I was with him. Is this a new side of him or was he always like this? Was I that naive & blind that I didn't see who he really was back then?

2006-12-27 06:23:38 · 16 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

So i met my boyfriends entire extended family over Christmas. His family is pretty disfunctional, parents are divorced and there are several half brothers adn sisters floating around.

Also, a lot of his family has been in and out of prison, rehab and what not. they are also pretty....well....white trashy....

when i met them, they were nothing like my family, no one hardly talked to me or really made me feel welcome into the home. it was a lot of silent moments and awkward instances. my family is the complete opposite, no one has ever been to prison, we are all super friendly and welcoming to everyone.

should I be concerned about this? i mean if i marry him, these people will be part of my family now

am i shallow or is family really important?

2006-12-27 06:22:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-27 06:21:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've talking to a girl for months now and she is so interesting and i just wanna talk to her everyday am i falling for her and if i am what do you think about it?

2006-12-27 06:20:37 · 19 answers · asked by ramdor20002001 1 in Singles & Dating

By the way I'm in high school, if that has anything to do with anything. Also, please be specific.

2006-12-27 06:20:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently a very happily married woman, however I have this problem. My husband's ex wife won't stop bothering me, She always trying to do the things I do, always wants to know what I"m doing or asks stupid random questions. Yet she claims she doesn't want to hear bout my husband and I life. She just makes me feel on edge and I really would like to kick her *** but I'm better than that. Anyone have advice?

2006-12-27 06:18:59 · 43 answers · asked by queenofthedam8705 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why and how often, and bad experiences

2006-12-27 06:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I came to an agreement about parenting time and child support, we by passed the friends of the court. For five years everything has been great. We have moved on with our lives, worked well when it comes to the kids, until April of this year;when my ex lost his father. He now wants more time with the kids to help on his farm and he wants to lower the child support. I don't feel support should be changed. My husband now, pay for health insurance on the kids, there is no change in parenting time, and the kids are getting older and more expensive. How do i get him to stop harrassing me about it in front of the kids. He is too cheap to take me to court and i don't feel the need to take hime to court to change things.

2006-12-27 06:17:19 · 21 answers · asked by Barb 3 in Marriage & Divorce

December 16, 2005 my fiance proposed. We planned out everything, booked the hall, church, picked out our wedding party etc. Since that time my fiance has been laid off (he works for the state of NJ in construction) and he's been doing side jobs to make ends meet. I have a medical job which pays not so well. On top of it we can't find an apartment for under $1450 a month + utilities, have 0 money to pay for our wedding and now all of my friends are turning against me because they think this is all his fault somehow. I'm absolutley heart broken. I could care less about having a wedding, I'm ready to elope, it's fine, I just can't believe my friends have all turned against me, my maid of honor dropped out, the entire thing has gone to pieces. Any suggestions on what I should do for a cheap wedding and if you were in my shoes would you even bother to invite your so called "friends"? I can't even believe I'm on here writing all this, I'm just so at a loss right now. Comments....

2006-12-27 06:17:00 · 19 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Weddings

My husband is gone on a monthly basis or sometimes longer and i am a housewife, mother of 3, and i do feel lonely. I go do errands by my self and everything else. We only communicate by phone. Have any marriages survived this?

2006-12-27 06:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by bluemist 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to curl your hair with a curling iron twice a week? I like my hair curly, it's naturally straight. I've heard that it will damage the hair. are there other ways of curling your hair besides using an iron or braiding it?

2006-12-27 06:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by coolgurl_5us 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 06:15:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I have this friend that I've known since middle school. We've always had an on and off friendship. She lives in FL right now and shes having issues with her live in boyfriend. He wont leave, regardless of how many times she asks him to. Note this is her mothers house. I've told her to get him out but her excuse is she wants to but cant because he helps pay some of the bills (even though getting the money is like pulling teeth). So she sent me a text over the holiday telling me she needed to get away and if I could tell my friends her situation and then ask them to pitch in some money to pay for her plane ticket which she doesnt even plan on paying anyone back. Shes always been the type to use people. It had been so long though I thought she changed.I figure its her situation and she has her own friends in FL, so why not ask them? I would give her the money if I had it but I dont and neither does any of our mutual friends here since we're all college students barely making any money.

2006-12-27 06:15:16 · 27 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Friends

I need some help here -
I've been divorced for 8 years. I have dated a bit, but not much. I just didn't really want that complication when my kids were young. I'm also very shy and it is very difficult for me to meet new people.

The problem is that now my kids are growing up and starting to move out. I have a lot more time on my hands than I'm used to having so I've started looking around. I'm clueless! I've met a few nice men but when I go out with them I am very nervous and shy. How do I get over this? In other areas of my life I am very self-confident but in this type of situation I feel like a little kid.

2006-12-27 06:14:58 · 10 answers · asked by geekteacher1 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a manager who is my friend and we share lot of secrets with other We buy each other birthday presents and great Christmas presents and presents out of the blue We talk all the time out of work. Hell she came over for dinner last week. She seems really great, Well the last week our work has had some very bad news. Our store is closing. We shared some tears and we were hoping to get transfered to the same store. I was off yesterday and she got news that she was transfering to another store and tomorrow is her last day. Well she hasn't told me yet. Another employee told. Why the hell wouldn't she tell me. It is almost 24hrs since she found out. I am so bothered by this. I feel like a loser to be honest with you.

2006-12-27 06:14:43 · 2 answers · asked by Evey 6 in Friends

is it werid if i cant like function if my friend dosent talk 2 me. im 18 year old male and ive had problems when it comes to girls. If i dont talk to him or he dosent call me i get like depressed is that werid?

2006-12-27 06:14:24 · 5 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2 in Friends

Well there is a guy that sends me all the time SMS and we talk.(he is cute)Today we were talking and he wanted to find out to which guy i am interested in.I was like his name is john and he wanted to know his last name but i wouldn't tell him.And he told me in the middle of our conversation "goodnight" isn't that rude and weird??he first wouldn't stop asking me about the guy i like and i think he got annoyed and talked to me like that!!i can't stand his behaviour he is acting so weird....god....

2006-12-27 06:13:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im seeing a married man for a year , his wife has ms...
he say over and over he loves me , i believe he does , but i cant see wot the furure hol.. it brought it home to me over xmas , im really the other woman we see each other 4/5 times a week and always make luv and call and tex all the time .. any response on what to do or keep it as it is

2006-12-27 06:13:40 · 29 answers · asked by jaycee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and he still has feelings for me,he broke up with me 2 weeks ago.and his confused about our relationship,if he tryz 2 kissme should i let him? has anyone experience this,WAT do i do?

2006-12-27 06:13:02 · 18 answers · asked by Curiouz 1 in Singles & Dating

I always catch the guy i like looking at me when i wanna look at him.

2006-12-27 06:12:57 · 31 answers · asked by duhduhduhd 2 in Singles & Dating

i fell out with my best friend a while ago because she went behind my back with my bf and i was upset and found i was more different to her than i thought so i decided i didnt need her as a friend anymore,That turned out to be a really good decision as im much happier now but the thing is that my other best friend is also her friend and it used to be the three of us but now i have fallen out with the 1st friend i have also grown apart from the 2nd. We have spoken about it a lot and i have been trying 2 stay in contact with her but its really hard because we are at college now and we do different subjects so i hardly ever get to see her. We fell out a while ago but made up but then didnt get the chance to see each other and the next time i saw her she blanked me....i dont no wat 2 do...all my other friends say that she should respect my choice and allow me to do wat i want so i can be happy..but i still feel really guilty cos its not her fault....wat should i do?

2006-12-27 06:12:41 · 18 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2 in Friends

I feel that this is keeping me from wanting to get closer--physically and emotionally. I feel like I'm hiding this big secret from guys that I date. I'm afraid that they will lose interest in me for not being experienced.

2006-12-27 06:12:23 · 8 answers · asked by sugar1973 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy I sort of like memicks me...is that being made fun of or a way of flirting?

2006-12-27 06:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Singles & Dating