and he still has feelings for me,he broke up with me 2 weeks ago.and his confused about our relationship,if he tryz 2 kissme should i let him? has anyone experience this,WAT do i do?
2006-12-27 06:13:02 · 18 answers · asked by Curiouz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that you need to make sure you look great, feel great and have an happy, positive energy around you. If he tries to kiss you and hasn't explained his intentions for seeing you and apologized for the confusion and hurt he has caused, don't let him kiss you. If the two of you talk about what has happened, and you feel like the relationship is going to go in a positive direction without him deciding he's going to just dump you because he's confused and keep running back to you when he needs some physical attention, then, by all means kiss him back. Follow your heart and do what feels right at that moment, but NOT what has become familiar (just because that will leave you in a rut if you're just doing it because you always used to).
2006-12-27 06:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check this out i have been married for 4 years on Dec 20. my wife has been in Cali for 4 months she calls me up and asked me what ru doing in three weeks i told her dont know she said why don't you come out here to see me.I went out there and the bus was late she tried to call my cell it was dead. As soon as i seen her she kissed me i kissed her back cause no matter what she still loves me and i feel the same way.Spent 3 days with her and had a good time.She sent me back home Friday but we are still talking she but shes confused about are marriage she wants me to come back in Feb to cali
2006-12-27 14:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by ptbzbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This confusion crap is common. It is a good excuse to kiss and not commit. Don't kiss him. Hold out. Tell him that when he is clear as to what he wants to let you know. Tell him you don't want anyone to be confused about you. That you want him to be sure that you are for him. Until then no anything! Sounds like he wants to be able to have you and date other people. And who wants that anyway?!!!!
2006-12-27 14:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by noitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think for now you shouldn't see him. he needs to get his feelings straightened out. don't let yourself get too deep into this situation and just let it go. otherwise you are just going to get your feelings hurt and is not going to lead to anything good. Just steer clear for now and see if is really worth it. he needs a lot of time, and dotn' worry if he don't want to be with you, he's not the only man in this world honey! there's tons out there that will know what they want
2006-12-27 14:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two are no longer a couple and since your break-up is relatively new, maybe you shouldn't be hanging out. Both of you need to get over the break-up and then try to be friends.
2006-12-27 14:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you think your relationship could survive then I would go for it. If not then tell him that you would still like to be friends but you are moving on. Good Luck!
2006-12-27 14:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still single go on the date, but don't confuse him by kissing him. Tihis date needs to be about closure for you, not playing with his heart.
2006-12-27 14:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by MsTruthful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its upto u,if u have any self respect dont let him come closer 2 u...he has taken u for granted he broke up with u ,now why he's back?he's playing game with u ,rest it all depends upon u .its ur life,anyways all the best ,take care
2006-12-27 14:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you feel for him? Do you still have feelings for him? Why not kiss him if you have feelings for him. It is ok. Go for it. If you dont have feelings for him let him know. Dont lead him on to think that you do if you dont. GL
2006-12-27 14:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont show any feelings for him. if u let him back in to your life he will think he owns u and will try to controll your life. if he tries to kiss u slap him. u dont need that kind of guy on ur back.
2006-12-27 14:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Argent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋