I talk with my exboyfriend just as friends. I haven't been with anyone since him. He's been with a new girl for 4 months now. I was talking to him last night, one thing lead to another & he started telling me how much he misses sleeping with me. I thought he was goofing around but then he started telling me how good it was with me, how much better looking I am than his current girlfriend, things I used to do that his current girlfriend doesn't. He came right out & asked if I wanted to hook up. Of course I said no way. He then told me that he slept with his new neighbor a few weeks ago. I told him that I don't think it's a good idea for us to talk anymore. Now it's bugging me because I wonder if he cheated on me when we were together. I didn't see any signs of him cheating. But, once a cheater always a cheater, right? He was such a great guy when I was with him. Is this a new side of him or was he always like this? Was I that naive & blind that I didn't see who he really was back then?
2006-12-27 06:23:38 · 16 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he did, maybe he didn't.
You could ask him, but why do you care, anyway?
You've moved on, you're probably more mature now than you were...I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-12-27 06:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Haven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right. Once a cheater always a cheater. Although he may not have but for some reason that's hard to believe he didn't cheat on you. He is trying to get you to sleep with him again, you say no and then proceeds to tell you he slept with the new neighbor? He's no good.
2006-12-27 14:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be quite the player! Since you two are broken up, I'd ask him since he'd probably be more honest (not that he is THAT honest anyway just showing how he is possibly leading his current girlfriend on and maybe trying to lead you on as well) but at least admit it. At the same time, if you can, you should seek out better men to date... even though this guy is just your friend, it seems like there are many red flags around him.
2006-12-28 02:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as much as it might pain you (now) to accept it, he probably did cheat...just be thankful that he's your ex, in the past, your eyes are opened and move on...don't worry, someone better will come along.
2006-12-27 14:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by necessat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say probaly, but then again you never know. It's one of those things that only God and him know. I mean just because he did it to this girl doesn't really mean he did it to you, but it vcould be vice versa...so it's like catch 22!
2006-12-27 14:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by S.F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to move on!!!!!
Nothing he does today should be any concern of yours....Why would you want this jerk? Sounds like he needs to grow up a lot.
He likes all girls.......Be smart and move on to a better guy. You won't be sorry...
2006-12-27 14:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex. What are you doing talking to him in the first place?
2006-12-27 14:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It increases the probability that it happened, but does not mean that it actually did.
2006-12-27 14:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. He's a poop head. Your encouraging him....stop answering his phone calls and hanging out w/him...unless you wanna be a side dish.
2006-12-27 14:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Win 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he MIGHT have cheated on you with the one he is with now., good for you telling him no and you dont need him in your life...
2006-12-27 15:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋