Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

Think his wife knows . And Why would he stop seeing me for her. I know about her she just found out we were friends," doesnt like it" so why would he cut me off to go back to some one that he hides things from and lies to.

2006-12-27 12:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by Tonya S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 12:37:37 · 24 answers · asked by chuck r 1 in Singles & Dating

GO INTO DETAIL CUZ IT STILL MAKES YOU CRY....SO IF ANYONE ASKS...and they do..."i just say.."i do not re-live it.."...that USUALLY shuts them up....I WILL not explain because it is too painful to...and they should understand that...BUT THEY DON'T...AND ....anyway...this friend set me up with this guy...Later we went to dinner...all was good i thought UNTIL he started asking me .."did you get any life insurance?"...i stopped for a moment...cuz i was eating...and said"..why would you want to know.Nicely"....he just said ."I am trying to get to know you.."...ok then the conversation shifted to other stuff...when dinner was almost over...he said.."where do you work?"...i told him...then he said..'"do you make good money?"...I politely said "NO"...why would you want to know that"...he just said .." oh, i was just wondering!"...now i am UPSET..things have gone to far...I DO NOT WANT TO SEE HIM ANYMORE..WHAT CAN I SAY WHEN HE CALLS.....???

2006-12-27 12:37:28 · 23 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 12:37:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think this old double standard is fair. Why can't women enjoy having sex with as many partner they want without being labelled as whores or sluts.
I used to work in pornos and alot times women in porn are considered whores, while they are some of the nicest (personality wise) women you can meet.
Women who enjoy sex, want to have it with a variety of men, what is wrong with that, men have been screwing around for centuries and collecting names.

2006-12-27 12:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

alright.. this may sound weird or not. I have been falling for this guy for the past 3 months and people tell me that hes been doing the same but when the chance comes up to talk about starting a relationship he looses his interest. I know that he would like to be in a relationship with me, but he also doesn't want to loose me as a friend. What can I do to show him that he can have me but still be a friend also?

2006-12-27 12:36:19 · 9 answers · asked by Mel C 2 in Singles & Dating

i was jus wondering is it wrong to love soeone just because they are older than you and why? im 15 and in love with a 36 year old and he is in love with me too. its not at all a sex thing hes paralyzed and he cant even feel anything down there hes told me a lot of things that are too embarrassing to tell even your closest friends. all of my friends say its gross ad its wrong and nasty but i really love him a lot and i dont see how age matters

2006-12-27 12:34:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you cheated on your mate a couple years ago and they had no idea would you tell them I had a friend who did and it didnt go to well.

2006-12-27 12:34:57 · 44 answers · asked by SweetNSensual 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many emails is it right send to perspective women and how far apart?

After the first, should I wait 5 to 10 days before sending a new one? Then if nothing another 5 or 10 days and the last one?

Should I even say, "This is my last email, good luck" or just send out #3 and just drop it.

Expiring minds want to know.

2006-12-27 12:34:22 · 2 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

What can be done at this moment to put a smile on your face?

2006-12-27 12:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Something bad must of happend because I think thats why the Game started and They fought and made up and brake up and make up.

2006-12-27 12:33:31 · 4 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 2 months, and all of a sudden she stopped holding my hand, and is acting different around everyone. I thought she was mad at me, but my friend asked, and she said she still likes me and isn't mad at me. It is sort of making the relationship fall apart, and I love her, but it feels like she doesn't love me. I don't know what to do...

2006-12-27 12:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3 in Singles & Dating

I sure ate my words, didn't i?

2006-12-27 12:33:19 · 21 answers · asked by hauntedheart25 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is bisexual and in love with a straight girl. Shes told this girl and is now really sad. What should I do to cheer her up?

2006-12-27 12:32:41 · 3 answers · asked by DRAKE 2 in Friends

I havent spoken to him for 13 years and probably never will again. It was his ex-wife's idea to try to send me to prison rather than inconvience him with points on his drivers licence. Is it ever allright to rat on your own blood to the police in non-violent circumstances?

2006-12-27 12:31:59 · 18 answers · asked by Rick J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

the other day i accidentally saw my sister naked and now i look at her different.... i find her sexually attractive now i have thoughts of flirting with her. I want her. what do i do?

2006-12-27 12:31:13 · 19 answers · asked by mmhmm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious, but I was wondering what guys find attractive or indulging about girls. And when I say this, I would like answers rounded around flirting. I want to impress this guy I like, but I don't really know what things I should talk about or what I should do. I want to leave him dazzled, so to speak, and I don't know the secret! Be honest

2006-12-27 12:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by Hunter 2 in Singles & Dating

What could be the possible reason as to why he would not call me back?

2006-12-27 12:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by giniferann 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I prove a father is unfit? He is a active gang member.?
My daughter is 7 months old and her father who has rarely been around is now trying to get 50% legal and physical custody of her. He is a active gang member and is now living with a new woman, her 2 kids, her mother and her brother. I dont have a clue as to who these people are that he is trying to have my daughter around. He was shot at in September but I have no proof of that.

2006-12-27 12:29:48 · 6 answers · asked by angel m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me his grandmother and mother moved in with him so he could take care of them. This was confirmed by mutual friends/acquaintances. Should I be worried to get involved? I am a 55 year young female; separated for 1 1/2 years.. it's scary! I need advice.

2006-12-27 12:29:02 · 48 answers · asked by plasticonohen 1 in Singles & Dating

After he told you that you are an old lady, you are not worth the trouble and he could get it anywhere, just because you refuse him sex? Cause i told him i'll loose his number if he keeps complaining. I think he doesn't love me and he just want sex. Am i wrong to get rid of him?

2006-12-27 12:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by Mamamia 5 in Singles & Dating

i was wondering if you said '' bloody mary i killed your son'' in front of a mirror she will kill u ? plz plzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me the reaal answer uz it creap me out plzzzzzzzzzzz plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz dont try 2 creep me out cuz im real scare. thank u for the answer

2006-12-27 12:28:02 · 12 answers · asked by holly 1 in Friends

Im finding it more and more difficult when i meet my inlaws. Every time we meet, if its at the shops, work, our home or their home.. i have to kiss and hug them on arrival and leaving. I dont do this with my own close family so im finding it hard to get out of this. I have tried asking them to stay away incase i catch a cold or for them to stay away incase they catch my pretend cold but they just keep on doing it....
What advice can you give to help me stop this...... I feel bad for feeling like this, but just cant stand it anymore....

my husband understands how i feel but doesnt know how to help me... they are his parents but doesnt want to cause a problem

2006-12-27 12:27:57 · 20 answers · asked by confused 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this friend (that I also happen to work with). She always has an opinion (even when it's not asked for) and she's constantly correcting people left and right. At first it was an endearing quality but now it's just annoying. I know that I could mention this to her; but how can I do that without hurting her feelings. I have tried to avoid her but when I do that she manages to find her way to me. She is quite sensitive and constantly refers to me as her "best friend". I don't like being around her anymore. It's more of a chore than anything else. Just not sure how to approach the situation without hurting her feelings and creating a "situation" at work.

2006-12-27 12:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I fell in love, AGAIN, and got my heart broken... stepped on.. shredded... torn into a million little pieces...
Why does this always happen to me?
This time, it was another older man. I liked him... alot... but, apparently, he'd rather be with every other girl out there but me.
Before that, there was the guy that was my age... I thought for sure that he was into me, but, whoops! He wasn't! He was into my friend, and his ex girlfriend, though!
I've never had a guy actually like me, in my life. Why is this? I mean, I don't find myself attractive, but I'm 5'5, 115 lbs, long brown hair... There are worse looking people out there! Plus, I don't even care about looks. I would be thrilled to have someone like me for who I am on the inside (sweet, sincere, caring), but that hasn't happened yet, either. I'm at the end of my rope.

2006-12-27 12:27:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys, do u still have sex with ur girl when she's on her period.
or
girls, do u still have sex with ur guy when ur on ur period?

2006-12-27 12:26:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Deaths that result in marriage-end doesn't apply?

2006-12-27 12:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works at a ditribution center...in a freezer...he wears old clothes...and heavy sweatshirts...today I come home from work...which is when he leaves for work.....he said he has to work on dry side...which means like bananas...which doesn't require him to wear sweatshirts...okay fine...well he has a descent shirt on ...ok...jeans...but still has his nasty work shoes on...he has a burned dvd in his hand that he says he copied for one of his co-workers....I just find all of this odd...am I jumping to conclusions...I don't want to ask/accuse...

2006-12-27 12:25:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in October 2007 things are great with us. But his son and I have a hard time getting along. His mother talks bad on me all the time and he is believing it. I don't say anything about her because I'm better then that but at the same time I can't stand not standing up for myself. What do I do??? I want to be his friend and get along with him but when all he talks about is his mom and what she says about me (and his Dad) It hurst me and I pull away from it all.

2006-12-27 12:25:04 · 15 answers · asked by Ohiobride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother always calls me names and my parents dont care what do you think about it?

2006-12-27 12:23:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family