I have this friend (that I also happen to work with). She always has an opinion (even when it's not asked for) and she's constantly correcting people left and right. At first it was an endearing quality but now it's just annoying. I know that I could mention this to her; but how can I do that without hurting her feelings. I have tried to avoid her but when I do that she manages to find her way to me. She is quite sensitive and constantly refers to me as her "best friend". I don't like being around her anymore. It's more of a chore than anything else. Just not sure how to approach the situation without hurting her feelings and creating a "situation" at work.
2006-12-27 12:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should tell her what bothers you about her. You are obviously NOT a friend to her if you're going to drop her without an explanation. Everyone has bad/annoying habits. What if someone dropped you every time they discovered something annoying about YOU? If it bothers you and she's a friend, TALK to her. She might be offended, but a true friend tells someone the truth. She probably doesn't even know she's being annoying. You're just contributing to her insecurity when you ignore her with no explanation! That's just wrong.
2006-12-27 16:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 01:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by scharber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to remain friends you will have to tell her, if she is sensitive then there is no way around hurting her feelings, its hard working with someone who annoys you, if you could careless whether you have a friendship with her or not, then I would just avoid her she will eventually get it.
2006-12-27 12:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite to have a coffee after work and talk about the problem tell her you like her and tell her to meet again in a week and see how we are going with the new rules show her your happy to be her friend.
2006-12-27 12:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that because she has everything in life figured out not everbody needs her advice. tell her if they want her opinion they'll ask for it and she needs to learn to listen and just sometimes be quiet. Friends are the one who listen and don't have to give everyone their two cents. good luck!
2006-12-27 12:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by california girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha there's a girl in all of my college classes and in my major and she's like that... in all of our classes... like there is a Dr. of Music standing in the front of the room yet she's correcting and we told her as a class straight up SHUT UP YOU DONT HAVE THE PHD! she stopped for awhile but it's sneakin back up... just tell her straight up she'll eventually get over it... good luck...
2006-12-27 12:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend.
2006-12-27 12:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be so angry about this when there are people dying in Darfur??? And learrn howe to spel!
2006-12-27 12:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by coconutmonkeybank 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try not to talk to her alot...
2006-12-27 12:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋