Ooops, I did it again! Help?

Question

I fell in love, AGAIN, and got my heart broken... stepped on.. shredded... torn into a million little pieces...
Why does this always happen to me?
This time, it was another older man. I liked him... alot... but, apparently, he'd rather be with every other girl out there but me.
Before that, there was the guy that was my age... I thought for sure that he was into me, but, whoops! He wasn't! He was into my friend, and his ex girlfriend, though!
I've never had a guy actually like me, in my life. Why is this? I mean, I don't find myself attractive, but I'm 5'5, 115 lbs, long brown hair... There are worse looking people out there! Plus, I don't even care about looks. I would be thrilled to have someone like me for who I am on the inside (sweet, sincere, caring), but that hasn't happened yet, either. I'm at the end of my rope.

I'm so freakin' hurt by this last escapade... I can't even describe how depressed I am. I cry all the time, the slightest things just set me off. Every time I see him, I fell like I'm just gonna die. DIE.
And the worst part of it is that I have to see him every single day, hiting on other girls, going out with them...
Why won't I ever find anyone?

Answer 1

Dont look for another mate. Live your life the way you want it without a man in your life. Figure out exactly what you want and dont settle for anything less. Once you work things out on your own, then try dating again. You will be much happier if you take a break from dating, and when you start again, you might just find 'the one'. Dont look for them, let them come to you. Also, get a little more self esteem. You dont sound fat from your description. Guys love women who love themselves and can do it all on their own. That power is a real turn on for men. Give it time, things will work out as you want them too. Trust me, I have been exactly where you are right now. Good luck. If you need to chat, you can feel free to contact me.

Answer 2

Welcome to my world sister. Ok, what i do, is try my best to avoid where he's gonna be. Then, get a life of my own. Movies, writing and the internet. Sometimes, or most times, mr right doesn't come easy. Quit crying and get on your two feet! Hit the beauty palor and get a great look! If you are in the same club with him and he's hitting on other girls, seize the dance floor grab attention with your best moves. Otherwise, invote your friends ovetr for a swell time! If u don't have friends like me, join some kind of group or indulge yourself into some creative activity! You will discover that you are better off without him, or them!! No kidding! But never keep your chin down or cry when he's around! Always act as if you are having a great time even without him. Hence, you will emerge victorious!!

Answer 3

This is sad. I don't know how old you are, but I'll say i can relate to this same thing in my life. One relationship after another, one heartbreak after another. I began to think why bother, I'll just live my life alone. It's easier than dealing with broken relationships and the saddness that comes from those.

One day the right person is going to come along. You will find the person and you'll be happy together. Hope this helps, good luck and may god bless you.

Answer 4

You will have to act as if this guy means nothing to you, even though that's gong to be very hard right now, stop feeling sorry for yourself,learn to exude some confidence,even when it hurts...find some ways to keep your body busy, keeping your body busy will help keep your mind on some different things.You shouldn't behave badly towards the "ex" if you can help it but it would help if you had a male friend that you could just hang out with,preferably someone that he does not know...keep yourself busy...then move on...

Answer 5

I'm reminded of a quote that I don't know who told me this:

"In order to find the right person, you have to be the right person first."

It's tough, we all have our problems with it, but you've got to buck up and try your hardest to be the right person for the kind of person you think is right for you. If you want an attractive powerful guy who's used to pretty girls all aroudn him, maybe you need to be pretty AND have a personality.

If you want just anyone to like you though...well...sorry if this comes off as a joke, but there are guys out there who all they want is T&A and anyone who will show them some will like them for about a day and it'd never last.
Maybe your problem has been you come off as being easy and get all the guys that only like you for your body...

Answer 6

its OK Hun we all feel this at a tI'me in our life it sucks. im 5'5, beautiful long almond brown hair,120lb bright green beautiful eyes and curvy but i hardly have any bfs l8ly and cant stand it i like this guy but he's got a gf and he is like major hitting on me even in front of his gf i want him but i know i probably shouldn't confused and i cry every night cuz i feel tortured and every time i see him with his gf i feel like crying and wish i could be anywhere BUT there but I'm still alI've but ive had almost the same story that you have from in my past.all you can do is just talk to some friends and wade it out and see if he likes u

Answer 7

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Answer 8

it will take time but you will find someone. in the mean time hang out with other people. just have fun.and someone will come along and you wont even know it and those are the best ones

Answer 9

Believed his lies whilst he regarded into your eyes and he melted your soul?? positioned the washing powder in the refrigerator and the margarine in the cooker?? Went upstairs to get some thing and once you got here flow into opposite you found out you never have been given once you went as much as get & forgot what it became? called out the incorrect call whilst making "candy track"!! Please let us know what you probably did?

Answer 10

you will find someone but you need to beleive in yourself... make yourslef look good.. dress the part... make the guys turn there head when they go by.. your discription of your self is very good.. you sound hot.. so go for it... have fun....