2006-12-27 12:37:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump her
2006-12-27 12:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she cheats trust me she doesnt love you...and if she does well she has a weird way of showing it..I suggest you reevulate your situation talk with her ask her why she cheats on you and although you may not like the answers you get in return if she does answer you that is.. you at know where you stand in your relationship..In all truthfullness If i was you I would move on and make a fresh start with someone new maybe next time things will workout the way you want them too.One of the hard lessons too learn in life is that people will always cheat espiecally if they feel they are not getting what they want from a loved one...unfortunately there isnt much that you can do other than except it and move on..because once a cheater always a cheater....
2006-12-27 13:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my word for it, she won't stop, once a cheat, always a cheat. I went through the same thing many years ago, after 10 years of marriage. I worshipped the ground he walked on, but I , wasn't prepared to stay with him, I Had already given him a chance before, so I took my children and left, obviously I still saw him each week, because of them, but no way was I going to allow him to carry on cheating on me.
2006-12-27 13:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with paligomy in a relationship. The "cheating" part only comes in when there is an element of deceit and dishonesty.
Get it out in the open. Establish whether or not you love each other, and decide between you what kind of relationship you want.
If she lies, you have to leave - it is a pointless relationship. But as long as there is openness and honesty, anything is possible.
2006-12-27 12:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first time she cheated on you was once to many. Your being weak and she knows it and she will keep on doing it. She is hurting you and does not seem to care.
Tell her you love her but you will not take any more, if does it again get rid of her. Be strong for your own sake.
2006-12-27 13:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First lesson in life sweetie...it's not about whether you're loving her but about whether she's loving you, & it's clear she doesn't otherwise she wouldn't be doing this to you.
The worst thing is that you're not loving yourself either. you're allowing someone to use & abuse you. Why would you do that? it never gets them to love you back you know..it just gets you to think even less of yourself & that's what you'll always expect for your future. People can only treat you the way you allow them to in relationships. If you don't think you're worth more than this then don't expect someone else to....Dump her Babe, there's many more out there that would treat you with the respect you deserve.
2006-12-27 13:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....she cheats on you that should say it all but I know you love her!!! The thing is we always love what we can't have and by the sounds of it you ain't got her. You need to get her out of your life....go different places and meet new girls, it sounds impossible but it works trust me. Good luck x
2006-12-27 22:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by December 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will only end in tears mate, most probably yours. Love should work both ways and if she truly loves you she wouldn't be breaking your heart by cheating on you. Hard as it may seem, rise above it, let her go and move on. Find somebody who treats you right, they're out there waiting, you just gotta look a bit harder.
2006-12-27 12:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Foxy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm really sorry that she cheats on you. I have been cheated on before by someone I really loved. You need to let her know that you know about what she's been doing. Ask her to stop if she loves you. But you need to think if she is cheating on you do you think that she loves you back. You deserve better than that. If I were you tell her that you need space form her and her ways. She will probably straighten her act up if she loves you.
2006-12-27 12:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by loveyoumuch 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Okay if she loves you she would not cheat on you. Have you actually caught her cheating? Me and you are in the same situation but I haven't caught my mate cheating I mean I love him to DEATH but still there are ways that we can turn it around. Such as there will be bumps and bruises in these relationships but they are put there to see just how much do you love the person and if your love for her is true like you say then it will work out for the best. I PROMISE!!! keep me posted
2006-12-27 12:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Allegra W 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you can take the pain then stay with her but I think you deserve better. You could give her one last chance, but do ask her why she cheats on you because she has to be confronted about it.
2006-12-27 12:42:11 · answer #11 · answered by Birdman 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋