the other day i accidentally saw my sister naked and now i look at her different.... i find her sexually attractive now i have thoughts of flirting with her. I want her. what do i do?
2006-12-27 12:31:13 · 19 answers · asked by mmhmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just move to Arkansas, and you'll fit right in....
2006-12-27 12:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Others seem to have just been disgusted, yet i find it perfectly normal, hear me out and keep this in mind --->
Don't worry about it.
The only problem or difference is that you're looking at your sister in a different light, you've actually accepted her as being a "woman" when you saw her naked by accident, before that she was just your sister.. and practically nothing in your eyes.
All you have to do is think "She's my sister, she's my sister" for the next couple of days and make sure it sets in.
I know you may want her, and fantasize about doing things with her, but it's just a phase, give yourself time, you're still in shock.
"wow my sister, she's hot" is what you're thinking right now, what you should be focusing on is that she's your SISTER.
Maybe talking to her about it will help, dont tell her you want her!
But apologize, tell her you didnt mean to and offer to pay her back somehow, that will get you thinking about something else, make you feel more balanced.
If you still need help and cant seem to get over her, then talk to someone who you trust who's older.SOMEONE who you TRUST, who will help you, not just lecture you.
2006-12-27 13:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that now days incest is frowned upon. But what people forget especially religious ones is that in the beginning there was only Adam and eve, so how did we all get here? Later in the bible it was only Noah and his family that survived the flood, again how did we get here? So who knows the right answer? Are you putting your answer before Gods? Maybe you didn't accidentally see your sister naked. she may have wanted you to see her, maybe you should accidentally let her see you naked. And what ever happens, happens.
2006-12-28 08:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by telmore 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This maybe something that you can work through on your own or maybe you need to get professional help, the woman's body is a beautiful thing, but some women are off limits to guys because of the relationship that they have (bro,son,father,uncle,nephew,granddad etc) But please do something to help yourself before she finds out the way you feel, she can tell by the way you look at her now, or maybe the way you talk to her now, she may not know what the problem is, but trust me (I am a female) she knows there is something different about you.........Good Luck
2006-12-27 12:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ann J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because incest is so taboo in our culture (and many others), people get extremely defensive and hostile whenever you bring up the topic, and will say all kind of nasty things about you. But research shows that sexual attraction between siblings is common, but people prefer to keep it a secret. This attraction rarely manifests itself in anything other than fantasy in an individuals mind. Having an aversion to incest is something that is genetically wired into people because choosing a sibling as a mate will produce offspring that is less likely to survive (because of defects).
2016-03-28 21:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to fight the feeling, or the urge because it can't lead to anything good. Unless you guys weren't raised together I would understand the feeling, but it's still wrong, so whatever you do don't try and start anything with her. It's better if you just completely forget about the whole thing and pretend it never happened.
2006-12-27 12:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if she's the first girl you've ever seen naked then it's no surprise that you see her differently now. but you shouldn't flirt with her or anything, that's just gross. but it's only natural to be attracted to the opposite sex...so it's not your fault. but you can't flirt with her or "want" her like that...that's just wrong.
2006-12-27 12:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well. this is very disturbing but.. its wrong. i wouldn't go any further. focus on something else. she's ur sister. and well. i'm not gonna be all disgusted and say EWWW cuz well you saw her on accident naked.. but if you continue to have these thoughts go see some help.before its too late. or just imagine her looking like borat..
2006-12-27 12:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ focus on someone else. r u in school? is there someone u like there? if u go 2 work, someone u like there? what about celebs? have n/e celeb crushes? if this gets n/e worse, u need 2 get help cuz it's normal 2 feel that way but not towards ur sister. ♥
2006-12-27 14:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i dont find that odd my brother has tried stuff with us girls men like sex with women but hey what he did to us really has stuck with us for ever. yes i still love him because he is my brother but look at him as one nasty human. you may feel like this now but put it in the back of your mind and put your sister and her feelings first you will never forget your thoughts but if you do something with chances r that she is not going to like it and you will always be reminded about it for the rest of your life so think about what you r doing before you leap many other hot chicks out their. good luck..god bless you
2006-12-27 12:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by lundie_g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok yea that is kind of stange but the relality is that it happens its normal to think sexually but not towards your sister. I htink that you need to try and block it out of your mind. If you cant do that then you need to try to get help talk to some one u trust.
2006-12-27 12:36:00 · answer #11 · answered by Misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋