Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

To clarify, you turned someone down because you thought they were out of your league.

2006-12-27 13:12:27 · 22 answers · asked by Keith 4 in Singles & Dating

my parents just came home from the pub with my rich uncle and his wife. theyre too drunk to drive so they offered me to pay for me and my friends cab fair there and back to the movies haha and the movie is at 9:45. Should i take advantage of this and take the $$?

2006-12-27 13:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have an ex that i ws with for 3 years and we lived togather for two of those years. The end of the relationship got bad from stress and just not showing affection. I know that i pushed her awawy with my actions and i regret it. We been broken up for 3 months now at first i was begging her for another chance and she told me that we have to be friends first and that she knew that we would be togather still if i didnt act the way i was at the end. Meantime i was gettin her back she would treat me like i was a nobody hang up on me yell at me just things i didnt deserve so i just gave up and didnt call her nemore its been 3 weeks or so since then and she has been calling me alot lately and she wants me to hang out with her what should i do and what are her intentions

2006-12-27 13:11:37 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Eventhough it's flattering, I keep attracting these 18 and 19 year old..some even 17...girls...at my job..I'm a loss prevention officer for a retail store..they usually work parttime and go to college or have dropped out of high school...I'm 34 years old...6 foot 2, African American..I know it's probably a college professor type thing but it gets disruptive and bothersome at work...one girl got so fusturated ..she started some gay rumours because I would'nt get with her...I'm a grown man, divorced and gray streaks are coming in my beard...I need some insight...maybe from a young lady..I know that some of these girls see me come to work every day...treat them with respect and what not....but I'm all scarred, all rough looking, and far from being a pretty boy...I don't get it?

2006-12-27 13:11:28 · 18 answers · asked by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

I just recently got engaged (yay) and my future mother-in-law made the comment "Well, now you get to call me Mom!!" And she seems really excited about it...however, I know that my mom would really hate it if I called her mom (she has come straight out and told me she would). She said she would feel uncomfortable with it because she was the one who raised me and everything. I completely understand but how do I tell my future mother-in-law I don't want to call her mom without hurting her feelings??

2006-12-27 13:10:06 · 20 answers · asked by Cindy 3 in Weddings

thers this guy that really likes me and i like him alot but.....we're both to shy to talk to each. how can i get him to talk to me and not be so nervous? should i be around him more so he's used to having me around?

2006-12-27 13:09:45 · 7 answers · asked by Flame 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning to wed in 8 months. This should be the happiest time for us, but besides him working 80hrs a week and us not communicating, now he wants me to move to AZ (which I hate). His son, who lives with his mother 100% of the time, wants him to move there...now my fiance is trying to get me to move. My job that pays well is here,my family, and everything i love-not to mention the weather. We cant seem to resolve this issue, and we are fighting worse than ever before. I truly feel this is the end of us. He doesnt like any suggestions Ive made to compromise...and he isnt realizing all my feelings with giving up everything to move and how my life will change having a child dropped into my life all of the sudden. Im so angry, hurt, confused and scared. I love my bf and dont want to lose him, but i really dont see a way out. HELP ME???

2006-12-27 13:09:16 · 3 answers · asked by exotichina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a women while traveling on a train from Oregon to California. Our conversation was wonderful, very natural and exciting. We were seat mates the entire 19 hour journey, 2pm to 9am.This woman was from Europe, and me from the eastern U.S., both of us on holiday in the western U.S.

I felt very attracted to this women in many ways, with looks not the first of my attraction.
She being a few years older then me both of us in our 20’s. After dinner together, we were sitting next together in our seats reading. I felt an extreme desire to share some physical touch with this women. Leaning against her, holding hands.

So I asked her if i "could lean against her". She said no. Her answer wasn't a shock to me, but a let down to say the least. I've since felt a bit confused. After she said No to my request we continued to read and talk, our relationship not changing.

Was I wrong in thinking that some physical contact such as leaning on her shoulder was to much to ask for?

2006-12-27 13:08:59 · 17 answers · asked by Mr. Honeycomb 2 in Singles & Dating

Just shut the f**k up. He and his family treat me like cow poop. I need the strength to leave and file for divorce. Can anyone give me any advice and I am disabled so I'm on a limited income?

2006-12-27 13:08:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do women know when a guy is use them for sexs
theres a guy at my work that use them as sex dolls
dont women know that there being used
y keep going out with this guy

2006-12-27 13:08:05 · 7 answers · asked by tony b 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am crazy i mean crazyyyyyy in love with this boy i was in denial for about two months that he was nobody to me but i finally realize that i cant stop thinking about him. so okay we have been dating and he use to call alot but all of a sudden he doesnt call. i dont want to be that physco girlfriend that stalks her boyfriend and im only 15. But now that i realize that i just can not lose this guy. he is 17 now and the last thing he wants is a annoying girlfriend. What ive been doing is text messaging him and only then does he answer but now he doesnt answer does that mean he is cheating and isn;t interested in me anymore? Im starting to feel that way watching sad movies not wanting to go out with my frieds anymore but i guess i should just get over it because it really isnt that serious he is just a boy who cares........ok that is the denial im talking about I THINK ABOUT MY BF ALL THE TIME HOW DA HELL AM I SUPPOSE TO JUST GET OVER HIM I CANT CALL HIM IM TOO SHY??????????????

2006-12-27 13:06:12 · 2 answers · asked by da_luvable 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I married my husband for 5 yrs. Early of this year, we start staying at two different state because of his job. We will visit each other once or twice a week. Everything was fine until he found out that i still keep in contact with one of my ex-admirer (who is also my ex-classmate).
I keep reassure him that we were just friend (indeed this is the truth). He's already got a gf too. But he is so mad that he wont believe.
It's been 3 months after the incident, but he is still suspecting me. I still go visit him twice a week. But when i'm not with him, he'll call to check on me. If i were late from work, he'll suspect that i'm with others. If i can't answer his call on time, he'll suspect me dating with others.
I was sick 3 days ago. I slept once i was back from work. He called a few times but can't get me on call (probably i slept too tight). He then accused me for seeing others and ignore his call. He even don't answer my call till today.
What should I do? How can i gain back his trust?

2006-12-27 13:05:40 · 11 answers · asked by MiNnIe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

- a man that knows how to treat a woman
- a man that knows how to take a woman out
- a man that is secure with his self
- a man that wants a good woman

2006-12-27 13:05:09 · 14 answers · asked by alluremn 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months now...I know of a few times he has cheated on me...When we are together we have a lot of fun and Iove spending time with him..and it seems the same way on his end...Why is it when he leaves my sight it seems that everything goes out the window...Is it bad that I still love him a lot even though he has done this?

2006-12-27 13:04:19 · 27 answers · asked by getembigger_85027 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-12-27 13:02:45 · 3 answers · asked by ronne@phusionentertainment.com 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years going on 4 in March and sometimes I feel like he's starting to get tired of me. Should I try and open relationship or not? We've talked about it and he said it doesn't matter to him. I mean I would rather him do the open relationship then to cheat.....I just don't know though so have you ever been in one? What is it like? Is it worth it?

2006-12-27 13:01:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't understand why men don't ask me out. I am plus size but i'm cute and curvy in allthe right places.I am nice and talk-ative but not ver agressive.I believe the man should pursue the woman. I mean come on I am 20 and never been on a real date date. Be honest.

2006-12-27 13:00:33 · 1 answers · asked by levite_april 2 in Singles & Dating

with his name only? I am the step mom and she is always doing other various hateful things. These children are 22 and 20.

2006-12-27 13:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So our relationship started out with sex, but grew into something which I thought was a real connection. I feel like I've made a mistake by telling her how much I like her and how I'd like to make more out of our relationship. Is it true that girls don't wanna hear that kind of thing? She has mentioned how incredible the sex is and how she wishes she would have found me sooner, but we have been having sex less and less often. Sometimes it feels like pulling teeth when I ask her to hang out with me. It's really hard to make set plans with her because she's so busy, but I feel like I'm not much of a priority to her. Is there anything I can do to figure out where I stand with her?

2006-12-27 12:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by girls are confusing 1 in Singles & Dating

But more than anybody else I know. I watch a movie or something, which involves cheating, and it bothers me so much to the point that it feels like I've been cheated on.
It's weird because I've never been cheated on. I don't understand why I react so strongly (compared to others) to simply watching a story about other people cheating on each other.
Does this happen to anyone else?

2006-12-27 12:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by Megan 3 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex that i ws with for 3 years and we lived togather for two of those years. The end of the relationship got bad from stress and just not showing affection. I know that i pushed her awawy with my actions and i regret it. We been broken up for 3 months now at first i was begging her for another chance and she told me that we have to be friends first and that she knew that we would be togather still if i didnt act the way i was at the end. Meantime i was gettin her back she would treat me like i was a nobody hang up on me yell at me just things i didnt deserve so i just gave up and didnt call her nemore its been 3 weeks or so since then and she has been calling me alot lately and she wants me to hang out with her what should i do and what are her intentions

2006-12-27 12:59:29 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 12:59:01 · 12 answers · asked by sha7485 1 in Singles & Dating

which do you prefer and why? Just wondering!

also skin tone (be if fake spray on tan or real)... tan, light, dark?

2006-12-27 12:57:38 · 2 answers · asked by chocogummibunni 1 in Singles & Dating

i love 3 boys and 2 of them are cute and 1 is cute sometimes but that one ugly duckling is the one i love the most because he is nice and he is my friend and he goes to my church so whichh one should i hump the poop out of all night? wait, the ugly says love ya to me. and he dresses preppy wich i hate. but his face and body is cute.

2006-12-27 12:57:07 · 5 answers · asked by Leni ann 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance has a child from a previous marriage and his ex wife has full custody. My fiance has a legal document stating he doesnt have to pay any child support, although he does anyways...however, my parents went through a paralegal course over 10yrs ago and told me under NO circumstance is a father not to pay, even if he doesnt see his child. Im confused.

2006-12-27 12:56:28 · 26 answers · asked by exotichina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 12:55:29 · 19 answers · asked by Lil Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

he wants me to stay out late with him but i have practice and school and everything and i have to work on weekends so it takes its toll on me and i try to tell him but he wants to hang out... i do like him a lot but it doesn't seem like he realises what he is putting me through. also he doesn't always listen to what i have to say and he asks me for money to get stuff sometimes which doesn't really bug me but hes old enough to get a job. and also we plan to be together when we are older but he promised his dad he would help him out with the bills and everything and i am not going to work just to pay someone elses bills... what should i do??

2006-12-27 12:55:12 · 25 answers · asked by drunken_monkeys101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 12:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by T c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you consider, or have you had "negotiated arrangement relationships"? If so how did they turn out? I am wondering if I just lucked out (my arrangements have been great so far).

2006-12-27 12:54:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the friends who don't like fantasy r really nice but we don't like anything the same i have a couple friends who do support me but the other friends hate them i need help plz!

2006-12-27 12:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by will_bloom_hinata 1 in Friends